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Guys, Does this mean I'm not sexually satisfying to my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and I have sex everyday and when we can't have sex, I give him blowjobs. Well today we couldn't have sex so he wanted a bj. So I gave him one and he came quite a bit and he said it felt amazing. So a few minutes after that, I went to go take a shower and when I got out, he was masturbating! Like wtf.. and this isn't the first time I've caught him masturbating after he cums from a blowjob or sex.. I'm starting to feel very inadequate and we are fighting about it a lot. He says the sex and blowjobs are amazing but I can't believe him and he just yells at me when I ask him what I could do better. Why am I not good enough? Maybe I'm not good at blowjobs or sex or maybe I'm just not that attractive? Please help. This is breaking me down.
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  • Some guys just can't get enough of feeling an orgasm. It's a sexual dysfunction and sexual addiction.

    You could line up 15 gorgeous women, bare ass naked, asses in the air, and tell him there's zero consequences.

    He'd fuck you as a thank you, then fuck all 15, and when he was done and they all left, he'd go directly back to the porn and masturbation immediately. No, I don't mean immediately as in tomorrow. I mean immediately as in directly after pulling out of the last pussy.

    Your more than enough, and pretty enough, and talented enough, but you'll never BE enough to overcome or cure his addiction. You could blow him for breakfast, lunch and dinner and fuck him in between each meal, and give him a bonus blow and duck as a bedtime present, and offer him an open relationship to fuck who he wants, and he'd STILL jack off.

    That said, unless you're a fucking freak and as addicted to sucking, swallowing, orgasms, fucking using every hole, and using every talent you have, his secretive masturbation and porn watching is ALWAYS going to make you feel inadequate and unskilled.

    Your choice is to confront him about his addiction and swallow his excuses, as well as his hot creamy load as he's explaining his reasoning to you, or tell him you've had enough of how he makes you feel, because you've told him time and time again, and your done!

    • I am a freak tho. And he says i am too. I fuck him everyday. I swallow when I give him blowjobs. I let him cum inside me. We fuck everyday at least once. Sometimes twice. Sometimes 3 times. I practice his kinks and I am actually into them as well. So why isn't it enough? You said it won't enough unless I am just as much of a freak as him, but I am. Lol so what is the issue?

    • No, I said his secretive masturbation and porn watching is always going to make you feel inadequate. The freak part was just another example of what you could do for him that wouldn't make a difference. .

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  • It’s possible it was so good that he wants it again so he’s trying to get it up again so that you can do it again. I know I’ve done that. Like fuck that felt so good I want her to do it again. Do you swallow? Just asking because if you don’t maybe you should, may help if he isn’t satisfied w what you’re giving him. But like I said sometimes you just want to blow a load twice because maybe she’s gotten you so horny you can’t help yourself. How about you try just going down on him again when you see that happen. It’s also possible that maybe your mouth is tired so you don’t want to do it again but he’s so horny as I mentioned before that he wants to go at it again but you’re not up to it.

    • Yes I always swallow. I've never spit it out during a blowjob.

    • That’s a good girl. I’d say next time he’s doing that you try just taking over.

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  • You ARE adequate. I think that's the problem.
    You are like prime rib. He loves it so much, he can't stop wanting to eat more.

    • No, he literally waited for me to get into the shower minutes after his blowjob so he could watch porn. That's why I feel like I'm not satisfying him.

    • So what does that mean?

    • He could be a sex addict. He's young. From a biological perspective, his instinctive sole function in life at his age is to "Fuck early. Fuck often. Fuck as many different women as you can." That does NOT mean that he is going to cheat. I am just saying that is the young male's biological imperative. ... and he's living up to it in a sense.

  • He could just have a high sex drive or you turned him on enough that his dick had other plans.

    you have to remember we’re not like women we get arousef really easily. And it’s not uncommon to get hard again right after going soft.

    • Yeah but I'm very horny too and he knows I'll fuck him or blow him as much as he wants, so why would he look at porn while I'm in the shower instead of just asking me to blow him again? He knows I will do it. Is it possible that I'm not making him cum very hard so he just decides to do it by himself secretly? That's the only thing I can come up with tbh..

    • I don't know he was probably looking at porn because you were in the shower and not present at the time so he was handling it himself. Maybe he wanted to give you a break? I don't know. I think your thinking to hard about it.

  • It just means he wants multiple orgasms. If you feel inadequate just tell him to fuck you again. Or maybe he wants to look at porn after sex.

    • Why would he want to look at porm after sex if i satisfied him with real sex?

    • If he orgasmed, he wasn’t dissatisfied him. He did in fact cum. But I guess his recovery rate is fast so he decided to jerk off instead of have sex with you again. Just tell him to fuck you instead of looking at porn. You can give him a blow job for his dick to get hard the second time.

  • Does he orgasm with you? If so, you're taking it too personally and it's not. He's not lying, because he orgasms right? He wouldn't if you "weren't enough" or doing a bad job. He's just really horny. What can you do? Go for round 2. No point in fighting about it. And/or ask him why he's masturbating and would he like you to give him a second one?

    • Just share with him how it makes you feel, but calmly. Don't start a fight. Talk about it and get him to tell you why and what it's about for him. I'm sure it's not you or the job you're doing though. Just sounds like a really high sex drive.

    • I do go multiple times a day a lot of the time. But sometimes he doesn't want to again, but he still masturbates.. so what could be the reason for that?

    • Have to ask him that.

  • I'm sure you're better than a typical Gag Moderator.

    Guys, Does this mean I'm not sexually satisfying to my boyfriend?

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