Does wearing padded bra /Push up bra is a cheating?

[Anonymous]

Some girls who have got small boobs or flat chest they wear push up bra, one of my sister also has got almost flat chest but she wear padded bra/ push up bra, Now her boyfriend has dumped her when he got to see her topless first time, he thinks she has cheated on him, My sister still loves him and she is asking me to talk to him and settle down this matter, I don't understand why girls do so many makeovers, if she had a flat chest then she should not have been wearing padded/push up bra as one day she had to face this,

What do you think?

[Wonderingguyy]

What the hell 😂 first of all you shouldn’t be involved in this, it’s creepy for you to be. Secondly, you shouldn’t care if your sister is wearing a push up bra or not…not your business at all. And no it’s not ‘cheating’ or a ‘makeover’ it’s literally a piece of clothing! only a completely insecure asshole of a boyfriend would feel this way. Her ex boyfriend sounds like an idiot and you shouldn’t be trying to get him back for her.

[Asker]

Okay but she still lover him and she wants me to intervene that's why I came to know about this

[DubiousIntentions]

@wonderingguyy Really? Does that go for guys stuffing a big roll of socks in their pants to make themselves look bigger too? How about a toupe' if you are a bit thin upstairs? In these cases you are bound to be found out and those fooled will declare you a fake, and a misleading one at that. Don't wear anything that will mislead people into thinking they are getting more than they bargained for. That is called false advertising. 🤓👎

[summiter]

@DubiousIntentions Great reply!!!

[Wonderingguyy]

@DubiousIntentions why can’t insecure guys that want more hair wear a toupe? Why can’t men make themselves look bigger down there if they want to? It’s literally the same as some chics self tanning or wearing makeup. You can't pin the word ‘fake’ on everyone that slightly alters their appearance to make themselves feel better! You’re just insanely judgmental. You’re going to wind up pretty lonely in life if you ditch anyone with any slight change they’ve done to themselves.

[DubiousIntentions]

@wonderingguyyThe question was about cheating, not making yourself feel better, which I am not disputing. Did you not understand what the question was about?

[Anonymous]

No different than her wearing make up, she’s falsifying her looks somewhat which most women do, but he shouldn’t break up with her for that , I could see him being disappointed, since she made it look like she had more than she really does but it shouldn’t be a big deal because she still the same person

[Anonymous]

It's false advertisement. I just wear sport bras but all bras has tiny bit of padding to hide the nipple but not like that. I mean like 1/4th of an inch volume but that doesn't count. I know which ones you mean.

Clearly her boyfriend didn't care for her if all it took was her breast size to leave her but I don't blame him at all. This is why I never wear makeup. I dont wanna give the wrong impression

[Asker]

I also not blaming to her boyfriend as its his life and his choices, in some countries Guys do care for breast sizes and many Guys can dump his girlfriend if the see a " Flat chest ", My sister knew this from the beginning but still she kept on wearing those highly padded bra and Now she got stuck !

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah thats on her. Its always best to show your real self. This is something I argue about with my friends. Because for example imma get hair transplant later this year. (Basically you take root of hair from back of your hair and put it in the front) and it will grow infront instead. It is permenent. And I have no bald spit but you know edges in the front and I wanna fix it permenently but he says just hide it with your hair. Same with makeup i wanna fix my skin with trestments he says just wear makeup. Its better to invest in long term natrual treatmentments than do temporary stuff otherwise you'll look like a stranger everg night😂

[Asker]

Very right

[Sasha0426]

If it’s false advertisement, then why were those bras invented? Or why is there no restrictions on who can wear them?

[Opinion Owner]

@Sasha0426 😂 it was invented to make men think we are more attractive than we really are. Thats why makeup is a multi billion dollar business

[Sasha0426]

Then let’s get rid of everything men find false advertising for women.

[Opinion Owner]

@Sasha0426 well Im not saying that. Im just saying its false advertisemnt. People can do whatever they want.

[Asker]

CHEATING, CHEATING, CHEATING

[Sasha0426]

@Opinion Owner If it’s false advertisement, let’s get rid of it. Start a petition to shut down clothing and makeup companies.

[Sasha0426]

@Tracker Then start a petition now.

[Opinion Owner]

@trackboy ignore her she has deep issues she even says she is a red flag herself. Dont attack her she needs help.

[Sasha0426]

@Opinion Owner Well, am I wrong? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Sasha0426 i wish you all the best!

[Sasha0426]

What? What are you afraid of shutting down companies?

[Sasha0426]

It’s their fault, isn’t it? Shouldn’t they be out of business?

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO

[Alli39]

I mean I don't generally do it and I wouldn't really recommend it since people sometimes react like this. But if it it's the look you're going for and you don't care about any potential negative reactions from boob-obsessed dudes then do what you want. To be clear, I don't consider make-up cheating either. It's about creating a look, ya know?

[Hot_Mess_Express]

It's leveling the playing field... Fancy clothes, and makeup are so ubiquitous now a days that if you go out in sweats and no makeup you aren't going to stand out.
Sure I want someone to want me for my mind, but I'm not exactly turning heads on the street with my brain so a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do 💄

[CindyRuns]

Why is it any of your business what sort of bras your sister wears?

[madhatters4]

i think it's a little deceptive but so what. it's pretty pathetic to break up with someone over the size of their breasts

you should tell your sister to stay the hell away from guys who will dump them over their cup size

[Anemone978]

Well if you have small boobs and they want big boobs it will never work it is the same if you look gorgeous with makeup on but when you take it off you look like a dog.. its a form of lying lol

[EmmaMary]

Girls/Women who do this are ultimately deluding themselves, as well as sending out a complete and inappropriate false impression.

Whilst fully realising and appreciating that it's more an insecurity and vanity thing, this normally only ends in sadness and upsets.

[slatyb]

Cheating? It's just clothing.

[Dargil]

It's adornment. Like makeup

[alice55]

It's not, with some top you're force to wear one if not the top isn't going to look nice. Push up doesn't just make the breast look bigger but it give the treats another form and put them higher which is needed for some special top.

[anon1903]

If you dump somebody over their size, congratulations — you're a douche!

[elizamichale1]

Howcan it be a cheating huh

[Reem12345reem]

Not cheating, just being fake , now I understand bc they might be insecure about it , bc a lot of girls would do that or even hide some parts of their bodies they feel insecure about

[Mansearching]

Not cheating. Some girls need more support. Some like to have some clevage when they don't have much boobage to begin with.

[Alex-Snow]

I have no issue with them. It is what is underneath that counts!

[Sasha0426]

You’re one weird dude talking about your sister like this.

[BigDog1989]

Of course. It's like stuffing your junk with socks to make it "appear bigger"

[Asker]

Many girls do and also they put tons of Make up and when the boyfriend sees the ' Reality " he loose all the attentions !

[BigDog1989]

They can

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No, it is not cheating, quite fair and honest. However, why?

[EaterPeter]

Nope

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes it is...

[Asker]

@hotboy_booblover I also think its a kind of deception and cheating, My sister did and now she is regretting, always show what you have only

[Anonymous]

Creepy to be talking about your sister like this.

[Asker]

Her boyfriend told me why he dumped her and now my sister wants me to help her for a patch up