@devilish-cutie why is that? I thought women prefer to have someone who know everything
devilish-cutie
+1 y
its not all as it seems, dont believe what generally is said, plenty of girls dont mind if guy has no experience and some as me even prefer it. I prefer it cause i know he ain't a ho that gonna cheat on me, he has no possible children out there, no woman to obsess over cause they shared such intimacy, has no stds, might mean he has some standards etc. And as of him knowing what he is doing? Thats ridiculus. Sex comes naturally as peeing or kissing unless you are retarded. Besides every person is different and you have to adjust to everyone so its not like you have much to "learn". And if there is, its not like he cannot learn on me, better me than some other ho. So dont sweat it, society gets in all our heads making us feel terrible about something that is normal and might be even good thing.
Asker
+1 y
@devilish-cutie thanks for the detail info it was really helpful. I am attracted to older woman who are in their 35-40 and wanted to hookup with them, but I am a virgin hence was thinking about this and also came across many info on internet and friends that women like experienced so thought of asking everyones views, I am not the guy who was a playboy, I was more of a one kinda girl man but my life never gave me the chance to meet the one, I was suggested by my friend to use tinder and meet someone to hookup with as I have been very horny off lately.
Show All Show Less
devilish-cutie
+1 y
I get you. Personally I am also not hook up person, i get way attached and take all very seriously. I think meaningless sex is just empty and i crave emotional connection. Im saying this so you know what you are in for if you are anything like me and chances are that you are as you haven't been hooking up so far. As of your preference with women, you sure can find older one that wouldn't mind your expereince. Plenty would, plenty wouldn't. But for ysf you gotta own it. One that has issues w it isn't for you and done. Sometimes people can have prejudice but later not care and still give it a shot. So its best to go and meet people and see.
Asker
+1 y
@devilish-cutie - cool, thanks a ton for the suggestion and taking the time to answer my question.
devilish-cutie
+1 y
Also, when you attract a woman and she likes you i dubt shed reject you over something like your lack of experience unless she really is nitpicky. Anyways - attitude is you are a man, so ofc you can satisfy a woman. You sure have all you need.
Asker
+1 y
@devilish-cutie - :) I had two matches when i joined tinder, they asked me have you been with someone before I told her this was my first time and bamm they unmatched me lol so that was kinda disappointing as well.
devilish-cutie
+1 y
Well people have prejudice. Maybe dont say that right of the bat. They might think you just want to have sex. You may say something like that you have never been in a serious relationship, only something shorter. also you get the idea about the person when you talk to them.
Asker
+1 y
@devilish-cutie - cool will try that, thanks again :)
What Girls Said
(1)i prefer less experienced guys
@devilish-cutie why is that? I thought women prefer to have someone who know everything
its not all as it seems, dont believe what generally is said, plenty of girls dont mind if guy has no experience and some as me even prefer it. I prefer it cause i know he ain't a ho that gonna cheat on me, he has no possible children out there, no woman to obsess over cause they shared such intimacy, has no stds, might mean he has some standards etc. And as of him knowing what he is doing? Thats ridiculus. Sex comes naturally as peeing or kissing unless you are retarded. Besides every person is different and you have to adjust to everyone so its not like you have much to "learn". And if there is, its not like he cannot learn on me, better me than some other ho. So dont sweat it, society gets in all our heads making us feel terrible about something that is normal and might be even good thing.
@devilish-cutie thanks for the detail info it was really helpful. I am attracted to older woman who are in their 35-40 and wanted to hookup with them, but I am a virgin hence was thinking about this and also came across many info on internet and friends that women like experienced so thought of asking everyones views, I am not the guy who was a playboy, I was more of a one kinda girl man but my life never gave me the chance to meet the one, I was suggested by my friend to use tinder and meet someone to hookup with as I have been very horny off lately.
I get you. Personally I am also not hook up person, i get way attached and take all very seriously. I think meaningless sex is just empty and i crave emotional connection. Im saying this so you know what you are in for if you are anything like me and chances are that you are as you haven't been hooking up so far. As of your preference with women, you sure can find older one that wouldn't mind your expereince. Plenty would, plenty wouldn't. But for ysf you gotta own it. One that has issues w it isn't for you and done. Sometimes people can have prejudice but later not care and still give it a shot. So its best to go and meet people and see.
@devilish-cutie - cool, thanks a ton for the suggestion and taking the time to answer my question.
Also, when you attract a woman and she likes you i dubt shed reject you over something like your lack of experience unless she really is nitpicky. Anyways - attitude is you are a man, so ofc you can satisfy a woman. You sure have all you need.
@devilish-cutie - :) I had two matches when i joined tinder, they asked me have you been with someone before I told her this was my first time and bamm they unmatched me lol so that was kinda disappointing as well.
Well people have prejudice. Maybe dont say that right of the bat. They might think you just want to have sex. You may say something like that you have never been in a serious relationship, only something shorter. also you get the idea about the person when you talk to them.
@devilish-cutie - cool will try that, thanks again :)
no problem, good luck! :)
@devilish-cutie Thanks!!! :)