Does porn ever mess with your emotions?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes when I watch porn at first it makes me feel like I need to hit the gym, I need to go on dating apps, I need to start having hookups like in amateur porn.
It tells me that all women are sluts and a guy is only as valuable as his dick is.
Then after I cum I immediately feel like I hate women and don't need to go anywhere near them. Is that normal?

[Anonymous]

I kinda get what you're saying. You're horny, not getting any like a lot of guys and realize that girls are getting lots and lots of sex/relationships with only "some" guys. You get off, but then resent women and your body for needing them.

[Asker]

Not exactly. I was in long relationships and witnessed first hand how slutty women can be. Now I get horny like anyone else, but I just jerk off, then I don't want women because I've been through hell in relationships with them.

[Opinion Owner]

Got it, pretty much you've actually gone through shit and have resentment, me, Not gone through shit only been overlooked. Similar, but not

[Asker]

Yeah I'm combining my real life experiences with women, with the way porn basically confirms everything I've been through.

[boggboss]

Lol u let it have way too much influence in your feelings mate lol

[Asker]

It's kinda hard to tell what's real and what isn't sometimes. Women on gag talk a good game, but sometimes it's just virtue signalling. Women in amateur porn are real and doing slutty things so what do believe. What women say here, or what you see them do? Not to mention, some of them talk about being slutty on gag as well.

[boggboss]

U understand the people that do porn the women in porn is not close to tha majority right?

[boggboss]

Its not hard to know what real when u understand how many things work

[Asker]

How do you know what the majority do?

[Asker]

You're idealistic man.

[boggboss]

Because whilst porn is massive it'd hardly close to being as big as it would be if most people did porn u understand there are billions of women out their right many oppose to even watching let alone being in it you are surrounding yourself with women that are sexual then getting upset and thinking thats what all women are like

[boggboss]

No im realistic u are going off your feelings not the information that's out there the simple fact that u know pron causes such a issue in your life yet u continue to consume it shows u are not mentaly equipped to use it it no wonder u let it essently dictate how u feel towards women

[Asker]

It's just that every woman I ever dated was a slut and a cheater too. They either cheated on me or cheated on someone else with me. Then I watch them do it in porn and I just feel like everything is a competition. The biggest dick wins and whatever thoughts you may have about love and acceptance are actually the minority.

[boggboss]

Shows that like I said u have surrounded yourself with women that are shit and in turn then wonder why they have acted shit if u feel women in porn are a reflection of real life u are spending too much time online even on amateur porn u are searching via category so ofc u will find what u are searching for you are not seeing a reflection of women but the same type of women mate

[Asker]

With all due respect you're living in a Disney dream world. Like a Made for TV movie where women are angels, not cocksuckers.

[boggboss]

No im not I'm living with a understanding that many people in the world are shit thats a known fact but not all women are whores u have been hurt and damaged before and then turned to shitty women to get your fix and watch porn and now allowed it to fester in your mind and let u think that women are a hivemind and this is how they all are which is fine I guess as the only one effected by it is yourself so I guess agree to disagree

[Asker]

I'm jaded, but jaded doesn't mean incorrect.

[boggboss]

But thats the thing u are jaded and incorrect that ur claim is most women are like this yet dont see that women that are like this must be hooking up with men that play a part in this view u have of the world that u are not capable of seeing that this is not a thing exclusive to women but done by people male and female shows this is more so u being jaded from past expirance and not factual

[Asker]

How the hell are my actual life experiences not factual in comparison to your idealistic perception of the world that's reinforced by what? Hopes and dreams?

[boggboss]

Because your lives expirance is just that your not a overview of the actual world but your tiny interaction with it thats not even objective as u have surrounded yourself with the same type of people my what I'm saying i have been saying I'm not mostly using my lived expirance but the fact that their are billions of people put their that think differently ofc u will be able to form groups where people act the same but to claim that most women do porn or act like hoes is incorrect unless there is a equal number of men that enjoy and want these type of women if I was to use mu own expirances I know plenty more men then women personly that are willing to cheat this dont mean more men cheat in life just that I know men that cheat

[boggboss]

Also just to clarify I don't think women are angels or perfect by any means I pretty much explained that there are plenty out there that are shit will break your heart and cheat with no care but this is not exclusive to women but part of people which many are shit

[Asker]

Good people are few and far between, that's how the world actually works. Everyone else is likely gonna fuck you over. I'm 42 years old I didn't just pull this information out of my ass. People are sexual, and most people these days are shit.

