I had sex with my sex the first time and it wasn't enjoyable. I actually didn't feel any of that chemistry. It wasn't until I had a random hook up with a guy in which it got heated with and so much sexual chemistry that I actually found myself enjoying it. They both weren't the best sex you can have but having that sexual chemistry made it so much enjoyable. Sure seen that guy today just standing near him feeling that sexual spark it's something. Like I do believe you can have good sex with someone experienced but big difference with sexual chemistry can't beat it.
Sorry autocorrect I meant my ex for the first time
Yes, it certainly can. It helps if both people get a solid understanding of anatomy. It's great to go on a journey where you both discover things you love and become better lovers to each other. But there is that certain spark of something, call it chemistry, call it fate - and you do kind of need that spark to get the fire going.
It gets better with time, assuming you have good chemistry from the start.
So.. a little bit of both.
I think there is an initial chemistry/attraction needed to start off. From there however it is all about communication. Sex only gets better and stays good when both people can communicate what works/doesn't work. If one or both partners keeps silent it will always be the same
If two people want amazing sex, they will do what it takes to make it happen.
I agree 100% with this! ☝🏻👍🏻
Sex gets better with time as long as you and who you with wants to please each other, and loves each other.. There's no such thing as sex bein good automatically without practice.. Although it does involve chemistry, but that's cause you are emotionally attached to the person..
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I know, I had chemistry with my boyfriend from the star but I have to admit that it wasn't always the best at first. As I'm not good with sharing my feelings, it took me time to open to him and communicate more on what I liked and didn't like. I think it took us about a year to get to the point that sex became amazing.
We learn each other's body and what turned the other on. Now, sex is pretty epic. So definitely a mix of both
It's about chemistry
It should start with chemistry and just keep getting better. If you don’t feel any chemistry, it’s not going to get better.
I know for me its about chemistry, that is what makes sex feel good to me. though i'm sure things could improve, but for me if the chemistry isn't there it will never be there.
It should! If you both communicate with each other.
It's all about the connection between the two (yes TWO) people involved. So i'd say the chemistry is a staple for sex to truly be amazing.
Chemstry rules that world. If you don't have chemistry, you won't be having sex multiple times.
Yea, i think anybody could get along sexually over time. And in no world is i a rule that the first time should determine whether you're sexually compatible.
It can get better
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chemistry
First chemistry and than perfection with practice 😄
I think its both
Gets better with time, it can be both but I go with the first one because after having sex with the same person, you get to know their lives and dislikes and get to know their body and you both create your own chemistry
At 16 you shouldn't be trying to answer this. YOU haven't had time to know what is good or bad.
And you shouldn't be judging or telling other people what they have had time to experience with anything or not.
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Better and better each time with every partner. If there's good chemistry of course
I think both approaches work, good sex over time just takes communication
Sex, intercourse is a learned behavior. You are not born knowing anything, this includes sex. So even people who do it well only learn how to do it
Yes, it gets better with time. Until it becomes boring.
Practise makes perfect
It's called experience
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