Does the shape of the vagina matter?

I am very insecure about this. Do you care?
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  • First of all, I will assume we are talkin about your vulva which you have no control over how it looks. The only person who will see your vagina is your gynecologist. That being said, vulvas come in all shapes, sizes with the inner labia sometimes hidden until arousal and sometimes sticking out a little bit. In any matter that is not under your control. I have never found a vulva that I did not think was sexy when my face is up against it. Many women are shamed into thinking that their pussy has to look a specific way and I think that is a load of crap. That's just like saying there is no such thing as perfect breasts. It is all part of your body and you should be proud and hopefully comfortable with that. Any guy or girl who shames you for that is a horse's ass.
    So basically, 'you run what you've brung' and if somebody does not like that then go to somebody else who does. It is your body and you should be proud of it.
    I personally find the human form both male and female to be works of art. Some people like Picasso some don't and that is what makes us different. Can you imagine all males and females looking exactly like? All vulvas exactly the same? All penises exactly the same? All girls shaving or not shaving exactly the same or guys shaving or not shaving? This is what makes humans exciting both male and female. So go grab some lube, a mirror, light some candles, grab a flashlight and any toys you might happen to have or not have and have fun with your vulva and love it. If you can't love your own vulva then how can you get somebody else to enjoy it?

    Last but not least, an interesting fact! The inside lining of your vagina and the lining of everybody's mouth is made of the same type of cells and mucus cells. That is something to think about. And every guy who is reading this and many women are now running their tongue around the inside of their mouth checking it out and thinking 'Damn! He's right!'
    LOL😄

  • There's a small percentage of men who care about that (maybe 10-15%?) enough for it to matter, but most men just aren't that picky, and most of us enjoy the fact that they're all different. Generally, younger guys will be more picky, usually because they don't have a lot of experience with real women in the world (who come in all kinds of shapes and sizes), while older guys (or just more experienced guys) tend not to focus on that very much at all.

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  • When giving birth, the shape of the vagina, that is the hole starting at the vulva and ending at the cervix does not matter at all.

    Most vaginas do have the very same shape and that is the one of a (more or less) circular hole. Whether this hole is more on the oval side or perfectly round, it will stretch, regardless of its initial shape to let the baby pass through when giving birth.

    Of course, if you are scared of the damages a natural birth can cause to the vagina, you can always ask for a caesarian (C-section).

    You are trading temporarily extended vagina walls that will get back to their original shape for a nasty scar on your stomach. It is up to you to make the choice.

  • Not really. Innie, outie, big or little clit, it doesn't matter as long as she is juicy and loves to fuck.
    I think everything about women's vulvas is lovely and fascinating. So much tender, elastic, sensitive, responsive goodness.

  • Of course everyone has their ideal fantasy standards and bodies that they imagine (Usually from celebrities or porn). In reality once you meet somebody that you think is cute, and you really like each other, a lot of those idealistic standards go out the window. You fall in love with your partner and hopefully you love and accept their body as it is.

  • Most guys are going to be too focused on getting dick into vagina to worry about appearance.
    All girls are unique and we appreciate that but men are less focused on the asthetics

  • Do cocks fit in it? Does it feel good to touch?
    If so? Which I'm guessing yes well nobody cares I've seen over 150 Fanny's and to be honest birds bees, apples oranges, your part of choice baby and it's that which makes it all the more interesting use what you got and use it well! Because if you don't! All that's left is hiding and shadows! Don't be shy your mother wasn't! As they say!

  • Shape? Are we talking external appearance or internal feeling?

    • External appearance. But what is internal feeling. 😅

    • Ok so external appearance really isn't important to most guys and the ones that it is important to aren't worth your time. Internal feeling, well all girls feel just a little different but there is basically nothing in it, the only thing that really is noticeable is tightness, and again its not majorly important as long as it's not really loose, but a guy would have to be pretty small for a slightly loose vagina to be an issue.

    • Okey thanks

  • There's no blanket response to this. It will matter to some. They are allowed to like what they like. But if they use it to be an asshole to you, then they're massive assholes and are definitely not worth your time or your attention. Much easier said that done, but there will be people who like your shape or are indifferent.

  • There's a lot of normal and natural diversity to vulva appearance. It doesn't matter. They're all amazing.

  • Absolutely not. So long as it smells good and tastes good the rest doesn’t matter to a guy interested in the whole you not just a body part. They are a unique part of a unique person, and any guy who gets that far with you and complains doesn’t deserve to see it or you again. Color shape lip size/location innie outie whatever isn’t really that important to most guys who are just happy to see it taste it touch it and get in there. You have nothing to worry about or be insecure about from a guy who is worth your time.

  • You mean the 'vulva, not the vagina, (lips, inner and outer, clitoris) There are a lot of different looks to a vulva. Personally, I am drawn to the closed 'slit" with pubic hair over the lips and down. Women seem to agonize over this as much as men agonize over their penis size.

  • Probably won't make you unattractive but having a nice one certainly wouldn't hurt

  • I like them all. A tightly tucked innie is the best for intercourse...

    Does the shape of the vagina matter?

    While a lippy outie is the best for oral.

    Does the shape of the vagina matter?
  • That all depends how petty the person is but in the majority of men, it doesn't matter

  • Spending 99,9% of the time looking at your face compared to your vagina so not really.

  • No it doesn't

  • No, we don't care about the shape of the vagina

  • There's more than one size?

  • No, as long as it works.

  • They're all beautiful. Shape does not matter. Please feel free to PM if you wish.

  • There is just one situation i do care, and that is if i where to lick her. Other situations i don't care.

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