- Yes I know he is married but a lot of gay men have girlfriends or wives and are just secretly gay. And I'm not homophobic, I am just asking a question. The reason I ask is because look at the way he talks and his mannerisms. Most likely gay or bi.
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... Yes I know he is married but a lot of gay men have girlfriends or wives and are just secretly gay...
That’s true, and to acknowledge it doesn’t suggest anything negative about you whatsoever. It only reveals that you’ve been paying attention to how the world ACTUALLY works.
The faux wife, fiancé or girlfriend of a gay man was once (and may well STILL be for all I know) known colloquially as his ‘beard’. A beard’s *job* was, as you know, to provide plausible deniability to any gossip or rumors regarding the gay man’s true sexual orientation which might begin circulating in those days when such deniability might be a very important part of his successful passage through life.
Was it ‘fair’ for a gay man to have to jump through one more hoop like that?
Since only naive utopian fools focus overmuch on what’s *fair* in life, it’s not really on my radar screen and I can’t honestly rank it’s ‘fairosity index’.
It was simply a generally effective work-around that served those who needed it well enough, even though it was arguably a fucked-up situation that they had to use it.
In somewhat the same way that my dependance on a walking stick to keep MY crippled old ass upright is.0 0 0 0
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You've mentioned gay things a lot in your recent questions, I'm beginning to think that you are yourself in fact gay and just not admitting it to yourself. Maybe you would be a happier person if you just came out.
0 0 0 0I tend to mention a lot about one topic in a row in numerous questions. I do it with a lot of things on this site. That is how I am. I am not gay at all. Good job avoiding the question
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I loved that shoe however I do not believe Todd is metrosexual I think he may be bisexual or even gay. Wife probably is his beard and if she is she's definitely knows and won't complain. He is rich
0 0 0 0Wife is his beard? What do you mean by that?
Beard as in his coverup
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0 2Yeah he does seem feminine
0 0 0 0Do you think most likely he is gay or bi?
Not according to the show
In your opinion not the show. What do you think? Just cause he is married to a woman doesn't mean he could not be in the closet. What do you think?
agreed he is a bit of a drama queen. id take that house , money , his wife and kids as he is doing okay, lives next door to usher
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