Does stimulating clitoris really happen during doggy style?

Most advice says for the guy to reach around and stimulate his partner's clitoris during doggystyle sex. But I've rarely had this actually happen - or if it does, it's usually for a short time. And this is even with otherwise great lovers. Is it really all that common?
Yes, guys usually give a reach around during doggy
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  • May I suggest it is an amazing position to self stimulate your clitoris. Not only is it very exposed do to the labia being forced open but gravity make the hood retract and the clit protrude down
    It is totally exposed for you to stimulate it. The bonus from this is any vaginal juice will naturally flow towards your clit acting as a self lubricator. However the biggest thrill is he will love feeling playing with your self. Feel his penis sliding in and out. Even push a finger in along side as his thrusting penis.
    Enjoy the sensation of his balls slapping against your clit or hand too. It's even possible to stimulate or hold his balls in this position.
    Enjoy.

  • I don't think so. I do that for another position tho. I don't know what it's called. Girl laying on me her back laying on my chest.

    • I just asked a Q about that, haha. What's the name of that position?

    • I don't know lol maybe I invented it. It's called The Consultant lmao

    • Was that you? Haha

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  • It happens every other time my boyfriend and I do doggy, or if I ask him to should I want him to do that when he doesn't on his own accord.

    If we're doing standard doggy, me on all fours, he'll usually go all out in terms of fucking. Playing with me is more when we do lazy doggy, where I'm belly down and raise my hips a bit so he can get his hand under.
    Lazy doggy is a great position for you to finish together in. :)

    • I like laying on my belly to finish too. I honestly don't get much from standard dog. Bending over in a doorway can rock too, but it's so awkward!

    • yeah of course, just make any necessary adjustments so that you can enjoy doggy as well. I didn't like it in the beginning because of the lack of face-to-face. I told him that, so he started coming in from the side to kiss me like that. I'm not sure how you do standing doggy but for me, I sometimes lean against the wall and he comes in from the front. I found that made my lower back kill as it was against this little ledge in the wall so now I always make sure to get a pillow there as cushioning.

    • Pillows are great helpers. :)

  • It probably depends on the guy. Some may not realize that it's a possibility or that it's something you want. If you want your partner to do it, ask them to, or grab their hand and place it on your clit as a hint.

    • Well, yeah. Their hand won't stay there, though. Haha. It's just weird how often this is mentioned vs how often it actually happens.

  • Often, no, I haven't had that happen. Like you said, if it does, it's only for a short period of time.

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  • Often, it's very difficult for the guy to reach around like that and still keep his timing, balance, and thrusting. Usually SHE is the one playing with her clit in this position, because it's far easier for her to reach.

    Now, if you're doing, say, Spoon position - which is very similar to Doggy, except that you're both on your sides, it's easier for the guy to reach her.

  • It's possible, but I don't think it's common.

  • Gee, I don't know either... you know what! we should find out together? Giggity.

    • LOL. Better keep this cougar caged.

    • Caged? Oh rawwr :D... but it's for the best, some stamina is needed for this ride. rofl.

  • I do and from what my friends tell me so do they

  • Wayy too complicated. Doggy style I think it's to go hard. And there would be no time to stimulate her clitoris at that moment, while going hard and deep. I wouldn't want to chop it off lol XD

    • That's where she gets most of her pleasure, though, bronco. Unless you make her cum first and then flip around.

    • hahaha bronco... Yes, obviously. But not during doggy position. I would stimulate it while she was on top of me or on my side for example. I think the point of that position is to reach deep mostly. Stimulating the clitoris would have a much greater effect in other close and personal position is what I'm saying.

    • One way that can be pretty hot that guys get encouraged to rub a girl off more is if you're both kneeling, with him behind. It's a difficult position sometimes, though.

  • Haven't had sex but it's always been a tip i assumed was very important

  • doggie is already a position when clit get stimulation, guy can stimulate with with his dick, if you ask for fingers its hard to do it. tell him to thrust hard and deep so the dick stimulate clit as well as pussy, also he take out the dick and stimulate, it gives break and pleasure too.

    • Hard & deep never stimulates my clit, personally. But yeah, a little love tap is nice in most positions :)

  • why not just do it yourself?

    • Definitely! I'm just curious why it's in virtually every description of the best way to do doggystyle if it's unrealistic.

  • No, its usually hair pulling or spanking honestly lol.