Does this sound like rape?

[Anonymous]

I have a sex buddy that I have been having sex with for almost 5 years. (Please don't judge me.) Last night we had sex in his basement. He wanted head and I told him no. He grabbed my head and tried to force me down on him. I didn't scream because his family was there, so I had to play it off. He also choked me a little too hard during sex. Which I allow him to but personally I think he did it this time because I wouldn't give oral. I will stop talking to him, but should I warn other women?

[virgin20]

Anything non consensual at the time is classified as rape. You didn't want it but he used force on you sexually, which is what rape is. Good luck telling someone that since you are friends with benefits.
But this is a red flag to me and there is a chance it could happen again to other girls. Do what feels right

[Asker]

Thank you.

[virgin20]

You're welcome. Good luck 🙂

[Asker]

I'm scared to expose him, I'll just definitely tell him not to talk to me anymore

[virgin20]

Why fear? What if he raped you but because your friends with benefits that won't hold up, would you warn other girls so they don't go through the same ordeal? It's your choice on what you do

[ChrisMaster69]

Erm yes that’s rape

it’s non consent end of.

definitely don’t see him again, these things tend to escalate.

[Pink6o6]

You should never see him again. What he did was wrong.

[havingfun101]

Guys, she can cry rape years later and destroy your life, without getting in trouble... is she really worth the risk?

[Wise4myage]

You said no and he forced it on you, so yes that’s rape. Do yourself a favor and end this relationship.

[Wise4myage]

Narc?

[Asker]

Narcissist

[Wise4myage]

Ah ok, thanks.

[Gedaria]

Don't know but by would not be my friend..

[MarkyMark77]

wait did u actually suck him?

[Asker]

No, he wanted me to. I said no so he tried to force me but gave up

[MarkyMark77]

why didn't u wanna suck that dick?

[Asker]

Cause I just didn't lol

[yazerr]

5 years!!!
Unfortunately You became his sex toy

[Asker]

Yeah. 💔 I noticed that but iblet my low self esteem get the best of me. I will definitely tell him that I dont want to see him anymore

[yazerr]

I wonder, how could you leave your body like this for this person?

[yazerr]

I do not mean any insult, but your friend thinks you have become his own. If you tell him that you want to end this relationship, he will go crazy and he can hurt you.

[yazerr]

Good step How was his response?

[Asker]

I didn't check, I just blocked him

[yazerr]

Hope you have a good life with someone who deserves you and appreciates you

[yazerr]

But don't forget to be very careful

[Asker]

Thank you!!! I will, he won't do anything, he'll just move on

[Valnac]

Yes definitely, there’s no excuse for what he did to you.

[Asker]

Exactly!! If a girl says no, then just ask what she is comfortable with

[Valnac]

That’s what I do.

[Asker]

That's because you're normal and you're not a creep. I never thought he would do something like that. If he did that then he would probably try to kill me one day

[Anonymous]

not really