[boggboss]

Yes there we go u are now changing from it being women to it being most people which again I would disagree most people would fuck u over better statement is most people simply don't care yes there are many that would fuck u over I'm sure about that but u will find most are too invested in their own life to attempt to fuck u over yes people are sexual these days because its become the common norm but being sexual dont mean someone is then garuntied to cheat also claiming most people are shit these days is also most likely false its simply u are capable of exposing yourself to other people in a way u was not capable of doing in the past so u are now just getting a honest reflection of how many dickgeads are out their

[Asker]

I never said most men aren't shit too, my question was just focussed on women because that's what affects me. If you think that most people won't cheat you're in for a rude awakening in your next 10, 15 years. Things happen and most people are weak to temptations. If you have a relationship don't get too comfortable because your wonderful girlfriend can be sucking so. e other guy's cock so fast it will make your head spin. Good luck.

[boggboss]

Meh like I said at that point let's agree to disagree worst case u will be forever alone and ill get cheated on either way we are the only ones effected by the way we think 👍🏽

[Asker]

Alone, or I'm gonna go be a man slut, or I'll get a girlfriend that I don't trust. I've seen your future though because I lived it already. Just remember women aren't as perfect as we hope.

[boggboss]

Never said women are perfect mate and the points u provided about how your life may go u clearly ain't happy with other wise u wouldn't be here asking this question and no u have not viewed my life because we u lived your life differently from me believing at one point women where perfect I have never viewed them that way but meh

[Asker]

You've got youthful optimism on your side. Hey if you're lucky you might be one of those guys who grows old with his wife and never knew about all the other guys she fucked throughout your relationship. Ignorance truly is bliss for a lot of guys.

[boggboss]

Lol I don't I just have a realistic understanding of the world but again we are talking about things that u will never know what happens and will effect me only which is pointless she may cheat she may not she could die which makes it so she never did or we could break up and and never be tested only a clown worries about things outside their control

[Asker]

You got it all figured out, but deep down you know I'm right. There's a reason that you encounter so many angry, frustrated men on the internet. There's a reason that every other song on the radio is about a woman cheating, leaving, or being cold. There's a reason most of the fantasies women talk about on gag are being gang banged, having a 3 way with 2 other guys, or they ask questions about their cheating every day. It isn't a coincidence.

[Asker]

These are patterns.

[boggboss]

Lol no I know deep down that u have been hurt in life and damaged and was never fixed just continued to live your life the reason there are so many damaged guys online likeyourself is because its easier to stay angry at what happened then face the reality that u got played and hurt by picking someone that was not trustworthy the reason some women on gag have these fantasies is because the women that tend to openly talk about sexual things tend to be more sexual by nature lol that u think most songs on the radio are about women cheating amply shows how jaded u are at the end of the day that dont even need a rebuttle

[boggboss]

Lol with the amount of information that's out there u are capable of finding any type of patterns if that's what u want u could find plenty of studies that show men are incapable of commitment or loyalty and they will provide patterns for why it applies for all males let's not be silly here

[Asker]

You're naive, I used to think like you believe it or not. You won't accept what I'm saying because it goes against everything you've been taught. Unfortunately that's why when reality hits is gonna be a shock for you like it was for me.

[boggboss]

Lol like I said u and me had two complete differnt views u believed women where perfect I never had its easy to claim we where the same but from what u have said its clear we was not again its the words of a damaged man believing his lived expirance is how most men get through life its not

[Asker]

You think you know better, just like I did at your age.

[boggboss]

Lol no I just know the word of a damaged man is hardly reliable information

[Asker]

It's called life experiences and it's far more valuable than youthful idealism. You haven't lived enough or been married as long as I was. I've had many relationships. I hope by some chance you only encounter good people, but it isn't realistic. Gag is full of idealists and clueless people to be honest with you. You are a smart guy, I've seen you around, but you lack experience to know what women are truly capable of.

