Does this mean that I’m not the best sex he’s ever had?

I’ve only had sex with him and I told him that despite him being the only person I’ve done it with he’s the best sex that I’ve ever had but he didn’t say that I was too he just said that he loved making love to me. Am i maybe not the best sex that he’s ever had? Sucks that I have to worry about this he doesn’t have to worry about this with me I wish that I was the only girl that he slept with.
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by the way I’ve been having sex with him for over a year now. His favorite sex position is doggy but I don’t do doggy because one time I literally felt like my vagina rip while doing it and after that I’ve just been hesitant about it
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  • Can’t change the past honey, so you gotta let of wanting to be his first and only or feel hurt that you’re not. If that’s the case you would’ve been better served patiently awaiting a virgin man to lose yours to. It’s also hard to say he’s the best sex ever when he’s the only sex you ever had, bc that’s not the compliment you feel like it is when you’re saying it. If you’re not the best sex to him, then so what? You literally have zero experience so why not just enjoy learning and exploring with him instead of creating these standards in your own mind? Giving him your virginity won’t be the reason you are the best, but it is not a competition and it’ll make you self conscious in the bedroom, which makes the experience less enjoyable for you both.

    • Read the update I do have experience we’ve been having sex for more than a year now

    • That’s great, but when I say you have no experience, I’m talking about past lovers aside from him. Like you did enter the relationship with a body count and everything you are learning is with him. Aside from this, I hope that something else in my statement resonated aside from you honing in on just that one part.

    • **you didn’t enter

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm going to give you my honest answer, You're probably not the best sex he's ever had. That being said, some of the women had much more experience than you. It is a huge compliment that he said he enjoys making love to you. The more you are with him and willing to experiment, the better the sex will get between the both of you. You can definitely work up to be the best sex he's ever had

    • My heart just stopped reading this

    • Why, didn't you say he was your first

    • Should I just ask him to make sure because I’m not sure if what you’re saying is true?

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  • I don't want to speak for anyone... but if I just had the best sex of my life with a women I'd tell her. But the best sex I ever had in my life was with the wrong person... so I would not get to upset about it. You're just feeling insecure about your first time, and want that reassurance. SO he did say he loved it and take that for a great thing.

    • @asker Comment on that update you gave... over time you need to work on being more experimental. Doggy Style is not a hard ask for some one I want to be with long term. But he should be willing to take it slow and be easy with you.

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