Dressing up in the bedroom - have you done it and would you do it?

[Askyouruncle]

Girls, how would you feel if your partner asked you to dress up in a sexy outfit, or costume, in the bedroom, French maid outfit, sexy German beer-wench, etc... and would you like you partner to dress as anything? Guys can answer too.

[JackSmy]

Some women like that kind of play, and sometimes role-reversal playing, with their open, caring, understanding and willing guys!!
can be great fun, among people that just trust, and care about each other, and like playing, as adults, in whatever way they like!

[Britantic]

Not really maybe I've been wearing a Halloween costume or a Santa or elf costume from work.
I often wear my school uniform to his place, seems to get his blood pumping, my hockey uniform too, maybe they don't count.

[zeekitten26]

I would definitely do it and I have. My man doesn’t need to dress up. I can't imagine him dressed as a plumber 😂😂

[Vesta]

What usually gets you to want to do it?

[zeekitten26]

@Vesta I like keeping our sex life interesting so thats my main motivation to do it.

[Vesta]

Why do you feel like roleplay makes it interesting. I'm not saying it doesn't, I'm just asking why do you feel it does

[zeekitten26]

@Vesta its like having sex in the same position only. Why do it? So I spice it up and try new things. Sex should never be boring.

[Vesta]

I mean, I could certainly have sex in the same position. I don't want to do anal, so, why should I switch it up?

[Hamsteroids]

I would be so shy or nervous bc I’m not really the confident type but if he wanted me to, I would

[Vesta]

What should he do, do make you feel more confident and willing to do it?

[Vesta]

to* make you

[Hamsteroids]

I’m not sure 🤔 maybe hype me up or make me feel less awkward? I wouldn’t want to do this for him with the intent of being sexy and end up completely butchering it and doing the opposite of sexy lol

[Askyouruncle]

🙂 Would you like him to dress in anything for you?

[Hamsteroids]

@Askyouruncle Honestly, no haha but if he does, it’s not necessarily sexy but rather funny and to make me laugh

[Secret6620]

Never tried. But not opposed. ♥️🥰

[morimeme1]

I would love to if it is what gets him going, if fact I have but nothing as specific as a maid or smth.

[Vesta]

Just depends on what he'd want. You'd have to see what he'd like. What causes you to want to do it though, if you were to?

[morimeme1]

I feel desirable and it brings some new excitement into the bedroom. I have always known I'd be into role-play though, that way it is easier to escape my usually rather shy persona and realise my fantasies through pretending to be someone else.

[Vesta]

So it gets you going, pretending to be someone else. Shouldn't that technically mean that anyone who roleplays, has MPD (multiple personality disorder)

[morimeme1]

I think that's a bit extreme because that was just my opinion and that would mean all actors also have MPD basically

[Vesta]

Paid to do it though

[morimeme1]

Chose to do it though by personal wishes and talents

[Vesta]

They're paid to though. THEY DONT HAVE TO

[morimeme1]

Exactly - they don't have to, they want to.

[Vesta]

Because they're being paid, they don't HAVE to

[morimeme1]

What's your point, in bed you don't have to either 😂

[Vesta]

RIGHT!

[Phanta]

Never have, never will. Mighty stupid.