Does sex leave you feeling empty?

[Kkstarzz96]

Like let's say you have sex, and you're at home or you're not with the person you had sex all the with, do you feel accomplished but worry about when's the next time you'll have sex so they don't forget their feelings for you? Or do you wonder if that lived up to your expectations and look for pros or cons to the person you experienced it with perhaps for the first time or compared to other times, even with different partners? Do you feel like you can't move on with your day unless they told you they had a great time and look forward to seeing you again? Or do you just move on and see what happens? What's your psyche like?

[Juxtapose]

All of your stray, errant thoughts are making my head spin. I would just have sex and move on, it's actually not that deep.

[Kkstarzz96]

Lmao yes so I have thought then I think it's me who thinks this way, not others. I think I always worry if I was good enough for my partner, even if I was very beautiful and smelled like roses, I wonder if it's enough all that etc.

[Juxtapose]

Unless your partner was flawless, don't worry about being flawless yourself. I can find a scar here, some slight discoloration there and so on along my body but no woman has ever complained about what I have provided them. If you get him hard then guess what? He thinks you are sexy.

[Kkstarzz96]

Lmao that's very true. Now that you say that, I think some guys I never knew what they looked like when they were soft, so I had nothing to compare it to if it was hard or not with me, it was always ready 😂 of course I thought those guys were in love with me, but it's lust and that's what I think my question was, does lust make you feel empty

[Juxtapose]

Lust makes my balls feel empty after I'm done with it but other than that it has little relation to my emotional state. I'm a nihilist, all of existence is empty and you have to put your own meaning into it in my opinion.

[Kkstarzz96]

That's valid thank you

[SkipPerk]

I assume you are young. Young men cannot think straight. You should focus on older men looking for a relationship. They will take care of you. I know I was bad when young (I did not know better)

[Kkstarzz96]

Eventually we all get older. I still like guys my age, I'm attracted to them even if I have a lot of disagreements with them.

[Juxtapose]

Thanks for mho and np :)

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Being sexual with someone you don't have feelings for sure does leave a empty feeling. I experienced it.

[MrNameless]

It depends on what sex means to you and if you can differentiate between sex and love/feelings of attachment.

[SkipPerk]

It is nice when they are the same

[SkipPerk]

This is what a phone is for. Everybody loves to hear someone tell them how great they were in bed. SnapChat s vagina pic. That always warms me up. Tell people what you want to hear.

if they do not return the favor, ask them to. Good sex is all about asking for what you need.

[Kkstarzz96]

Yeah that's what has happened before is I was waiting for reassurance on the phone when I left but it didn't happen or I would have to push myself to do something else hoping by the time I'm done I would have heard something, which either works or at least I got involved in something else and now it's not as important to me cause time has passed and I have calmed down. But when the hormones are still there, it's hard to detach for me, which is why I stopped hooking up cause that's the whole point.

[Apple1996]

I feel empty like physically empty when he pulls out of me for about 30 mintues. After that I'm fine

[Kkstarzz96]

I felt that

[SkipPerk]

Why not let him leave it in, and shrink slowly? I always like that, holding her

[Apple1996]

@SkipPerk we do that sometimes but still leaves me empty

[Paige90]

The opposite... I feel great!

[FunkyMonkee]

At least my nuts. I doubt it'd leave her feeling empty! I just finished filling her up!!

[Dilekkk]

Not really. The sex makes me feel great and energic :)

[Kkstarzz96]

Oh okay do you depend on it for energy at times when you feel lull like after a long day

[Wise4myage]

Never, lol.

[ladybug12670]

Sex is a simple biological function. I thoroughly enjoy it regardless of dynamics. Actually, I much more appreciate the hit it and get it. I don't want to get close to someone, I just want sex.

[SkipPerk]

I am so sick of running into this. I know I was this way as a teenager, but now I want connection, and I cannot seem to grasp it

[IsoUser]

Giving a girl her first orgasm and cumming twice inside her is rewarding enough to see her smile.

[In_Trance]

no it never has

[Kkstarzz96]

Oh okay

[Rudon00]

Sex makes me feel empowered and its so therapeutic after a long day day work.

[Kkstarzz96]

I said that under the other reply, do you get upset if it's not readily available after a stressful day

[Rudon00]

Yes I do get agitated because at that moment I need it and I can't get. It causes me to be restless while I'm trying to sleep because of all the pent up energy I want to release. Oh sorry Kkstarzz96 I did not see the similar comment to mine under the following post.

[Kkstarzz96]

See that's what I don't like about sex is it starts to control your mood in other ways than pleasure or even distract you in odd places. I only mentioned my previous comment cause I thought it was funny lol

[Rudon00]

What about you KKstarzz96? As it relates to sex leaving you feeling empty?

[Kkstarzz96]

I think this YouTuber said it best when he quoted men show love to obtain a women's body, but women show their body to obtain a man's love. I get really confused when a guy keeps asking for more but the love he has for me does not appear. It becomes a chore but then if I'm single, I don't really know how to establish that it's okay to be attracted to each other and express that but I don't want to be conditioned to behave that way at anytime because you feel like it randomly, it stresses me out and then yes I feel like my relationship isn't worth anything

[Rudon00]

Well yeah I will say it does distract your mind slot especially when I know I need to get to bed to get to work the following day for an early time. It can be a vey awkward moment to be feeling horny. But hey that is how it is and I love my sex very bad to pass it up 😁😁

[Kkstarzz96]

That's also what's annoying is sex is for adults but adults have to work and we can't call off or take time away from work to attend to this need. I guess people get pregnant and take maternity leave so it does happen but it's not the same as sex because you're feeling it, not to reproduce. I mean if a woman says I'll stay home and not work so we can have sex and I'll have the energy when you're here, are you going to accept it or resent her later cause a lot more pressure comes to you to provide for yourself and her

[Rudon00]

men show love to obtain a women's body, but women show their body to obtain a man's love. I get really confused when a guy keeps asking for more but the love he has for me does not appear Rightfully said by the YouTube and I 100% percent agree With you Kkstarzz96. Sex for me I don't want it to be a chore and for me to give myself to a person There must be that deep emotional intimacy for sex to be awesome other than that. I cannot enjoy it any other way

[Kkstarzz96]

I agree even if the person is very attractive it will be awkward because you're waiting for the big O to happen but it's not naturally happening it's just over exaggerating the experience but you know it's not living up to what sex is supposed to be like with someone who you respect and adore with their clothes on, it can be hard to be rougher with such person and go for new positions, but I think it's also a matter of confidence. It's easy to be free with a stranger cause you don't care what they perceive of you, but if it's your spouse you want to live up to the image of you they have in their head, but eventually we all have to tear down the walls and show ourselves for everything we are, not just the surface level

[Rudon00]

Lolol setting home to focus your undivided energies into sex with your partner from work is taking it too far. I do support the fact yes you prioritize some time for sex but not to the point where it hinders your daily essential activities.

[Anonymous]

If you’re in a real relationship with someone they should be letting you know how much they care for you and how much being with you means to them. You shouldn’t have to wonder.