Does this make me gay?

Hi,

I see myself as straight, i have a girlfriend and I never thought about cheating on her with anybody.
However when I was in the store with her earlier this week, I saw a guy, who looks between 18 and 21. At first I thought this was a girl I was looking at. Because not only did he have VERY big hips but his butt so BIG for a boy. He was Thicc with a small waist, like a girl. When he turned his head, I noticed he had no facial hair/ smooth baby face (Basically a pretty boy) and shiny hair He was so pretty and attractive. Everything about him was so feminine (Didn't look like he was trying to transition though). It turned me on as I looked at him. I never saw myself as gay. I hate to admit this But when he walked away, his butt was jiggling. this caused me to get aroused and it made me hard af. It made me think about going for him instead of my girlfriend. I didn't even know this about myself.

Then I did something stupid. Smh, when my girl went to get onions at the front, I quickly looked for him and asked him if he was straight. Lol I know it was stupid, but he then answered that he was bi. He also said that he wasn't looking for a relationship. I'm pretty sure I scared him a bit. I then said "ok mybad just curious" "bye" . I know it was crazy but his brown shiny skin with his big butt made me fantasize about him to this day.
Later I heard from college mates , who knew him, that he has a Facebook. I'm thinking about asking him for it.

I'm sorry I went in detail but I can't be the only one. I'm asking both guys and girls for their opinions. Does this make me gay or is it just my body playing tricks with me? And do any of y'all like guys like that?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If he is the first one u have found like this... then a big NO, ur not gay.
    U can take example to understand a situatuion.. think u r walking on street u saw a very beautiful and sexy girl wearing yellow t with shorts and black heels light pink lips and red hair with dd cups. u wanted to aproch her but instead u walk... later u meet a guy who as same as avg guy.. he tells u tht girl who made u go crazy was none other thn him... he just used makeuo and other stuffs to make him like a sexy girl... will u still want to fuck him... i dont think so.. u were attracted to the girl fig not the person personality... same with the guy u r talking about u only liked his fig not him

  • It's more about femininity vs masculinity and not so much about being a guy or a girl. For example I've never been attracted to normal men, but found myself having confusion boners when seeing a trans girls with clearly male voice, but feminine. I know he's a guy but someone the femininity aspects lure me. But when I see women who are very muscular and masculine, I feel the same kind of repulsion as I'd feel towards normal men.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Let's assume you were by yourself when this stranger caught your eye, if he had given you his number or socials, would you have reached out to him? If he were down, would you sleep with him? Really give it some thought. Use your imagination and think about EVERYTHING, penis and all. If you're into all of it, then yeah dude, sounds like you could be into men. BUT that doesn't make you gay. If you're attracted to and sexually aroused by women too, it makes you bi. Regardless, there's nothing wrong with it. You're young so you've got plenty of time to figure it out, don't stress about it.

  • No, it doesn’t make you gay. However you could possibly be bisexual.

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  • Maybe, but you were drown to him cause you thought he was a girl then interested cause he's feminine.

    Seeing a nice ass that ends up being on guy dosent automatically make you gay, I've been tricked by a thicc guy or two, I wouldn't call myself gay, I am interested in transwomen tho so maybe I'm a little bi curious.

    But you said you have a girlfriend, and while you should explore and learn yourself is it worth it now to possible ruin your current relationship?

  • Nah, I dont think so

  • Bi curious it would seem.

  • Yes And Ask yourself this if he said come back to my place what would you do

  • Curious maybe...

  • No it doesn’t. I’ve curiously wondered what it would be like to show my butt to guy and see if it’s nice.