Drunk seduction? I'm so embarrassed?

[Anonymous]

So this guy I've been dating for a while (we're not official) and I went out for drinks the other night. I was out of control and I never really drank before so this was a first for me. I got really frisky and was doing some really inappropriate things. We were at his apartment on the balcony and I was saying how much I like him and I practically dragged him into the bedroom. I don't remember much but I remember I was giving him kisses down his stomach cause he wasn't wearing a shirt and then I said something really bad like "why is your belt stopping me from going down?" and I removed it. Luckily he stopped me and I ended up falling asleep next to him and now that I'm sober I'm really embarrassed that I was acting so inappropriate. I swear I would have lost my virginity to him if he hadn't stopped me. He wants to see me again tomorrow but I think my behavior was so embarrassing and super forward. How do I get over this? I'm blushing just thinking about it

[ScottStevens]

"Luckily he stopped me"! That comment should put everything at ease for you. You are young yet old enough to be out at a guys apartment till whenever, so you were not thinking about having to be home. Given the amount you drank, and the aggressive posture you were in, I would say this guy has a real attraction for you and he did not want to lose everything in the future by taking advantage of the situation.

Go out tomorrow! Dress very appropriately and smartly! Give him the impression you are very mature and keep the skin at bay. Make sure you let him know how much you appreciate his gentleman like behavior when you had your first big drinking experience of your life. Let him know he scored big gentleman points and you are very interested in having a relationship and growing more as an adult with him. This way of speaking will let him know you were out of character that night, but you also are thanking him for being a gentleman. You are discussing the issue in a way that is not awkward for either of you!

Best Wishes, and enjoy the evening!

[AustinMan]

Just learn the lesson. Don't get that drunk. One, maybe two and then stop. Try to let him drive. He's cystal clear on what you want so see if he's on the same page. Sounds like he might well be.

Are you kinky? If so, I have some ideas.

[Anonymous]

Hahahahah! We have all been there. Well, at least most of us lol!
Good sign is, you didn’t turn him off because he wants to see you again. He probably wants to do those things with you— but with the sober you.

Also, (side note) where do you live where bars/restaurants are still open? Everything is closed here due to covid-19.

[spartan55]

Whoops... Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Why’d you said that?

[spartan55]

Seems like you may have poked a hole in her story.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah! Haha.

[Asker]

We bought a few drinks at the LCBO and had them at his apartment like I mentioned in my question :)

[Opinion Owner]

Oooh. “We went out for drinks” sounds like you guys were @ a bar or something. Should have said, “we drank at his apartment”.

[Asker]

:) "We were at his apartment on the balcony" literally copy & pasted from my question lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I saw that but it sounded like you were saying afterwards you guys went there 🥰. Anyways hope you find a solution to your issue.

[katiesmuff]

Those actions seem quite accurate for Anonymous TROLLS, however the good news is that there could be a calling for you to write erotic short novels for the TROLL society.

[chriscdi]

dont get drunk lol, thats a good dude right there

[genericname85]

you were drunk xD if a girl i liked did this, i'd find that hot :D i think you might have a keeper on your hands there ;) he didn't try to exploit your state. he stopped you to wait for a chance when you actually can fully consciously consent. this is great in my opinion. he wants to see you again, that means he's probably fine with what has happened. i don't think it's a big deal. those things happen when people get drunk. it's fine.

[honestGUY45]

If he wants to see you again, you're probably OK.

[gibgabbs]

Its honourable of him that he stopped you

[Tomsta]

Be honest about with him. Tell him that you are not normally like that and you appreciate that he stopped you

Also you learn to live with what your like in the bedroom. I find its much easier to come to terms with thing if the person you with actually enjoys it when your like thay

[andrermm]

You're not the first drunk girl in the world. Just tell him how it is

[Twalli]

He was probably really turned on. He probably wants to do that again when you are sober and go all the way. If he didn't like that he wouldn't want to meet you again.

[loveboye]

Well you showed him the real inner you.
Don't feel. Embarrassed just enjoy the time with him

[Nopalpintao]

Just laugh it off i guess I've been getting drunk a lot since 2008 and made tons of mistakes but not terrible ones even though i was a string away from it.

[Nice222]

He sounds like a really nice and responsible guy I would advise that you see him again.

[Anonymous]

Uh, just keep seeing him, the more time you spend together the more it's in the past.

He seems like a sweet guy. He may want to discuss it or allude to it at some point, and you might mention you're not … used to drinking much. And there would have been other things you weren't used to if he hadn't slowed you down, so thanks, cause you'd rather remember them!

[Anonymous]

At least he was a gentleman so don’t worry about it, he knows it was the alcohol but wants to see you because you obviously like him