Does the average dildo size reflect what women really want?

Data on sales by size is hard to come by but a few sites on Google, including the one I've screenshotted, claim the most common size is 6 inches. They also claim that under 5inches are unwanted.

Given that non insertable ones for clitoral stimulation are available we can conclude that these are bought for penetration purposes. It appears that most woman want at least 6inches and nobody wants under five. This seems to demolish the "it's what you do with it argument" since the woman is in control.
Thoughts please?
Does the average dildo size reflect what women really want?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Personally, I'd buy products to meet my needs. If something doesn't meet my needs then I buy a different product. I don't use products that don't meet my needs just to make a fashion statement. So don't use the 8 inch dildo if it doesn't do you off just to advertise that you are a size queen. If the 5 inch dildo works, then that works. The key is that it works for you even though the next girl might need a horse cock dildo.

  • How many of those women insert every last mm, vs. how many still need an inch or two to hold as a handle?

    I've got several toys that I keep for girls, and I've seen them use their own, and I've almost never seen them insert more than 4 or 5 inches (it's usually 3 or 4), no matter how big the toy is. So, I'm not sure this means what you think it means. LOL.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I enjoy a bigger dick. But if the guy has no skills its a waste. Skill, stamina and size is the holy grail for me. So naturally when I go dildio shopping they will end up being on the larger size. Using my toy is supposed to be about my pleasure right.

    • what is the perfect size dildo for you in length and girth?

    • @sandoncheeks Well I do not know precisely how to measure the girth... but quite thick. Length is 8 inches. I really do like to have that sensation of being filled up. Plus a larger one hits the gspot better.

    • You can compare girth with everyday day objects like the thickness of a baby carrot or the thickness of a banana. Yes gspot deserves attention too

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  • "This seems to demolish the "it's what you do with it argument" since the woman is in control." A woman can't do, by herself, what a man can do with his own penis.

    • She has total control of angle, depth, thrusting speed.

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  • I think you're right. But I think 6" is about average which makes sense that the average vagina and penis match up. 5.3" might be the world average and maybe dildo size preference varies in different countries?

  • the bigger, thicker desireable ones are expensive and normally you have to go to a specialty site to find them..

    and 5.2" is NOT average... the average penis is 6"-7" inches long and just a little thicker than an empty toilet paper roll, such that it can't fit inside one.

    but it is expensive to buy the ones we really want.

    • What size do you prefer and what do you think of 4 inches

    • @ineedafcuk dildo 13" with 10" usuable length 4" is way too small Only petite women MIGHT go for 4"

    • Toilet roll tube? Don't you mean a tube of pringles?

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  • I think it's still a lot about technique. If we kiss, If he touches me in certain places or just by someone else doing to me instead of me doing the work I'd be much more aroused

  • They might want it with their eyes but when it comes down to using it many “eyes are bigger than their stomachs.” You have to wonder, where does sensual-sex cross over to the joyous pleasure of childbirth.

  • Why would a woman want to pay for a small dildo?

  • Women want my 4 inches i just know it

  • Hahahahaha! @purplepoopy once again you made me laugh!

    I am glad I can hit the cervix with ease... :p

  • I would say it reflects what women tend to want in sex toys...

  • Not from what they tell me. Lol

  • Nice. Now all guys asking d*ck size questions on GaG can just see this statistics and calm down

  • I would think women would get something larger then they are used to, to get that feeling of being completely full or stretched a bit?
    Depending on what their man is packing?

  • I usually rub it on my clit and while my boyfriend is watching I only put about 6 inches in me but I get off really hard with 9 inches or so in me and it's pretty thick

    • So what would you think of 4 inches

  • I think people buy big ones for jokes and just to see what it looks like. If somebody wants a toy to get off with it will prolly just be a vibrator.