Errection problems?

I am 24 years old and and have tried having sex three times now but lose my erection during sex or just when am about to penetrate or put a condom on but during fore play i have no problem with errection. I can get an erection but, as soon as I try to penetrate her, it goes. the prob just started recently have never onced had problem with errection
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  • The problem actually lies in your head and not your penis.

    Your penis just does what your brain tells it to do. ED (Erectile disfunctions) can occur, mainly at your age, when you are fixated about being able to be up to the job, meaning you are going to start worrying that you are not able to get an erection.

    This usually happens after the first time you notice that you don't have an erection. You start to worry that it will happen the next time. And the mind is stronger than your penis. You planted this little seed in your brain that you may have a problem with your erection and now, your brain is taking over and subconsciously affects your erection.

    The only thing is not to think of it and to let things happen naturally. The more you think that you might not be able to get an erection the next time, the more certain it is to happen and you are back at square one.

    Viel Glueck beim naechsten Mal.

    • really thanks since it happened the first time i can't get the fear of it happening again out of my head please is there a way of helping me get over such thoughts during sex

    • There is no medicine except the famous blue pill but at your age, this is definitely not the solution. You have to work it out either by yourself, with your partner or in a therapy session with a specialist. The best way is to involve your partner and ask him/her to help you by relaxing you and changing the way you view your problem. The more you stress yourself and get tense, the worse it gets.

    • thanks a lot

Most Helpful Girl

  • It’s anxiety. You’re worried about performance and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Try to relax as much as possible. It’s just sex. My ex had the same issue. He’d go soft putting on the condom or before he could put it in. He was so frustrated. One night he was on top of me making out, when he got hard, I just reached down and slipped him inside me.. Told him to go without the condom and just pull out. After he successfully had sex once, he didn’t have problems maintaining his erection after that. You might try that just to get yourself on track.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've had the very same problem! I've never had this problem with anything else, just right before Sex. Personally, I take it as a sign that it's not my time yet, and I need to wait. (It also could be because of a difficult or uncomfortable position)

    Another reason could be due to a nervousness or fear of giving pain?

    • thanks a lot

  • First of all that sucks pretty bad if you have that much or problem you need to practice keeping it up by eating properly and that does include stayed away from fast foods in any junk food cuz it may be killing your erection quicker than it started also he made it to nervous is why you lose it to

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  • Go get some Cialis.

  • I think it is nerves. Are you a virgin? Does it stay hard if you are getting a handjob or bj?

  • it sounds like performance anxiety to me so i would advise maybe trying viagra a couple of times and then the anxiety will go as will the need for viagra

    • can the problem not be resolved psychologically

    • yeah maybe but its a lot of effort when a simple little pill could sort it... up to you what you thinks best though. i would also mention it may just pass on its own the more times you are intimate together

    • okay thanks

  • It’s psychological in all likelihood

    • please how can i then locate the problem and solve it

  • That can happen if you have become addicted to porn. Also could be mentally making it happen out of pregnancy fears. Best to check with the doctor.

    • i started mastubating a few month before the problem began. will it be of any help if i stop giving before i never used to mastubate

    • I’ve masturbated since I was a teenager and I don’t have erection issues. It’s healthy to masturbate so no need to stop

    • thanks

  • I suggest discussing this with your doctor.

    • thanks

  • - Try to relax and enjoy the moment without thinking too much
    - Be visual and look at her body clearly with the lights on etc.
    - For now, don’t watch porn etc.

    • thanks

    • You’re welcome. I had the same problem a couple of times but now it’s normal

  • sounds like "nervouness" explain it to you Doctor, maybe they have a pill

  • Get you some winstrol or the equal to it.
    It's an anabolic steroid.
    Or go to the doctor and have blood work done to see where your testosterone levels are at and tell the doc you need weekly testosterone shots. Your sex life will improve you'll get noticeably better physique, etc etc...

  • Go online and just order the pills. Later down the road you will probably snap out of it, and not need them.

    • thanks