Dominant or Submissive?

[DomEric]

And why

[David92506]

I've had experiences with professional dominant women and they were great! I don't have to worry about anything and they are in complete control. I just do what they want and they are happy.

However, I only enjoy being with a Dominant woman if I'm paying for it. In other words, I don't like being yelled at, slapped, etc., unless I'm paying for it.

I prefer a mature relationship that is 50-50 with healthy boundaries and clear communication.

[missy52]

Where'd you find these women?

[missy52]

Also, I don't like that form of dominance. You don't have to assert control by constantly being domineering and cruel. I think that there are ways to be in a healthy 50-50 relationship with one person who's clearly the dom and another who's visibly sub.

[perfectchaos]

I fall on the submissive side. I don't know why I just do. Plus dominating like choking and even anything above a very light slap is turnoff for me. I know its supposed to feel good but I can't think of it any other way then I'm hurting my significant other and I don't want to do that.

[Vickymoore9]

I like both rolls it’s all about who I’m with I’m more flexible than most I don’t mind being dominant or dominated

[B2281]

Very nice!

[KatherineJ]

I’m much more comfortable and confident in the submissive role.

[missy52]

Dom. I HATE giving up control. But I'm also willing to submit... barely if it'll bring me more plessure. Either I'm dom or we just don't do kink.

[nodnol32]

Very well said. Real women are dominant.

[missy52]

Real women can be submissive. It's b. s. to say that they aren't real. What about men? Isn't the social norm for men to be dominant? Does that mean to you, real men don't submit? Society doesn't run with only leaders in the medley. What someone does in bed doesn't reflect their strength out of it.

[nodnol32]

@missy52 you're right. Was just saying it because i prefer women to be dominant but you are absolutely right. Sorry.

[missy52]

It's okay hun.

[Avalonbowman]

Submissive. I like being tied up and blind folded. Don’t really know why...

[shreya_shiry]

Submissive. It's natural I guess

[The_Inquisitor]

I am in the middle, some women have the power to make me submit

[Shdz721]

Im more of a Sub I want the guy to take controll

[Neko911]

Sub.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Both. Cuz I'm a normal human being

[JosyJosy]

Dom, cause I like being dom

[Iron_Man]

Dominant

[Nayyr]

More submissive than dominant

[Anonymous]

Both. In real life, I make a lot of the decisions and most of the time I'm dominant in bed too. When my girlfriend is in the mood to be dominant, it can be really hot to take and follow orders from her.

[Anonymous]

Submissive. My girlfriend is dominant. It suits us.