Does this seem realistic to you?

So these 2 quotes were in 2 separate books written by the same man.
Does this seem realistic to you?
Does this seem realistic to you?
The fact he placed these thoughts into the minds of 2 different characters (instead of just 1 weird character) gives off the impression that when women close to him die, he himself mourns the loss of their breasts from the world, & he inserts this into his writing because he's projecting it onto others.

Is this normal for men? Is it normal for them to hear of a close loved one dying, & for their minds to go to "oh my God, I'm so sad that their breasts are gone"?
I'm gay or asexual
Vote A
I've lost someone close to me from the opposite gender. I've mourned the loss of their breasts, butt, or genitals.
Vote B
I've lost someone close to me from the opposite gender. I did NOT mourn the loss of their breasts, butt, or genitals.
Vote C
I haven't lost someone close to me from the opposite gender, but I've heard of people of the opposite gender dying. I never mourned the loss of their breasts, butt, or genitals.
Vote D
I haven't lost someone close to me from the opposite gender, but I've heard of people of the opposite gender dying, and I mourned the loss of their breasts, butt, or genitals.
Vote E
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  • Uh I would not be only thinking a out there breasts if anything happened to one of my female friends. My bestfriend is pretty freaking hot, but she not my bestfriend just cause she's hot, I would miss her or any female friend in there intirety.

    This just kinda sounds like a bad writer, like he dosent have the imagination or vocabulary to properly explain a woman's beauty or convey that

    "a beutiful young woman, not even in her prime yet already so striking and had so much potential to grow into a truly breathtaking goddess amongst us, was taken far to soon before her time and robbed of her chance to shine as bright as I know she could have"
    My attempt at better writing, lol

    I dont get a gay vibe, I just think a not so great writer that may be attempting to proof the girls significance, or her inner beauty by poorly showcasing her outward beauty.

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  • This is just bad "romance" writing. Romance writing has a low barrier for entry, and clearly it's a bit TOO low.

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  • Guys have told me that girls age-our at around 25. And I do think they are correct. Our once perky breasts and pert butts start to succumb to the ravages of age and gravity :(

    So really, a girl doesn't have to die for people to mourn her breasts or butt or sniz hole (which also gets old and dry and and cavernous with time.) The mourning process can and will happen during a female's lifetime if we live past our mid-twenties.

    • Yet I dated someone in her 40s who was very hot. She didn’t mourn her body and was very empowered. She felt beautiful and confident, so not everyone is the same.

  • I'm sure that when Jane Mansfield died Sophia Loren missed her boobs judging from the pics. Some women are jealous of other's boobs even though they have some decent ones too.

    Does this seem realistic to you?Does this seem realistic to you?

    Eyeing Sophia Vergara

    Does this seem realistic to you?

    Jayne didn't mind showing what she had.

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  • That... Wow. I was as horny a teenager as ever there's been, but even at my most excessive moments, that would *not* have been the first thing I thought of. It might be what makes it click and really makes me realize that a person is gone, but that in itself would strike me as odd.

    Yes, I miss sex with those I've lost, and sure, in an abstract way I think the world's a lesser place without their beauty in it. But I mourn the loss of the people, not the body parts.

  • Excuse me while I go gouge out my eyes for reading this 🚶...

    But to be completely honest while I don't think any sane person mourns the breasts and genitals specifically
    If someone I'm sexually attracted to where to die I would be sad about the idea that I will never get so sleep with her but not in a detailed way as it is portrayed here.

  • Why on earth is he writing about a middle-school aged girl’s “developing breasts”?

    Dude’s fuckin weird.

    • Lol.

    • Most guys are into that I've been told. Society has made it so they can't admit it though. They sell dolls to men like the one below. I'm 100% serious. Something like 84% of dudes own a doll like this...
      Does this seem realistic to you?

    • That’s... concerning to say the least 😅

  • Maybe just a bit lazy/lacking copy and paste? Don't writers write characters before writing the whole books?

  • Kind of weird and is on the board line of a sexual manipulator. Death is not a funny reason to think of their lack of sexual appearance.

  • The dudes a weirdo not because he mourns breasts but because he mourns young breasts. yeah pretty weird

    • The young breasts also belonged to his younger sister, & there was another weird passage in the book about he observed his sister's breasts developing

  • Okay. .. When I see shitty writing work..
    I feel responsible to write good stuff..

  • Wait, there are male romance novelists?

  • Bad translation.

  • I'm not going to lie, that's fucking insane

  • More important question: Why do you care? What is it with you people and your obsession with not being sexually objectified?
    I'll say it again, if you're so bothered by it just get a mastectomy and you'll never have to worry about it again!

    • That's a long way of saying "yes I do"

    • Maybe I do, maybe I don't. The problem is you people have a visceral disgust of any sexual. Sexual assault, sexual harassment, sexual objectification. Just knowing that a male is having sexual thoughts sends chills up your spine. Makes you want to inflict terrible punishment on him. You people need to get over it cause penises are all around you and are here to stay whether you like it or not.

    • It is not the fact that he is having a sexual thought; it is the fact that somebody DIED and all he can think about is her tits.

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  • Ngl- I have also been sad when beautiful girls have died (though not specifically because of their breasts.)

  • Need a medical opinion on this. I'm out of my element.

  • LOL, I dont think that normal men would think this way. He seems to fetishize them even more than I do.

  • OMG I can not believe I actually read that. I myself love women's bodies but I do not feel the need to mourn their breasts or their body parts if they died. In fact for me my heart mourns the fact they are unable to have a life, that I will miss them, who they are, their personality. That certain thing that every person has that reminds me of that person that i love so much. I would miss that. Makes me want to hug or give a last kiss to say goodbye and hope we meet again.

  • Granted they were my grandmother and great grandmother, so their age in comparison to me may have had something to do with it.

  • I... Hmm... This could have a deeper meaning or be the creepiest shit I've ever seen. Overall, I can't give an opinion on what I am not sure of.

  • This has to be satire LMFAO

  • Fiction does not have to represent real life.

  • It seems kinda unusual, but Japanese culture is quite unique.

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