Does this mean that I’m not good on top?

The other day I asked him if I could go on top during sex and he said “no I’m feeling good now”. When I’m on top I don’t squat I just bounce up and down a lot and then I move back and forth then I bounce up and down again.
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And then when I asked him after sex why he didn’t allow me to go on top he said that it was because he was feeling good like that
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Superb Opinion

  • No it doesn't mean that you're not good on top, it means that he was really enjoying the position that you were in previously. If it feels best when you're on top riding him, let him know. Maybe you can start on top and finish the way he likes it or vice versa

Most Helpful Girl

  • AmandaYVR blocked me like a pussy so I'm gonna publicly say: telling someone new to exploring their sexuality that they can do whatever they want and it doesn't matter what their boyfriend wants because "he's not in charge" is not empowerment and quite literally encouraging rape. BDSM is not the only time things need to be discussed or agreed upon during or before sex; thats always. If you don't have mutual agreement to what is happening or what is going to happen then you do not have consent; that is not sex, thats rape.

    Sorry that you're middle aged and too up your own ass to have had experienced a healthy sex life. 😋

Most Helpful Guy

  • Not everybody likes certain sex acts the same amount. When you sleep with more than a couple of people I think it’s a given that people enjoy completely different things.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He said no to you?

    Get rid of this guy.

    • This is not good sex. I don't know what the f is happening with young peoples' sex right now but you do not need to stand for this, girl. What happened to both enjoying the moment, and it being a fluid, connected, experience? You don't need to ask. He is NOT in charge. And you can't be bad at it (being on top, or otherwise) as long as you are into it, expressive, and an open communicator.

    • I love him on top though

    • I actually could only come with him on top but I like to take charge sometimes. I want to make him fee good too

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  • He must not have been in mood

  • It’s probable