[boggboss]

Lol only a fool baises him life expirance only on his own the difference between us is u are only using your whilst I'm using mine and the people I surround myself with in which I have a amazing view of men and women I have seen friend go through court battles to see there children others being played and growing kids that ain't theirs seen the effects of sexual abuse can do to a women when it comes from her father and how that fucks her up or having a friend that juggled multiple gfs at the same time and none of them ever finding out about the others and these are all from people I know and trust so I assure u I know how women and men can be and just how shitty some people are 👍🏽

[Asker]

I also have witnessed everyone around me go through the same shit. I don't honestly know one woman who hasn't cheated at some point, including my family. I've been through a lot of it, and seen a lot of it too. I think we can agree that there's good reasons to be cautious in relationships, and lots of people do lie and cheat. That's part of why amateur porn affects me dramatically. It's because I know from experience that it's closer to the truth than the other crap people watch on television and in movies.

[boggboss]

Well thats it then where u have only known shit women I know a few that are not which is fair enough caution in relationships should be a standerd as trust can be easly broken but for me no the stuff I see in porn is not a reflection of real life

[Asker]

Keep in mind, that those wonderful women you know can change over time. Every woman I was in relationships with acted like a good person when we met. It's the shit that happens later on in the relationship that you're gonna have to watch out for. Keep in mind that most women don't end one relationship without already having another man.

[boggboss]

These women I never stated where wonderfull and understand that by that same logic every man I know is a potential rapist which again I know things are shit but they ain't that shit

[Asker]

Again this isn't about male rapists or whatever, I'm talking about women and slut behaviour in particular. You can try to deflect and see the world with rose colored glasses, but it isn't gonna, change the truth. I can't teach you anything, just like the older guys couldn't tell me a fucking thing about women when I was in my 20's. I figured they were assholes, and I was a good guy, and women were fine.

[Asker]

I just trusted women blindly. 😂

[boggboss]

Its not deflection its showing u have believing all women are 1 thing is a flawed way to live life u trusting women as a whole blindly clearly u was a fool I have stated at many points I'm not u I never have u can't teach me because u have nothing to teach but your own damaged logic

[Asker]

You're just contradicting yourself. You say you don't trust women, you never saw them as perfect, but yet you know "Good ones", but yet you watched all your friends lives go to shit and somehow you think my life experiences are invalid because you don't want to hear it. You're all over the map my friend. It's like playing basketball against somebody who's shooting on both hoops and telling me I don't know how to play.

[boggboss]

Lol how so one is capable of not blindly trusting women as a whole and capable of drawing a conclusion of a women after getting to know her the same way u should with any person u interact with I gave examples of interactions I personly know off because u seem yo think I have this view on women that they can do no wrong where I have never felt I just understand that not all women fit into the world view u have that they are all cheaters when I know for a fact that's false and just the ravings of a damaged man that blames all women for the wrongs done to you 🤷🏽‍♂️ not really sure what more to say here again we can agree to disagree but I simply don't see what your saying as the view of the world just how yours has been

[Asker]

It isn't just my experience, that's the part that's gonna be shocking to you later on. I know you can't grasp this right now, I get it. Every man has to learn for himself.

[boggboss]

At this point its whatever ain't it like I said before if it happens I'm the only one effected if it dont ill live my life happy you would never know either way so 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Asker]

That's true, it's just that you were very certain that I didn't know what I was talking about. The problem with that statement is that I know almost too much about women at this point. I really have analysed my marriage, my relationships and figured out some of the shit they were up to. Women are beautiful, sexy, cute, even sweet at times, but they are also inconsistent, emotional, opportunistic and they can change their minds about you very easily. They get bored in relationships and then shit happens, but like you said, your life isn't my problem, I hope the best for you. I'm not sure what more we need to discuss.

[boggboss]

👍🏽

[bones_20]

If it has such a negative affect on you why do you keep watching it? 🤔
Maybe you should stop.

[Asker]

I get horny and I'm looking for the truth. I watch women cheat, I watch them do all the nasty things they talk about doing on Gag. Then I lose all respect for them after I cum.

[bones_20]

Ok then.