Drunk sex. Can't get wet or aroused. Am I the only one that feels this way?

[Anonymous]

When I'm drunk, I get horny and am more adventurous. In my mind I'm turned on but I just can't get wet at all and I don't experience any feel good sensations during sex even though I really want to. Its so embarrassing when I'm with a guy and he can't enter me all the way because it hurts too much due to my dryness. When I'm sober, I never have this problem. I can get so wet easily and I can orgasm so quickly. But when I'm drunk, I can't feel anything good during sex. Its like I can't be drunk and can't have good sex at the same time. Why is it like this for me? How can i make it better. I don't understand how people say drunk sex is good. It sucks for me! Can't feel anything when drunk!

[ilovesexyfeet]

Lubrication required can be fun too. How much do u drink though to get in a more adventurous state of mind? Guys sometimes have difficulty staying hard when drunk but usually when they are way over the top drunk when just a couple of drinks should be enough to lose many inhibitions. Try drinking less and using a good lube see if it helps. Are u also talking about different partners each time your drunk? One night stands etc because u may need an emotional connection sometime to get horny and wet and not just a random bloke from the club.

[Asker]

Once I feel buzzed, I stop drinking which doesn't take me too long to get there. So like it ranges from 3-5 drinks, mostly vodka mixed drinks. This was no longer a random hookeup because I did have sex with him before and I really needed him to make me cum! Do you suggest that I try fucking him when I'm sober? When I'm sober and he's not with me, I can think about him and get super wet, but when he's here, I can't get wet? Maybe its because we only see other when were drunk lol. So should I see him when I'm sober?

[ilovesexyfeet]

Yes y it sober but also get some lube its cheap and can be fun and flavoured so I like to use it regardless and love giving her oral with it which always gets her extra wet and adds to the taste. Spend time on foreplay too it always helps u can sit in front of him playing with yourself teasing him til your dripping then tell him to take u and make u cum

[truthbeknown]

My body doesn't respond either. Drunk sex is a no go for me.

[Asker]

I know! Doesn't it suck when we can't have both

[truthbeknown]

Maybe when I was younger, but now I prefer only sober sex. Nothing worse than being drunk and uncoordinated and sloppy and maybe not 100% aware of what is going on. Also I can't stand beer breath.

[JägerDerNacht]

Never heard of Whiskey Vag before... I definitely recommend keeping some lube handy!

[slackercruster]

That is how you are, have sex when you can enjoy it.

[kheserthorpe]

How drunk are you talking?

Alcohol reduces sensitivity. Just like men can be too drunk to get hard, you could be too drunk to get physically aroused.

[Asker]

I drank 2 shots of svedka which is 35% alcohol. And 3 other mixed drinks. I didn't eat too much either, but I was able to handle myself. No puking or anything lol just enough to feel drunk.

[madhatters4]

drinking dehydrates your body I imagine this is the biggest reason you are so dry.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Have some lube on your nightstand.

[ImaSloth]

Drink more.. Water :P

[scottb80]

Personally, I actually find a little bit of alcohol to be good for arousal and sex. It helps me loosen up, become more relaxed, and be less nervous. Though too much as others have said is not good.

[Asker]

how do i know when is too much? i guess i should stay away from shots then? i only drink 2 or 3 shots of vodka and then a couple of mixed drinks. should i just keep it to one drink? So should i sacrifice being drunk for good sex?

[scottb80]

You learn your limits over time, through trial and error. Though, I'd say drink enough to get the buzz.

[JustinGGG]

I find it more difficult to get an erection when i'm drunk.. so it's not just you. Alcohol just effects some people sexually I guess