I've done such thing, but it doesn't kill a mood, it makes me hornier and also, I don't see a problem, it's kinda role play. If someone told me that during sex they were thinking about someone else, I'd take it as a role play and would act how they wanted to see me atm.
I don’t agree , if a girl told me she had to picture me being someone else to get off. I wouldn’t feel to good about myself , I would think she must not really be attracted to me that she just using me to get off on , Now if she told me a resembled someone like an actor or musician then that’s tolerable but being in a serious relationship with someone that you gave your heart to tells you after sex that they had to picture someone else would be I stab in the heart in my opinion , I would feel used
That depends on how you perceive stuff. Everything has its pros and cons, so my view doesn't apply to your views about relationships. I think, though, that if someone pictured someone else besides me during sex out of disrespect to me, or lack of love, or just because they were bored with me, I'd feel bad, too, ofc.
Agree , I would feel like I wasn’t good enough for them that they were just using me to get off on , it would totally kill my mood and probably end up ending the relationship and finding someone that wants me for me I have had sex with girls that resembled a famous actress or celebrity and have told them they looked like so and so but I didn’t have to picture them being that celebrity to have sex with them , I had sex with them cuz I thought they were beautiful and they had a good heart and jokingly I would say I just had sex with Jennifer Love Hewitt Now if I told her I had to picture someone completely different then her or who she resembled to get off then I would be a straight up asshole and that’s something I would never do period, if she left and cheated on me , I would completely understand cuz I was a straight up asshole
i'm sure it happens for some people probably in miserable relationships or settling for someone average to ugly looking on a dating app for a one or three-nighter. You know.
But nah. I'd rather not do the deed, full stop. I'd never imagine someone else. Otherwise, what's the point? Rather get myself off with my own hand (s) than settle for less. Yep.
I get the opposite, get turned off because the thought of previous people she's been involved with (consensual and forced) crops up and kills the mood in my mind.
You shouldn't ask to know who she's been with then
I didn't ask, part of being her boyfriend is that she confides in me about her troubles, regardless of what form that takes. And having known her for a while I know her exes
That's irresponsible of her then
I've heard of that and I think it's something used more by couples who are too many years together to spice things up. I also agree with you, if you need to visualize someone other than your partner during sex, you have problems. If this happened to me, I'd share with my partner even if it's hurtful but we could work together to be better
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That's sad and messed up, no.
I agree , but apparently people actually do this , I honestly would stop seeing that person if they had to picture me being someone else to get off
No sir
Tbh no I've not done that. But there was one fuck up in 2006 when riding my girlfriend i called her by my lesbian friends name. I've no idea why cos i wasn't even thinking of her. That one word put and end to sex inmediately
Well we have threesomes a lot with two other girls primarily so sometimes i imagine one of them is there with us. But i never imagine im having sex with them instead. Thats just weird.
It has happened occasionally
To you or did you picture them being some else?
All the time.
Why? ’ lol why do you have to picture someone else?
I sometimes think about my sister during sex. Rather have the real thing but she's not really into that
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