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It's a common misconception that womens vaginas get loose if they are promiscuous but logically this does not make sense, if regular sex makes you loose then women in long term relationships would get loose as well, right? But that's not the case, is it?
My theory is that women who have regular sex, well women who orgasm often will in fact be tighter than women who don't. It's a well know fact that kegel exercises help tighten the vagina muscles and when you orgasm it contracts your muscles therefore keep you tight. To me this makes logical sense, I have had a lot of sex and I am still nice and tight lol
A couple years ago I even dabbled in stretching and fisting, we managed to get his whole fist up there and let me tell you, that is not easy but it did feel amazing!! I was in pain for a few days following but about a week later, I was back to normal.
When women are aroused their muscles loosen up a little to allow the penis to enter, this is normal so sometimes it may not feel as tight but that doesn't mean she is a slut, it means you're doing something right and she is really turned on!
Of course age and genetics play it's part but ladies, the key to keeping your coochie tight is to bang your little hearts out.
Have sex, stay tight!
What Girls & Guys Said
28 55No, but having babies might.
Nope not even childbirth
Your theory is wrong.
The theory that I have was developed from observations. There is an inverse correlation between tightness and weight (not BMI), Asians tend to be tighter than whites and blacks, and women who have had natural childbirth are loosey goosey.
What observational data do you have?
You're very confusing, you say it's weight but not BMI then you go on to talk about race.. wtf?
Your question is about "looseness" or inversely it is also about tightness. Weight matters, not BMI, because a girl who is tiny, 4'11" might have the same BMI as someone who is tall, 5'10", but the tiny girl is more likely to be tighter. Since your question is about looseness, and inversely tightness, Asian women are more likely to be tighter than other races for the same physique. No discussion comparing the tightness or looseness is complete without noting racial and natural childbirth differences.
I don't imagine you've slept with enough women of different races to be able to come to that conclusion lol
You would imagine wrong.
Well seeing as my 5 minutes of reasearch said you're wrong, I'm gonna stick to my original theory.
Yeah, your 5 minutes is probably better than my 20 something years of observations and that several hundred page report of the study by a team of academics.
please show me this study?
I said I can't remember the name of it or the authors. It was in a good sized book. Don't confuse it with Masters & Johnson, that is not the same as I am talking about.
Ok yeah, my 5 minutes of research definitely obliterates your theory lol
lol please don't be having sex. you are uneducated beyond belief. Race has nothing to do with looseness, it's about genetics. UMMM I have been with black girls who were loose beyond belief. It has to do with skin elasticity. and the childbirth thing... ONCE AGAIN, you are uneducated. Many women who have had kids are still tight. Why? because they work out, but also are "genetically blessed" in that department. I have worked with amazing gynecologists who have had over 40 years experience and I have led sex/relationship groups. you my friend, are very very wrong
@montey "Race has nothing to do with looseness, it's about genetics. " Last time I checked, race is determined by genetics. "I have been with black girls who were loose beyond belief." As have I. "Many women who have had kids are still tight." Yes, I know one. She is Asian. She had C-sections.
keep telling yourself lies. As I said, I go to one of the best gynecologists. The "looseness" has to do with skin elasticity. MANY WOMEN on here are saying the same thing, how it bounces back after sex and birth... you men seem to be the only ones arguing how OUR bodies work
ahhh so you are a man whore. well glad you think it is impressive you have a high body count. And, umm that isn't true. I am bisexual and have slept with tiny girls who were not tight, and bigger girls who were. god you are so dumb and that kinda proves that you are lying about your high body count because nay guy who has had lots of sex experience would know that small girls can be loose lol
@montey I said there is a correlation. I didn't say it was deterministic. Learn how to analyze data.
funny, because you've done the same :D and seeing how this is a discussion, yes I have replied to people who are constantly tagging me in things. Aggressive? If having a discussion is your definiton of aggressive, then I am unsure how you survive the real world.
It isn't how loose or tight your pussy is that makes you a slut. It's about having slovenly activity and behavior.
You're absolutely right. Having lots of sex doesn't make a girl "loose."
Are you are taking the piss? or are you in agreement?
@Philyouup No, I'm agreeing with the OP. The whole idea that having lots of sex makes a girl's vagina loose is ridiculous.
Sorry , i must have been tired and miss read your post...
No, not like that. By that way of definition, pregnant women should have a basketball loop. You usually call someone loose when they'll be with anyone.
