During sex with your partner, are you thinking of them or someone else from your fantasy?

[Kelly6]

[ShadowYamihiro]

Only them, if i was not interested i n being intimate with them then i simply wouldn't be. Its dishonest to think of someone else, its not cheating per se but its dishonest, disrespectable and hurtful to the other person, they might not know what you do but over time they will feel it. I would never do that to anyone, even in role-play i see the person in front of me, nobody else

[Dargil]

Sometimes when have sex or get a BJ, I need a little push to get over the top. I will stream fantasies that help out. They don't have a name. They are just closeups of sexual things I like. I also have an ALL STOP! if I don't want to cum for some reason. They are negative fantasies like old tires, rusty cars or trash piles that diminish arousal.

[Samantha36]

I'm always thinking of my current partner. With my ex I would think of someone else because he was crap. I used to fake my orgasms sometimes too

[Thirsty4more23]

@samantha36 sorry to hear about that with ur ex, glad you’re with someone better now where u don’t have to fake them!

[Katie1964]

I'm thinking about what I'm looking at and feeling next to me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

When I was sexually active, I can’t remember of any time when I thought of someone else.

Here I had a hot-blooded, alive, sexy man in my arms, who loved me and wanted me. Why would I think about anyone else?

[matchrestore]

I'm thinking about her when having sex with my wife. Hard not to. On the rair occasion I'm not thinking exclusively about her, I'm usually preoccupied with something my anxiety has me fixated on, not another person or a fantasy. That being said, sex is a good way for me to break those anxious fixations...

[TipsyFr]

I wouldn’t dare think of someone else that’s disrespectful I’d feel bad for being a shitty person, that’s just me and my morals though ✌️

[HelpfulWoman]

them. otherwise i wouldn't be having sex with them.

[Billlewis]

I'm thinking about her, but I think about her while I'm masturbating, because I'm never allowed to have intercourse with her... lol

[summiter]

I think of them and how good it feels and the impending orgasm... but at times my mind has wandered to some sex I had before I got married. When I jerk off my mind does wander a whole lot more.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Getting banged by Aesop Sharp is what I imagine.

[electromagnetic]

Yikes, I think about my man.

[abc3643]

This is a good question.

When I am actually having sex with her, only her. It is disrespectful - and just wrong - to think of anyone else. If she's willing to have sex with me, she deserves my devotion.

And, my God, what drama there would be if I was thinking of someone else and she discovered that while in the act...

[Kelly6]

she cannt discover it, its in your mind

[abc3643]

Ah, but you forget that, during passion, sometimes names are called out. A W K W A R D... if it's not the other person you are with!

[Jennz6]

@kelly6 true

[OfMiceandMen]

I always think about the person I am with, another person does not even cross my mind.

[Yannae]

She is the fantasy. I'm living the fantasy everytime.

[BCRanger10]

No. And no one should be doing that.

[RedInnocent68]

Hard one! You try, but it’s probably 50/50. Sometimes the fantasy gets you off, sometimes it leads to guilt that shuts you down. Sometimes you’re focused but you get triggered by something that shuts you down…

[Bricealan]

Can't imagine thinking of someone else, even if she is a one night stand?

[AviatorTom]

I'm thinking of her... but occasionally, we'll be doing something different from the usual, and I may think, for a moment at least, of the woman I did this same thing with, perhaps years ago.

[Simslover92]

I'm thinking of my boyfriend

[Nifrayu]

I'm thinking of her.

[saffoler]

Them

[sheikalana]

I'm enjoying the moment. There's nothing or no one else on my mind.

[ProbablyClueless]

Thinking about my partner.