Sexual Relationships 
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Men are generally less discriminating when it comes to hooking up. They have standards of course but they generally have lower standards than women do.
Out of 100 women the typical man might be open to the idea of hooking up with 40 of them.
Out of 100 men, the typical woman might be open to DATING 40 of them, but she will only have casual sex with maybe 10 of them.
Girls rarely hookup with guys who are less attractive than them. Girls are only willing to compromise on looks for relationships.
Contrary to the notion of sluts having low standards, they commonly have HIGHER standards when hooking up.
For example, read what this girl has to say about her hookups..
My one night stands were with HOT men; men that I would have considered out of my league... When it came to hooking up, my partners prerequisite were higher; at least superficially, than those I deemed necessary in a man I was dating. Seems weird to see that admission in type but quite frankly my criteria for a man I had a one night stand with were all superficially higher; looks, swag, attitude, dress, etc. When dating, the qualities in the men I sought dealt more with depth of character and intellect. Source:
https://dirtyinpublic.com/index.php/926/casual-sex-equally-desired-notable-gender-gap/
In other words if a girl has casual sex with you then she actually physically desires and lusts for you.
If a girl wants you for a relationship chances are she doesn't see you as much of a lover. I.E. Someone she really lust after.
While she will have sex with you, she sees you more of a companion she can share her feelings and time with, and possibly look to the future in helping raise kids.
Guys who fall into the LTR category are more likely to be less physically desired and it is one of reasons why many girls today actually cheat on their boyfriends with guys who get casual sex and then run back to their boyfriend without him ever knowing.
From a Mytake owner of "Girls in tinder have sex alot" a student in sexology
Girls on Tinder have SEX a lot
She states:
It's also something I noticed that "porn style sex" occurs on these casual encounters and women seem to enjoy that but many don't feel comfortable doing that with a long term partner.
There's the saying, it's pretty misogynistic but also holds some truth, "girls want to be treated like a princess and fucked like a slut". The thing is that is hard to form these two contradicting bonds with one partner. That's why we often see women giving it up for some guys who treat them like "sluts" and have crazy sex in no time, but take a while to put out with a serious partner. ."
The age range of people we questioned anonymously was 18 to 40. There seem to be a lot of single mothers but, apparently also married women ! who use tinder to have casual sex.
The number of women cheating however (this is also discovered through other researches) is also increasing VERY fast, and it is becoming less and less taboo, which in my eyes is a little shocking.
So from this we see women really want to have sex with guys they are actually physically attracted to but at same time these guys do not offer companionship that women want also and often make them feel liked used up sluts. In short, girls want to be treated special, loved and have companionship but at same time they have conflict in associating a raw, fiery desire to the men who offer these things to them.
In the above study "Girls on tinder have sex a lot" It was reported that many girls have casual sex using the app, but only a small percentage of men were having a lot of casual sex while using app.
Men who fit these description:
"Muscular, relaxed, and well endowned"
Another study was done where a dude pretended to be an attractive guy and an average guy and talked to some girls via text.
In one profile the guy was average looking, generally kind to women, being himself and was basically a straight up gentlemen. Many of the girls faind a good girl act saying "they don't do hookups", "only looking for serious relationship", and so forth. Some were kind,a nd put on a good girl act and acted like they never do anything slutty.
In another profile the guy was really hot, and demanding of sex. Told the girls they need to message him, and treated girls like they were garbage. The same girls who were acting like "saints" to the average profile were basically sending nude pics, talking about how they wanted to suck him off, sending flirty text, asking for Skype sex, and wanting to hook up immediate.
Link:https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/q1778900/ce27cc60-0c33-4bb2-94dd-c1d566878dc9.jpg
This is further supported in another study which stated the most attractive guys tend to have the most amount of sexual partners. While suprsiingly the most attractive girls tend to have the least amount of sexual partners. This could be attributed to many guys being too timid to approach or assuming the hot girl is already taken so they don't bother approaching.
So the bleak picture for men is this:
guys who are in the 8-10 range of attractiveness who are confident and fun are the ones getting most of the casual sex. They are the most successful on tinder and are often the guys who will be seeing multiple girls at the same time. The thing is they are less discriminating and often sleep with girls below their league (girls in the 5-7 range) to get easy sex and then settle down with an 8-10/10 girl or a girl who hasn’t slept around.
The average guys get stuck committing to the average looking girls that none of the players wanted.
Also he generally has to wait months for the sex the players got right away. It’s like a trade the attractive guy gets easy no strings attached sex from a girl who maybe isn’t his top choice, and the girl gets to have sex with a hot guy who would have never given her the time of day if she demanded commitment first. So girls “ explore their sexuality” with guys who are out of their league physically and then settle down with a guy who is less attractive than the guys she used to hook up with, but generally this guy has a lower number of sexual partners than she does so she will lie about hers. Generally this guy makes more money so its not a bad deal for the girl.
What Girls & Guys Said
30 39Just rape.
