During sex, my boyfriend told me that I’m his sexy little cum dump. Did he mean that as a good/bad thing?

During sex my boyfriend called me his sexy little cum dump. Cum dump is usually used as a derogatory term. He’s dominate, and I really like that, however this is the first times he’s said anything like that to me. It’s just got me wondering what he meant by it. Any thoughts?
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  • It's unclear from what you said. I too am dominant (that's the adjective form) and like to call my partner name like whore, slut and rectal princess as terms of endearment. If he meant it that way, then you need to choose if it's okay with you. If not, then I'd tell him to not use that term anymore. Does he use other quasi derogatory names during sex?

  • That's just him using dirty talk. It's like calling you a dirty little whore or whatever - it's not meant to be taken as a negative, but rather, to break a taboo and thereby be hot and dominant and dirty.

    Don't overthink it.

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  • Dirty talk, he doesn't mean anything bad by that like he is only using you for somewhere to cum only. Guys find it hot I don't know how many times I've called my own self that it drives the guys wild. Lol

  • It wouldn't matter to me if he meant it in a good way or not, I wouldn't appreciate being called that ever, it would be his last time dumping any cum in me.

    • That is the perfect response.

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  • As you said he loves to dominate - so certainly he wants you to be submissive. So, its just a kind of dirty talk; for example -

    I am your master and you are my sex slave
    You are a sex toy - slut, whore etc...
    I will bang you rough and hard and show you your worth
    You are my cum bucket and I will deposit my cum all over your face, mouth, pussy, body and blah blah blah

    It is just the dirty pleasure of having great sex, nothing to be offended about. But if he talks any shit like this beyond the boiling heated up fuck session - he has developed a lowly feeling for you that you are nothing but a fuck material with holes.

  • It means nothing. Just sex talk during sex.

  • He just said it during sex. Didn't mean anything bad by it. How you choose to take that is on you now.

  • This almost feels more like a humble brag relating to your D/s dynamic, where it's made public knowledge how completely owned you are by your master... You have no stated reservations, you just want to explore this idea more.

  • That sounds like it was meant as a compliment

  • I'd guess it was meant in a good way.

  • lol that made me laugh.
    He likes having sex with you.
    Its a weird compliment for sure.

  • Take it as a complement...

  • He's trying to degrade you since that's what girls like.

  • Good, he’s probably into dirty talk and was especially turned on in the moment and though you would like it too.

  • I assume they think it's hot and it helps them get off

  • That’s quite funny I’m sorry

  • If he is cumming inside of you that should mean both of you trust each other enough to have sex without condoms so it's a good thing

  • dirty talk.

  • what a romantic man lol id would say cum bucket is more good and a dump is bad

  • He's probably meaning it in a good way

  • Good thing

  • maybe he is getting carried away, while having sex..

  • Good

  • Well he's equating your body with a garbage can and his semen as the garbage he puts into it. Take that how you will.

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