Does this actually happen if anguy tries to stop himself from cumming?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were in doggy and he was getting close to cumming. He stopped but I kept moving because I didn't kno. He started moaning and told me to stop and he pulled out. Apparently he had came a little bit and ruined his orgasm when he stopped too soon. He got back on top of me and he tried to cum again, he said it wouldn't work. So i teased him for a while and we fucked again and apparently he came that time, but nothing really came back out of me. Why couldn't he cum again? And if he actually came after I teased him, why wasn't there a load? There wasn't really a load when he accidentally came either, but when he pulled out, I did smell semen. What happened here?

[Boromir]

Happened to me this once or twice. It’s like you’re left laying on the top of mount orgasm, can fall back on either side and still don’t fall in either direction. A little bit comes out but not the rest, and the second go to empty the rest takes longer... Feels almost that you need some orgasms afterwards to resync the mechanism.

[Asker]

Okay I understand. But this has happened to him before when he has tried to stop himself from cumming. A little dripped out, but he was able to cum just fine after that. Did he just wait too long to stop this time or something?

[Asker]

I just dont understand

[CubaPirate]

It's quite a normal reaction when a guy has a " ruined orgasm" and it's nothing to worry about some guys take longer to recover before cumming again than others do

[Asker]

this has happened to him before when he has tried to stop himself from cumming. A little dripped out, but he was able to cum just fine after that. Did he just wait too long to stop this time or som

[CubaPirate]

I'd say he actually came without the benefits of orgasm and didn't just drip out some precum

[Asker]

Okay, but the first time he "came" a full load didn't come back out of me. Nothing really came back out of me. And later when he said he came, there wasn't a load either. Lol where did his load go if he came?

[CubaPirate]

Perhaps those little guys are still swimming around inside you lol

[Asker]

No, they're not. Nothing came back out. Was I just not able to make him cum or something?

[JustRollTheDice]

They can dry cum. And what he did is called edging but he shouldn't have had to stop entirely for a long period

[MDollarBill]

If he had a mini-org, he lost his "edge" Might take a couple hours to get it back enough to blow a full load.

[Asker]

Okay, but the first time he "came" a full load didn't come back out of me. Nothing really came back out of me. And later when he said he came, there wasn't a load either. Lol where did his load go if he came?

[MDollarBill]

Usually, the hornier you get , the bigger the load blown. If he had what I called a "mini-org," it took enough edge off to limit the load. This is a really odd (but interesting) question. I can't help but wonder what prompted it, really. (The real, deep, dark reason?)