Does sex have to be so boring?

The thing is, I have only various casual short term partners, so not really someone I can talk discuss it with other than in very general terms. Ordinary sex usually consist of oral followed by intercourse in various positions. I get off every time, but it gets boring. I get g spot orgasms every time, still boring. Any tips on what I can do to make it more interesting even with no long term partner?
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  • Perhaps part of the issue, is that it's just sex, with short term guys, and you don't have as much of the feeling of togetherness and connection, that makes sex better and deeper feeling. I'm not sure why you find sex boring. I never have. But it is more common with women. Perhaps if you do things to rev up your sexual feelings before having sex. That is, days before. Let the sexual tension build. Don't masturbate, or if you do masturbate, get yourself horny, but don't allow an orgasm. Think of things that make you horny, have pictures of good looking hunks naked, think about how good a dick feels in you, or how good it is to have a guy caress you. Etc. Let this build days, or a week, ahead of sex. It may heighten your sexual need, and help you get to a higher feeling when having sex.

  • I recommend looking for fun positions from sexpositions. club
    My favorites include butterfly, candle, hook and boat. See what looks interesting and try it sometime. Also, sticking something in your butt while having sex can really amp up your orgasms. Get them to be really rough if you're into that. Maybe try threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. Gangbang maybe? Find yourself a guy with an absolutely massive cock, maybe you're fit to be a size queen. Have you tried being a dom? There's so many things you can try.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe you need a long-term partner so that you can actually have time to try new things. That should help.

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  • Maybe the reason is "casual".

    I don't know, my girlfriend and I are very vanilla, doggy, oral, cowgirl. Most of the time.

    But after more than a decade, we somehow still enjoy each other. We broke off 4 times now. But each time we "missed" each other and make out again.

    So I think, maybe you need to find someone a little more than just casual.

  • Switch the sex from ordinary sex 2 sex with kinks like ropes and things find something odd that turns you on and explore that

  • Sounds like you need some excitement. Try getting kinky

  • Live out some of your fantasies, or you partners fantasies, maybe do a little role-playing in the bedroom, and fine a partner who is into some kinky thing and not just guys who are good looking but only want to fuck/cum and then leave haha

  • If a long term partner isn't of interest, then the only thing I can suggest is that you find someone with whom you share chemistry.

  • Try doing something different. There is more to love making than just sex. There foreplay teasing. Massages. Where you do it, be a little riscae...

  • Hader of you can't create and explore kinks with one individual

  • Honestly I find sex with a stranger one of the hottest typs of sex but that being said I am very kinky and I like to push the envelope... I'm very in tune to body language so I tend to try to be a pleaser more than a receiver

  • switch things up, try different things/ positions

  • I've introduced bed restraints, sex wedge pillows, massage oils and lubes, toys like vibrators and vibrating cock rings, etc. I like little things like my woman dresses up in diff sexy lingerie sometimes or gets her nails done and uses them on me like tickling to scratching or digging them into me during. Feels amazing and makes sex never boring.

  • Interesting. I can't relate, as even the most "boring" sex is never boring to me lol. I guess you just need the right partner maybe? I think because you've only had short term partners, that could be the reason also. You never get to know anyone enough to make sex more interesting and fun (ie, you're never close enough to them). I really think this is the reason why.

  • One on one sex is just boring boring by nature.

  • No it doesn't. Question is what would you like to try to make it more exciting?

    • Problem is I don't know, and with only casual partners there isn't really time to try, you sort of have to get it right the first time.

    • Well maybe you could take control of him & explore what you like.

  • Need a freak like me! Hehe.