Does this make me bi-sexual?

I know I like guys and I identify as straight, and I would never wanna have sex with a girl, but I find girls really attractive and I enjoy looking at them... and I feel like I could romantically be in a relationship with a girl, but not sexually? But I know I like boys. I just don’t know
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  • I would have said you are completely straight all the way until you said you would not mind having a romantic relationship with a girl. There is nothing unusual about finding a non-sexual attraction to the same gender even if you are straight but it does not go into wanting a relationship with them. Its possible that you are slightly bi-sexual but it sounds like you have a definite preference to men rather than women.

    Sort of the best of both worlds so to speak.

  • That would make you bi-romantic, not bi-sexual. Bi-sexual means you want to have sex (regardless of relationship) with both sexes. Bi-romantic means you'd be in a romantic (but not necessarily sexual) relationship with both sexes.

Most Helpful Girls

  • What makes you gay or bi isn’t what you do sexually but what you seek for a relationship. I love girls and love having sex with them. But I also love dick. Sucking and fucking them is fun but I don’t find anything about men attractive. So I don’t consider myself bi. Please feel free to pm me if you have additional questions or Kik breanna90802.

  • It just makes you absolutely normal. We can all enjoy each other’s beauty. Just be relaxed about it, it does not need a label.

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  • I too thought this exact way at a point. Two years later I realized I am a full blown bisexual and Proud!

  • Attraction to the females could lead to you wanting sexual connection eventually with a woman. Even if you havnt thought about it or think it's your taste that could happen with those tendencies

  • you're bi

    if you see yourself marrying either gender, and having sex with either gender

    since gay marriage is legal now, you get to choose

    • But I couldn’t see myself haveing sex with a girl the thought makes me really uncomfortable... but if I never had to actually make out or have sex I could see myself with a girl

    • but could you marry either

  • You're highly likely bisexual.

  • Maybe you are but why does it matter, just ignore it and go after guys and don’t go after girls. No one needs to know and it can remain a secret

    • why does it matter either way to YOU? let the girl feel what is natural to her. You just sound like a closested, ashamed gay yourself saying that. You love who you love and you should not tell others who they should or shouldn't love

    • @Girlpower1010 There’s a simple answer for that, it’s because she doesn’t want to admit it. She doesn’t want anyone to know so she still has a choice because guys turn her on too. She can remain straight if she wants to

    • Don’t get me wrong I’m just trying to help, she’s free to do what she wants

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