No, many people are under the impression that promiscuous women's vaginas are not tight. I get told this all the time and not by people I sleep with.
Yes, promiscuous chicks should wear a 'I'm Tight' t-shirt or something cause you know, misunderstandings.
Why so salty?
That makes sound logic to me and agrees with everything I know on the subject.
No. Thats what babies are for.
The vagina is designed to push a child through and retain its original shape, I doubt that a dick is going to make much difference.
glad to see some men know what they are talking about. Yes, the vagina goes back after babies, but remember that how tight or loose is about genetics. it's elasticity of the skin
@montey WRONG Its about the muscle folding back. Glad women don't know what they are talking about either
@MarcoIsAFailure lol that muscle still has to do with genetics. I really suggest you educate yourself. you must be one of those types that believe if a woman misses a few birth control pills, she will be fine. I've been to many gynos to know what's true and what's false. i've been to male gynos as well who have said the same thing and PROVEN how it has everything to do with genetics. Now, go back to learning lies from the internet and your "bros"
@montey Never said it doesn't have to do with genetics... Maybe learn to comprehend an argument before being all pretentious about it and tell other people to educate themselves. Also, maybe don't run from gyno to gyno, but actually listen to what they say. Nobody of them will have told you, that a cunt can get back to shape because the skin is so elastic...
@MarcoIsAFailure I actually did, and yes you did. Perhaps read over your own comments and get properly informed. skin elasticity IS genetics, you moron. Some have tighter skin than others, that has to do with genetics. You and several other men think because a woman has a baby, her vagina is damaged. That is all INCORRECT. Now, I am not going to argue with a man about a FEMALE body. have a great night, and I pray you do actual research and speak to a professional. also, why would you be talking to a gynecologist about female bodies? that is a bit disturbing, but to each their own
@montey OMG. I am not sure whether to just block you or enjoy the freak show... Yes, skin elasticity is also determined by genetics. How the cunt muscle folds is genetics. Doesn't mean at all, that skin elasticity has something to do with a cunt being loose. Eye color is genetic too, you know? Does having brown eyes make your cunt tighter? Praying? So you are religious? Fits the math. Not surprised.
@montey Also I did actually said the polar opposite of the cunt being permanently damage after child birth... I hope you are a troll, then you are doing a fucking great job.
@MarcoIsAFailure impossible for me to be a troll when you're the one harassing me with condescending paragraphs. Lol eye color? that isn't even the same part of the body. I am laughing at your stupidity :DDDD
skin elasticity has to do with the vagina being tight or loose. Learn your facts, and please use examples that actually hold weight
@montey It was meant to be stupid, so that you would finally get it. I'd call "troll confirmed". NOBODY can be too stupid to get that. Have a nice day, good job trolling. You're great at it.
@MarcoIsAFailure It's so nice to see you expressing your insecurities about yourself. that's a good start to getting the professional help you need. You are what you call others
@montey Being a troll is a choice. Why should I be insecure about it? You really want to make me reconsider it and just call you retarded, don't you? Either way, you start to bore me to death. So enjoy being blocked.
@montey you really need to calm down, you've replied to almost everybody and you're also so bitchy and aggressive.
@MarcoIsAFailure thank you for blocking me. That is what is best for you and your insecurities
@montey You seriously need to calm the fuck down or I'm going to block you. Go have an argument on someone else's opinion, this shit's getting annoying.
@montey Stop being such a fucking bitch, there is no need for it. Of course nobody is going to take younor your opinion seriously if you're gonna act like a cunt to everyone.
I'm not the one acting like that. Listen to the way you talk. hard to call me a bitch when you use profanity every other word. have a nice day
@montey using profanity doesn't make someone a bitch, your shitty attitude is what makes you a bitch. You have replied to so many people's comments attacking them because they don't agree with you. you need to calm down
oh honey, you contradict yourself. here you are, replying to every comment, including mine. so, you saying that I do that is invalid when you are doing the same. I hope you one day get the help you need :)
@404filenotfound if it's annoying you, not sure why you'd keep tagging me in your replies... perhaps that is how you handle your annoyance
@montey First of all, I tagged you in ONE post besides this one and that was to let you know that you're being fucking annoying.
