During a blowjob do you warn your partner when you are about to cum?

Girls do you like a warning? I'm asking because every girl that has given me a blowjob has asked for a warning before except one but when I came in her mouth she got angry. When my friend found this out he found it strange as he has never given a warning or been asked for a warning.
I'm a guy and I warn
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I'm a guy and I do not warn
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I'm a girl please warn me
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I'm a girl no warning needed
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  • This was very informative for me. I don't understand how a guy can have an orgasm building and possibly need to TELL his partner that he's about to cum. I mean, if you're about to cum, aren't you breathing more heavily, moaning, going like "AAAAANNNHHH" and "UUUUUNNNNNHHHH" and shit? I mean what dude is trying to have a stealth orgasm? Is he in prison? (I've heard orgasms there tend to be kept quiet.) Is his penis somewhat numb? I don't get it. Why would you try to hold the passion and intensity and release inside without vocalizing it? To what end? Are her parents in the next room?

    Look, I guess it should be a bit embarrassing, but my NEIGHBORS can tell I'm about to cum, if our windows are open. That's what orgasms are all about. No other explicit "warning" is necessary.

  • I learned that lesson in courtesy the hard way, haha. First time I ever got neck it just didn't even occur to me to tell her or that she might be squeamish about it. Long story short, she recoiled quickly, and I ended up having to change my shirt😂😂😂😂

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  • I like 'warnings' because nothing sounds hotter to my ears then him saying 'baby... I'm gonna cum'. Not that I need them, of course. I mean the body-language and grunts are pretty telling.

    • Is that so hmmmmmmm

  • If you're giving a blowjob you need to know there's going to be cum. Why is the warning needed? Just swallow the whole thing and take it as a champ.

    Not on my hair please

    • My ex asked so that she could either pull out and take a cumshot or so she didn't stop sucking as I cum. My current just doesn't want cum in her mouth.

    • I've always wondered about hair. I understand the whole it needs washing thing but what if you were going to shower after?

    • Agree with your ex, the cumshot is nice and keeps sucking until it cums is perfect. Yeah, you need to shower after that but it is sticky, we don't want it on the hair.

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  • I would imagine the warning is only needed for the girls who don't want to swallow it. I like not knowing when it'll come and the surprise that hits me.

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    • I love this answer lol

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  • I mean really... You can feel it coming!! You know... At least I know... That big vein, it starts to throb, then there are three pulsating shots/bursts, then there's cum.

    • Yup. You should never need to "warn."

    • so you know the seeds are traveling and anytime they can fly out.

    • Yes!!

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  • Like, ok yes I do prefer if the guy warns me b4 he cums... but not to the point where I'll get *mad* if he cums without telling me first, but again- warning preferred :o)

    • warning is better than a surprise to the face haha

    • Gosh bless you miss kimmy. Lol

  • My recently departed ex love giving blowjobs, and never had a problem with me warning her or not she took it all.
    One of the main reasons i miss her... lol

  • my ex never asked for a warning, at first i would warn her but its pretty easy to tell when im about to cum because im a moaner when im getting head.
    she was a champ she would keep going during and even after and always swallow.
    after a while she just told me not to worry about warning her so now i take it as girl by girl situation and warn if they ask

  • I like a little hint that it's coming my way.

    • A gentleman warns :)

  • my last boyfriend would warn me. I would pull out out of my mouth at the last second because I like watching the cum shoot out of his thing, it drives me crazy!

    • you must love HJs then :D

  • I don't mind a surprise.

  • I've never given one but id want a warning

    • you'd get one :)

  • she will figure it out when i start fucking he face

    • I guess that's a warning

  • Yes i do

    ,,

    • Because she wants you to or do you just do it?

    • I think girls like to give you a grand finale if you let them know

    • Good point. My ex did ask me to warn her so she could either take a cumshot or not stop sucking.

  • Unless she got my toes curling then she on her own lol

  • A warning is nice but unnecessary.

  • It's just polite to give her a heads up

  • Nope, in the past she knew by my body language

  • well first time i didn't warned she just swallowed everything depends on the girl i guess if you are a gentle you should warn

  • I just voted A to see the answers.

  • I warn, if I did not warm, I would cum in her mouth and she would never ever do BJ again

  • Why would you not "warn"? I think girls just like it when a guy is verbal, as part of talking dirty. "I'm gonna cum" is something they seem to like to hear, and of course that does give her some fair warning.

  • I would warn her

  • If I have a new girl I do warn until I know what she likes

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