Does sexually explicit chat count as deception?

Is it cheating if your spouse secretly has sexting with someone else on the internet?
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Oh, my god. Why does everyone think this is a cheat? And because of you i feel like a disloyal person. ☺😅
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  • Yes, absolutely. It's called an emotional or virtual affair. If these love-birds ever actually meet up, which happens more than you think, the sexual tension is so high it ends up turning into a full blow sexual or physical affair.

    ANYTHING you would say or do with another that you wouldn't want your SO to see or hear, is cheating. It means you're putting your thoughts and feelings and emotions into a third party. You need to ask yourself why you would be doing that, and if perhaps it just isn't the right person for you.

    • "and if perhaps it just isn't the right person for you." I don't think you can blame their spouse, though. Someone could be in a relationship with a wonderful person and still cheat on them. The person who cheated is the one who "isn't right." THEY're the one with the problem.

    • @Jamie05rhs - You're a little green, new, on all this. The primary reason people cheat, emotionally or physically, is because they feel or think they are missing something in the relationship. Most people will discuss these things with their partner. If nothing is done about it the cheater goes on to pursue what they're missing. So while you cannot blame the victim of cheating, there is nearly always culpability for failures in the relationship. Either gender will stray if they are susceptible to third-party attention, if they're not completely happy and content in their primary relationship. In other words, happy couples in love don't cheat. Period.

    • @browneye57 Okay- you think I'm green, but I think you're black (dirty). I completely disagree with what you said, and I think your philosophy lacks morals. (And it lacks love.) And your theory isn't even true, because even people in happy relationships cheat as well. If a person doesn't have moral standards and boundaries, then they could cheat for any reason.

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  • He's playing out a fantasy. If he gets hard with someone else then comes to you for satisfaction, that's not cheating. That's internet porn.

    • 😅😆😄

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes, because they obviously don't care about their partner's feelings.
    They're sharing intimate things with someone outside of the relationship and forming a sexual or romantic bond with them whether they realize it or not.

    • Here is the answer I'm looking for, thank you @LouissaQueenxx

    • You're welcome.

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  • Yes it is. It is all about the emotional reaction of your loved one. If you develope a secret intimate relationship with someone, you give up a piece of what makes a monogamous relationship important.

  • Yes. It is not actually having sex, but it is enjoying sexual talk and thoughts with someone other than your SO while not telling them.

    • Why do they think it is cheating? Because it is. And you feeling bad is not because of us. It is all on you.

    • but you said "yes" like the other members

  • Yes. If it weren't, then why are they keeping it a secret?
    It is only not cheating if you give your consent to them doing that.

    • Why @Ripper_E

  • yes its cheating

  • dont tolerate that

  • Yes, it is cheating.

    • Why do you feel disloyal? Have you done that?

    • I am not married. But I cheated on a man I met here by chatting with many people (because besides he deserved it). But why shouldn't I continue this when I get married? I don't think chatting is cheating. This is just an innocent and funny chat.

    • of course not @Jamie05rhs. but the guys I corresponded with were saying; "If you're writing to me, I don't want you to write to any other people."

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  • Yes, I think it is. Sexual secrets are not a good sign.

  • Yes its cheating cuz a partner isn't supposed to do thatbwith another person

    • you mean should he do it with its spouse to avoid cheating?

    • No im saying you dont do that when it isn't eith your partner

    • Okay i dont

  • Imho yes, because it's making a sexual connection with another person,,,

  • I don't think so, as long as bbn ith people sexting know it's not anything more.

  • It’s a good start.

    • Thanks

  • Not cheating per se but in all meaningful ways other than physical yes it is.

  • its cheating

  • Cheating !

    • Yes it is

  • Yes it is cheating.

    • Why do you think like this?

    • We must stay with partner emotionally too. I was fortunate to have ex who I liked a lot in bed. I could not think of anybody but her.

    • how does she become your ex if she is in your bed?

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  • Yes it is

    • Why @AhmetMiraç

    • Why is she doing this with someone else while I'm here? this situation would be cheating.

    • Maybe she's bored talking to you or doesn't like you? Can't these be?

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  • This is a form of cheating if you do it without the knowledge of your SO.

  • Difficult to understand people in this days...

    • Why did you say so?

    • Because like that..

    • Okay

  • Oh you didn't

    • What?

  • Not really