Sorry to say but no woman worth havng is gonna sleep with you in the first 3-6 months, thats just life. when a girl gives me pussy on date 1-3 I automatically put her in the "not taking home to mom" category. she becomes a fun girl that I might date but i would never be serious about.
On the other hand my girlfriend and I have been together 8 month, no sex... I'm currently starting to make her experience foreplay because she is a virging... still waiting on the sex and no regrets so far.
If you want a relationship then I suggest, for your sake to never take seriously the girl who gave it away quick
good take.
"Generally this guy makes more money so its not a bad deal for the girl."
Girls are leeches.
"so its not a bad deal for the girl."
It's a very good deal for the girl but it's a raw deal for men like me and this is one of the reasons I am more than happy to stay single for the rest of my life. I've had women like this try and get with me and they cannot understand why I "play hard to get", the self-entitled cunts.
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Every word here is true.
Fantastic take! Really first class analysis well presented!
I'm a girl and agree. If a guy who is just my type and is really hot only wants me for sex then, although I haven't done this, I would consider it because it's such an amazing opportunity. But these guys don't commit so when I get a boyfriend I do want to be attracted to them but it's impossible for me to be In a relationship with someone who I find ridiculously attractive
Yeah, that matches my experience. I used to be a conservative guy (bitch, lol), then had the good fortune of meeting a guy who knew how to get laid -- kicked that stupidity out of me, lol.
Since then, plenty of dates and lays.
Nice myTake, very accurate.
Well that was assuming some quite sweeping generalisations there and yes there is evidence to back it up, but really not every girl is like that... You could say the same about guys, they want girls that are good in bed for one night stands and will satisfy them sexually (rather than a girl who cares more about something long-term etc.) and want loving wives who will be good mothers etc. But not all men are like that are they?
So honestly you can twist it whichever way you want but you can never put human behaviour into boxes and say "girls do this" "guys do that" etc. because there are always vast exceptions to the rule.
Also, this didn't really relate to the title... And there are some good reasons why a man or woman may want to wait (which in turn means their partner waits too)
Holy shit. Nobody is denying this take. That’s outstanding. I think I finally get it now. These guys have to find hookups with girls below their league, then it’s easy. Then these girls come on this site and complain that guys only want sex. It’s like, no, only the attractive guys only want sex from average girls. It’s just like how ‘nice guys’ only want sex from the hottest women in exchange for niceness, girls only want to try and get commitment from the hottest guys after hooking up. As if they don’t realize what’s going on from his perspective. I can’t because I’m just now figuring this out.
There should be an equivalent expression to ‘niceness is not exchanged for sex’ that says ‘sex is not exchanged for commitment.’ Wow. I literally just blew my own mind. I can’t believe I figured it out. I knew something was off about the whole hookup dynamic/culture, could just never quite put my finger on it till now.
This is true. A guy named Tom Leykis gives advice to guys about dating and getting laid. He mentioned about this and how je moves on. The whole "comfortable" thing is BS. You get "comfortable" with a hot guy within 5 - 10 minutes but with a "regular" guy they have to wait a long time. by the way in marriages, sex life is bad. The best sex is in the first 6 months. From there and out it dies. Don't believe me, observe people and listen to their lives.
Just allow someone else to do the "heavy lifting" if they "make" you wait. 😂
I have no time to read
and why does this "study" of yours matter? thats only about a few twisted women. next time dont generalise and project your fears of women on the whole gender... .
And here I am getting it all.
Life is good.
As someone who has had four healthy relationships with a lot of good sex involved... I can tell you that it's worth waiting until your woman is comfortable enough with you to have sex.
I'm sorry sir but it's true, you and i are just pussy betas. Other guys have more sex with more wimminz, so we lose the game. You may think your relationships are fulfilling, but are they more fulfilling than a large quantity of drunken, unmemorable trysts? Didn't think so.
I guess I could see this for other women, but I'm not a typical woman. I do not have casual sex, nor will I ever. I understand the "wants to have a companion for life" bit, I do not want children or even marriage, but I do want a companion. I want sex with my one partner. For me, I don't trust the guy, but once I do I open up. Once I get comfortable with the guy, he arouses me. There's something about that level of trust and comfort, we can both be open to experimenting... I enjoy that.
So, whoever I enter a relationship with next, I won't have sex with him until I'm ready. I will not be having sex with him early on in the dating stages, so he will have to wait a bit or move on. If he really cares for me, he'll wait and he will be in for some [good] surprises.
-Also, same goes for him, if he isn't ready I would never push him into having sex with me. I'll wait until he is ready.
I'm sorry, I don't sleep around because these are really stupid games humanity is guilty of partaking in.
As is your prerogative.
If I don't want to sleep with you, I'm NOT sleeping with you. Damn.. Not everything is about sex. Ladies, stay away from men like this and date one who will respect you even if you desire abstinence.
If you believe in Abstinence I wish you good luck my friend.
... 🤔🤣. Seems only less attractive girls get used like this. How ironic.
So are the girls who don't want sex outside of a relationship screwed then?
Not at all