Does sex feel better if you cum in someone you love? How do you know if you love the person or just the sex?

[poneglyphs]

Just wondering if there's a difference and if it's easy to tell if you love her or the sex?

[HighlyVolatile]

I'd echo the answer that love doesn't necessarily translate to sexual compatibility. Looks don't necessarily either.

It's hard not to fall for a girl though after sleeping with her if your sexual compatibility is through the roof. As for telling whether you love her or the sex in this case, it's quite simple. You'll just want to have sex mostly if that's all you love about her. You'll want to do a whole lot more than that together if not.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, damm well I don't know anything about this or relationships 😕. Thanks for the info

[HighlyVolatile]

For me anyway, loving a woman is easy. I tend to love even my friends, maybe even strangers in a way. I care about their well-being. I'm wired to love and care about other people easily, and I value commitment. But falling madly in love is very difficult. I've only done that two times in my life after having sex with them, and the second I married.

[poneglyphs]

So, that's why people fall in love with someone even though she's bad for you

[HighlyVolatile]

Cheers! I still loved all my exes in a way, but only two women among them made me completely smitten after the first time I slept with them. All others were like just a physical release. Nice but not amazing. It's sort of like after the 10th time you have sex with those, you feel like sort of like, "Been there, done that." Not bad but when the sexual compatibility is through the roof (and for me this has very little to do with her sexual skills or how great-looking she is, but more just like how well you both love everything you do, the way you move, the way you talk, sound), you don't get that "been there, done that" feeling even after the hundredth time. The hundredth time seems as good or better as the first.

[HighlyVolatile]

Yeah, the first one I fell for was really bad for me. She was diagnosed bipolar and shit-tested me all the time. I fell in love with her in the bedroom because, there, it was special. It sounds cheesy but for example, the first time we ever slept together, I was on top of her and she was below and we both tried to kiss each other exactly at the same time and bumped heads. Then we both laughed and, exactly at the same time, asked each other if we were okay. That might not sound so romantic or sexy but it was like that; sort of like how some couples can complete each other's sentences (without having talked about the subject yet; they're just on the exact same frequency) but in a sexual way.

[HighlyVolatile]

We were so wrong for each other but so right in the bedroom. She was my third girlfriend and she said I changed her mind about sex. She didn't realize it could be so amazing, and she changed my mind the same way. Then the relationship went to shit at some point but the sex was on a whole new level. We couldn't keep our hands off each other. I didn't think I'd find like that again between multiple women after, but then I finally met my now-wife and we had that as well, and we were also really good for each other.

[Anonymous]

Loving someone doesn't mean you are automatically going to enjoy sex with them.

You may find yourself falling for someone with whom you will be so incompatible sexually that the idea of having sex with them won't even seem exciting.

I've had girlfriends I hated having sex with, and I've had hookups whose annoying guts I hated but couldn't stop thinking about mounting.

[poneglyphs]

Oh , really well that's news to me I never had a relationship ley alone hookups.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, sex is a big deal, it can both make but also break relationships. There are expectations, there are boundaries and implications. Maintaining sexual life and chemistry is actually one of the more complex aspects of a relationship, and a fairly common reason why relationships fail. I mean, I've had relationships of several years that failed because of sex and intimacy issues, only for us to get back together as fuck buddies and suddenly have more sexual chemistry than we ever had before that. Not trying to scare you off or anything lol, but it can be complicated stuff.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well sounds more fun than being ghosted all the time and lacking intimacy

[DaveJord]

Well the physical act of having sex feels the same so love is irrelevant i this regard. But I do find sex with someone I care about to be more emotionally fulfilling... and on some level I think we all desire that emotional bond with someone. So in that regard emotionally having sex with someone you love is better.

But do not get it confused sex by itself does not equate to love. Nobody can tell you how you know if your in love or not... I think that is different for every person. But sex and physical attraction does play a role.

[RobT312]

Well, physically, the act of sex can be just as good if you are not in love. I have had great sex with girlfriends without being in love.
but… it’s the passion and foreplay and other feelings you have that make it better when in love

[charon142]

that's a very good question that has not been solved yet
I think it's really what you feel inside
think of it this way, you get that girl and suddenly she turns out to be Asexual or Intersex and can not enjoy sex the way you want, would you now stay with her?

[poneglyphs]

Trye that would be puzzling

[NathanDavis]

if you met them two hours ago... probably not love... lol

[poneglyphs]

Lmao true

[oh_k789]

It's very easy. Tell yourself, if she got a malformation/body issue leaving her unable to take you inside her forever, what would she be to you from that time?

[Avicenna]

Sex Id much better when it’s with a woman you’re in love with

[exitseven]

I have shot my load into three people. I think I loved them all.

[DownIndaDumpz]

I don't link sex to love, it's jus a pleasure/feeling in my dick and it feels good whoever I have sex with (if I ever have sex)

It's like going to McDonald's, it doesn't matter who you're eating it with... It's still the McDonald's that taste good... Not the person. It's jus a pleasure. Not that serious or deep

[DownIndaDumpz]

So no. Love doesn't make a difference, I'm not even sure what love is or if I've ever felt that

[DaveToo]

You're talking about two distinctly different things. Love and Lust are not the same. If you love someone you might want to have sex with them but if you simply lust after them, then you don't necessarily have to be IN love with them.

[Mangospacho]

It’s way better. It’s like you’re giving her a part of you and she accepts it willingly.

[Twalli]

How much of the relationship is based ok n sex? In other words, what do you have if you removed the sex. For example I would still love to spend time with my girlfriend if we didn't have sex.

[poneglyphs]

I have no idea

[Twalli]

Well, when you discover that you will know the answer

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, when girls stop ghosting me

[Twalli]

Not saying your relationship as in you specifically, you in the general sense.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay

[Fuentes]

Busting a nut, has always been busting a nut for me

[poneglyphs]

Damm really so, it's that good

[Fuentes]

So good i can get up and dipp like nothing happen lol

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes. It’s an awesome feeling

[poneglyphs]

Damm for real

[fireforeffect]

First of all you should not be having sex with someone you are not married to.
So since you are married, you are cumming in someone you love.

[Anonymous]

I can't have sex unless I love and care about them. Don't stick it in crazy

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay

[Anonymous]

Yeah but it’s hard to separate at that moment

[Anonymous]

Probably depends on how strong the connection is

[poneglyphs]

Yeah you're possibly right