It's awesome to cum together but rare. I don't mind if he cums too quick and I don't have to have an orgasm every single time we have sex let alone multiple though I do enjoy them. I get hornier when I'm ovulating so just before I have my period I find it easier to orgasm and often multiple times and very intense. Often after he's cum inside me I like to masturbate or have him rub me or sometimes use a toy on myself while he holds me, plays with my nipples, tells me I'm beautiful and how much he loves me and I have an intense orgasm and will often cry from the emotions, I think that's my favourite. Other times when he doing me from behind and going hard just hitting the right spot I will reach down and rub my clit to a squirting orgasm that pushes his dick out of my pussy as I orgasm.
Seems like he's having a bit of trouble to control himself. There's a very helpful excercise you could do or tell him to do to sort that out and he'll be able to last long enough to make you cum first nearly every single time (talking from experience, I used to have the same issue in my early 20s and went to a sexologist cause I cared about that stuff and since then I nearly never had issues coming too soon again) I'll put it here and if you want take it, and if not just ignore me 🙂 It goes on 3 phases: Phase 1 Basically he (or you if you want) have to start touching himself until he's right about to cum, and stop immediately, he takes a break, maybe stand up and walk a little bit, and then repeat again. Phase 2: Once he mastered phase 1, next thing is repeating the same, but without stopping. Reach the point of "about to cum" and then slow down the touching, but not stop it, and continue, and try to get to that peak as many times as possible without cumming. Phase 3: Once phase 2 feels easy, do the same, but during sex. He needs to reach that point and be able to hold it without cumming. Might take him a while (have some patience) but soon he'll be able to last for as long as he wants 🙂
I rather cum as one.
It is a lovely wild feeling!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Both comming at once basically never happen. If I'm done then ofc he should go on until he comes as well.
Really? I finish at the same time as my partner nearly every time, unless I want to (and feel able to) go for a longer duration (20' or 40' minutes), in which case I try to finish at the same time she finishes for a second or third time, but it gets harder then cause I start getting a bit numb down there and I struggle to finish on demand. But during the first 15 I pretty much can finish when I want so if she's coming, I cum. Is that not the case in your experience?
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