@montey this is my question so of course I'm going to reply to everything 🤦🏻♀️
@404filenotfound whatever makes you feel better. I see you like my attention which is why you keep replying :)
weird. I didn't know you owned questions on a site that isn't yours lol
@montey Are you aware of how passive aggressive you're being? Are you trolling or did someone just hurt you because I sincerely have trouble believing that someone can be as much of a toxic human being as you seem to be. I don't hate you, I just feel sorry for you. Please tell me why you're so bitter and I'll try to help you.
@montey well I do own this question because I asked it, of course I'm going to respond to all of them because I am the one who wrote this my take. You on the other hand come on here and attack anyone who doesn't agree with you, nobody is going to take you seriously. You're in your 30's and you still don't know how to talk to people.
@404filenotfound as I said, you are the one constantly tagging me so I reply. I know you are trying to pin your lack of self-worth on me, as that is common in people who struggle with their own identity. again, hopefully you get the help you need
@pretty-kitty I am sorry you do not understand that people have different opinions. the only toxic person is you, my dear as you are not rational enough to comprehend people think differently. Now this matter isn't opinionated, but again I will allow you to live in your delusions, as that seems to be Cathartic for you
@montey you seem really confused about what's going on here, you're opinion isn't the issue it's you attacking everyone and being a bitch that's the issue.
@montey When you're ready to talk about it, I'm willing to listen.
@404filenotfound sorry, I have nothing to talk about, however I'm sure there are great therapists where you live to discuss your internal issues :)
@pretty-kitty again, I understand you are deeply troubled, and cannot comprehend properly. I hope one day you find a better way to deal with your supressed emotions. Best of luck to you
@montey seems like you're projecting lol
@pretty-kitty If saying that makes you feel better about your own insecurities, then I understand. You are irrational and need help and hopefully one day you will find someone who can tend to your delusions
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When I am hardcore trolling like this, I get bored pretty fast. But not you, montey. I'm deeply impressed.
@MarcoIsAFailure it's not trolling at all. it's having a discussion... big difference. If you're done trolling, I'm confused as to why you just responded again
@montey I just wanted to compliment you on your persistence, as I am deeply impressed this was still going. I remain with my interpretation of this being "trolling". You can't be that stupid. Also, that's not a discussion what you're having, even if you were serious. I call you either a troll or retarded. That's not me having a discussion with you.
"if regular sex makes you loose..."
I don't think they say it's regular sex that makes them loose. The asumption people make is that they are having regular sex with guys who have larger than average dicks.
Well then how much people always say sluts must have loose vaginas? They don't know what they've been fucking. Either way it doesn't make a girl loose anyway.
sluts often have lots of sex and choose guys who have rough sex and have big dicks so its pretty obvious where the loose myth came from, having sex with a 9 incher that thrusts like a rocker launcher is not the same as a 6-7 incher that is gentley penetrating you, maybe your current boyfriend is big and is not feeling the change but choose a guy with average penis and he will think he just entered a cave.
@Z-Spark length of the penis is irrelevant lol if a cock was going to make a vagina loose it would be thick cocks but they don't anyway so doesn't matter.
@Z-Spark oh and I don't have a boyfriend, I have sex for a living and sleep with men of all different sizes and it's always nice and tight.
so you're a whore in short? makes sense iam done arguing with you , can't argue with a whore
Liking sex and doing it a lot is not Slutty... doing dirty things in bed may be slutty but what's the problem... I don't know about pussy (I don't have one...) but the butt do get loose if you do it a lot, it's a muscle after all...
Trash talk!
Yes. A girl who is having regular sex or sex with a thick penis will definitely be looser then the less promiscuous less sexed vagina. A girl who exercises will maintain a tighter one too. But we should concentrate on the std issue here. Condoms do not protect against herpes and hpv.
by the way I've had this discussion with my girlfriends years ago and they all agreed. One was screwing a guy with a huge penis and She said he stretched her out. When she had sex with an average guy she felt loose
Just because everyone agreed that doesn't make it true lol I don't agree so maybe grays true too?
Tightness has to do with the pelvic floor muscles.
Lol yes and orgasms contract and release the kegels which is the same actions we use to work out of kegel muscles.
That is true, so we can say that sex is a workout.
It's sexercise!
Nope. I have known some girls (in the Biblical sense) who were very active and they were quite snug. And others who weren't and weren't so snug.
No its not true.
It's the same for your vagina if you have sex with 300 different men and if you have sex with the same man 300 times. The muscles don't know the difference.
