Does this happen often?

I am asking this question in all seriousness and it happened almost a yearback when i hooked up with a guy who was a bit older than me. I was 22 and he was definitely 35 plus.

We went back to his place and we slept with each other and before we started doing it he told me that he ejaculates a lot and i didn't't give any thought to it. But when he came i just couldn't believe it. I was kinda shocked and it was overwhelming. He told me thats why he told me beforehand as i might be very offended by it and said its a kind of thing he has had which makes him ejaculate so much. I had nothing to say as i couldn't believe it.

What i want to ask is that normal for a guy or if any other woman has had a guy who ejaculated a lot. I just want to know if he took something to ejaculate so much as it was a shock and never thought he meant that when he told me beforehand.
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  • I wouldn't say that its normal for a person to ejaculate a large amount, but it isn't rare as well. I mean, ejaculation amount depends on a lot of things, like genes, health, sex drive, etc. Since he told you beforehand, he might not be taking anything for higher ejaculation, because I really don't think someone who has taken pills or injections for better sexual performance would go on to tell you about his ejacculation. He might had many woman tell him that he ejaculates a lot and hence tried to warn you beforehand. But I would say, not to think too much about it.

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  • I'm not aware of anything that you can take that increases ejaculate amount. For me the amount I make can vary quite a lot. If I'm dehydrated or tired, sometimes it's only a few drops dribbline out, if I'm very turned on and have been fooling around for an hour before orgasm it can be a couple of teaspoons squirting up to 6 feet away. I definitely make more now than I did at 20.

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  • Yes, many guys have a high volume of ejaculate, it's not all that unusual but some are rather extreme which I love actually.

    Does this happen often?
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  • He probably has not had sex in awhile. hahaha

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  • Define "a lot" please.

    • I dnt know how to.. but it was a lot

  • why would this be a problem lols, more cum the better, less cum is not soo good, you should be like thrilled, and he should be super confident in his ablity to prduce soo much, you should be thrilled, horrny just from such event,
    why, he has great firtilzation, and instictively that should be extreamly a turn on, shit, if i was a woman i be swallowing like a mad house, lols.

  • I would say I have an average amount and I'm totally fine with it. I'm glad I don't cum a lot. What a mess to clean up from...

  • There are chances of ejaculating more if he hasn't masturbated for long time.

    It's not usually normal but if its usual for him then either he is blessed or may be suffering from some sort of ailment.

    But how much is lot is also a question?

    • Like 18 shots

  • When we masterbate, the thrill we get determines our ejaculatory load. So we having sex we pour "our love juice" more

  • Ejaculation amount depends on a lot of things; hydration, genetic, health, etc. some men naturally ejaculate in large volumes, while some dont. But as long as one has proper range of sperm count and mobility, it's medically fine.

  • Yea some guys have hire sperm count then other +. The less you masterbate the more you store up he might not masterbate so that’s why he has so much more

    • Owkay.. thank you

    • Sperm count has nothing to do with the quantity of ejaculate.

    • @spartan55 well then I’m wrong

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  • For most guys... the longer he is aroused before ejaculating, the more semen he ejaculates.


    I’ve also heard there’s a correlation between penis size and average amount of semen expended during ejaculation.

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  • soindd like your reffering to hyperspermia

  • Sometimes I cum a lot, sometimes not as much but most of the time I am average.

  • Definitely not going on here. Wouldn't mind the option, to be honest.

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  • It's perfectly normal. Was he your first?

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    • nothing to add to my original answer, sorry.

  • It varies a lot for me.

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  • You don’t say how much!
    Normal is about a teaspoonful.

  • for me
    it depends on the girl that I sleep with

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  • I would say it depends on the person and if their backed up. I feel when you're backed up or edge it comes out heavier.

  • I wish I could more although edging helps quite a bit

  • It’s not really that common but I ejaculate more if I’ve been edged or not cum in a while

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  • ... well can he shoot 4 or 5 feet... cause i can...

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