Endowed guys: what's it like to have a big dick?

Question

Do girls treat you differently when they find out your size? What are some drawbacks of being big?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Many girls expect that I'll be well endowed since I'm part African. Some get surprised I'm well endowed because I'm quite short and small built (5'6")

Mine is big soft, both length and girth will show. Also have fairly large testicles as well.

Being from a young age (started being big from 14) and when you come from a poorer household where clothes are often hand-me-downs or anything that could be found at a charity shop meant I didn't have much of an options in terms of clothes. Guess what? Yup you got that right, it is definitely something that can be used as a means to bully you. Some older boys get intimidated the moment you speak to a girl they have a thing for.

Clothes, it can be a problem. Trying to hide it is one thing, it being comfortable is completely a different story.

Oral sex, generally non existent. Most girls don't want to give me one long enough to cum.

Vaginal sex, it is sort of a mixed bag, some girls love it no doubt but it becomes tough to ascertain at times whether she is with me just for sex or more. some girls absolutely hate it. Quite a few girls were afraid of it and quite a few rejected me due to size.

Those that don't like it tend to not like it due to it being painful. Even with lube and her being aroused it still can hurt her when I'm inserting it into her vagina. Had 2 girls that I really liked say to me that my size made sex feel too dominative thus they didn't want it any more.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Undoubtedly.
I've been on OKC dates that were "so-so", but when things get physical, and she cops a feel, the look on her face changes, her voice gets delicate, and I've had girls immediately ask if I make lots of chicks squirt or orgasm. They get verbally, physically & emotionally excited.

UNLESS... She doesn't like big D's.
You can't impress a girl that doesn't like the feel of a big one. If it only causes discomfort, she's not used to it, and no amount of showboating will change her mind.

Drawbacks: foreplay isn't a suggestion, it's a requirement.
If you're big, you HAVE TO warm her up, and loosen up her body.
The good news is, once you get her worked up, and loosened up, you will change her mind.
Most girls that had previously not experienced a large penis that I have had the pleasure of introducing, they become verified size queens.
There is a saying that "good dick will imprison you", and if it's big AND good? She will always think of you when she's with a smaller guy long after you stop seeing eachother.
BUT, you have to know what you're doing.

Garbage technique begets garbage sex.

SolitaireBond · Accepted Answer

OMG... This should make "Interesting" reading! lol :)

Orion1084 · Answer

I can't say that I've ever had someone treat me differently once they found out. I know that I've had women tell some of their friends, at which point they kind of smile at me like they know a secret. In all my life, I've only had one girl come up to me and say, "I heard you have a big dick; can I see it?" She was a huge slut, though, so I don't think that had much to do with me.

Mine is really girthy, which sounds like it would be great, but it's not all you'd expect it to be. It's difficult for a girl to give me oral sex, because it hurts her jaw to open it that far. I've never been deepthroated because of it. Anal sex is completely out of the question. It's not my thing, anyway, but I've been with a couple of girls who liked it, and even they told me there was no way they'd be able to take it in their ass.

Vaginal sex is easier, but it still requires foreplay and lube before she is able to take it comfortably, and even then I have to go slow for a few minutes so that she can adjust. Sometimes me and my girl are both so horny that we want to rip our clothes off and just f*ck like rabbits, but that just isn't possible, unfortunately. I would hurt her.

Lots of people think it would be so great if they were bigger, but they don't realize what they'd be giving up if they were. Most of the women on this site will tell you that they prefer guys closer to average size, and I believe them. Being big can sometimes be a hindrance, and I often wonder what it would be like if I was smaller.

Xelebrum · Answer

One drawback I have to deal with is that whenever I have to shit, it sometimes touches the inside of the toilet and it grosses me out.

Paritosh23 · Answer

I was told the another day- I have never been with so developed penis  Drawback is when i am peeing and then during office hours..

JC103 · Answer

I don't know about the treated differently thing but there's a few down sides; wearing completion shorts, suck! They always ride up and I can never put it to the side. Wearing a cup, impossible! They always pinch. I really can't wait until I get home and just free ball it. It's very uncomfortable for me to lay on my stomach. When I sit down I have the make sure it's too the side. I always have to find the right cut of boxers.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

It's very difficult to handle. Sometimes it tickles my feet and sometimes it creeps on the street. An erection humiliates me in front of everybody. Also, many people think that I have a third leg and that's a problem when I need to buy new pants