Good succinct explanation.
My god. No, it's muscle tone - called kegels. Google it.
It has nothing to do with how much sex you have.
And yes, if you shove a lot of oversized things in there it will stretch out.
I don't need to google it lol orgasms contract and release the kegel muscles which is the exact same action don't when training your kegel muscles.
Uh, no. A ten second orgasm simply isn't the same as doing kegels. Silly girl! I like your attitude though - do it well and do it often. [clap]
"A ten second orgasm" wow lol never given a woman multiple orgasms?
I've given multiples butvihad to help her to per cuz she was so tired
All of this is very true. Its why i laugh and feel sorry for men that base their decisions to date girls on number of partners because they might be "loose" or dirty some how. The stupid is strong with them. Very good my take
men of high value don't date sluts
@greatgoo that depends on what you think a man of high value is, to me a man of high value doesn't judge people and belittle them. That does for women too actually.
Exactly @pretty-kitty I'm betting that i am not high value enough for @greatgoo lol.. Well im married so im obviously high value to someone.. and by the way @greatgoo, you're 19, you're a baby to me so id value your opinion quite a lot less than say my wife, or @pretty-kitty
not dating sluts doesn't mean belittling people
you admitted that your wife is a slut lol/ i said men of high value don't date sluts and you said then you are not a man of high value to me hahahahahahahaha
@greatgoo At no point did i say she was a slut. I love how people like you like to invent things. Soy are delusional as well as having a striking lack of intelligence. what you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone on this site is now dumber for having read it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul
It makes a girl loose in the sense of low morality
That's not what we're taking about though, is it?
well, when I read the title it sounded more of a morality question. Reread your title.
I don't need to reread my title, the title could mean either but the description clarifies it so...
well, both will be a yes, Yes loose morality and Yes loose Vagina. SO...
Except a lot of sex doesn't make a woman loose lol
Except a lot of different sexual partners does make a woman loose lol
Different penis sizes, Different STD'S, etc.
Different penis sizes and STD's does loosen a vagina, that's what we're talking about here which you're well aware of but you are clueless so... 😂😂
how can I be clueless I just answered your question correctly?
How so?
I said "Different penis sizes, Different STD'S, etc" you replied confirming my answer by saying "Different penis sizes and STD's does loosen a vagina" You basically said it DOES loosen a vagina, hence you confirmed my answer... Duh.. Lmao.
Simple typo, it doesn't. If you really think that STD's loosen a vagina then you're dumber than I thought.
Hahaha, blaming your stupidity on a typo, go back to school and take more English classes before talking about vaginas, little kid
you basically admitted that STD's loosen vaginas, dang, you must be borderline.
Yep, definitely dumber than I first thought 😂
I really hope you're trolling me because if you're actually this stupid, that's really sad.
Hahaha, You feel ashamed don't you? pretty-herpes?
or do you prefer the nick name pretty-chlamydia? LOL. You trying to belittle me so you can make your loose self feel better, well, pretty-chlamydia, you are still loose either way.
So I'm belittling you to feel better about myself, why are you belittling me?
Many women just don't realize they have muscles down there for a reason xD
If your trying to justify being a slut then you must feel bad about it to begin with. Women do get fucked out. You can barely touch the edges they get fucked so much. You get a tighter ride punching air with your cock. It's a fact
Why do people keep saying I'm justifying being a slut? What about it justifies it? Guys are so weird.
We're smarter. You read between the lines and you can see the motivation. Your trying to justify being a slut and want us to pat you on the head and make you feel better about it. If you don't know just by writing something your giving away a helluva lot more than you intend to then your really stupid
So why not answer my question? What exactly about this post justifies my slutty ways?
Haha read the closing comment
So weird that you can't answer my question.
Is it just me or is it you? Maybe I'm the nutter here. Didn't I just do that?
Nah it's you, you made a statement and you can't back it up.
Your like a fuckin slow boomerang. You'll find your way back eventually, sure a night follows day. Your really thick sweetheart do you know that? I just laid it out like I would a 5 year old and you're still banging on I can't back myself up. Try less for drama and more for common sense. Any fool can see your looking to justify being a slut. Are you that deluded you though you were doing something else? You need a gadget from a sci-fi movie to cure that kinda nuts
Maybe I am thick coz I am failed to see how this justifies being a slut? Also I don't see anything wrong with being a slut so why would I feel the need to justify it?