Even nice shy guys are horny as fuck?

[falafelany1]

He's nice. He's shy. He keeps his distance. He's respectful. He's an intovert. He likes me. He hasn't told me yet. BUT...does he still think about having sex with me? Does he think about me when he masturbates? Is he still horny around me?

[kaylaS91]

I'm sure they are.
As a matter of fact, as long as the individual is human, alive & breathing, they're just as likely to be 'horny as fuck' as the town-whore.

I've always been super shy, very nice, a book-worm, the whole 9 yards. I'm doing pretty well at school and you'll either find me in the library studying or at the gym, yet I bet I'm a MUCH more sexual person than any of my friends. Before I got with my current boyfriend, I had only one semi-serious relationship, wasn't sexually active.

Don't knock it till you try it! ;P

[Ihav2fart]

"Don't knock it till you try it! ;P " AMEN TO THAT!

[falafelany1]

Lol you sound just like me :)

[Anonymous]

I have the same type of situation, though this guy has told me he likes me. He's very shy, and never talks about anything sexual. Even when I said (In a completely non-sexual way) that he could join me in bed so we could just sit and talk, he just said it'd be amazing to do that. So, sometimes I do wonder if a guy like that even think about sex. However, if he does, I'm very happy that he is respectful to my wishes of not wanting to talk about it.

[falafelany1]

Good for you :). Sounds like a nice guy. Do you like him?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, but it's complicated. lol

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

Almost certainly. Trust me, the quiet ones are the ones you gotta watch out for... Ha!

No I'm joking about that last part, but yeah, pretty sure he has naughty thoughts too... just like you do.

[falafelany1]

Good to know :)

[Anonymous]

I'am a nice shy guy and basically like this guy. I will be honest with you. Yes i'am horny, but when i'm around the girl i like i try and not get a boner if she's wearing like a short dress or showing cleavage in the summer lol. I do think about her at times and in all honesty when i masturbate i do also think about her sometimes. I never ever talk about sex when i'm around her but for some reason she talks about blowjobs and dicks and all that stuff. I would say that she is kinda horny with me, but i'm like a low-key horny guy forsure haha

[falafelany1]

Thanks a bunch. Very appreciated

[Opinion Owner]

no problem. I would also that if you are flirty with him, tease him and stuff like that and he likes it or seems to get bugged from it. I guarantee you he likes you back. If you do this stuff. I don't know your style of flirting haha.

[falafelany1]

Thanks!

[AleDeEurope]

Just because he's shy and introvert doesn't mean he doesn't get horny, I'm introvert and shy and I have a higher sexual drive than my friends.
He most likely thinks of how sex will be with you, not meaning he's just thinking of having sex with you, but imagining how it will be. I don't know if he masturbates thinking of you, I've never masturbated thinking of a crush, but I know some guys do.

[falafelany1]

Thanks so much :)

[StrateJoe]

Possibly. Normally I would suggest asking him, but in this case don't. A lot of times when guys like a girl (even shy ones) they do fantasize about having sex with her

[falafelany1]

I shouldn't ask him because he's shy? Also I would be too shy to ask haha

[StrateJoe]

You shouldn't ask him because it is an extremely personal/awkward question

[falafelany1]

If he were my boyfriend I might.

[StrateJoe]

If he were your boyfriend, have at it. He may appreciate you asking him it. he may not. He may or may not answer if you ask him

[falafelany1]

Just gotta tell him that I really like him first :)

[StrateJoe]

Yeah, I would start with that

[User729]

Yes. He thinks about it all the time. This is a HUGE misconception. He is probably more adventurous and into kinkier things than the asshole guy too

[falafelany1]

Good to know, thanks :). Ugh. Hate the obnoxious guys

[User729]

You say tht now, but when it comes time to decide between the nice guy and the asshole, for some reason the asshole always wins

[User729]

Maybe, since he is a shy guy, you should be the one to make the moves and be a little bit more forward with sex. It might be actually what he wants, or it might be that he is unsure if you want to go there.

[falafelany1]

I have always liked the nicer guys. Always rolling my eyes at the nasty loud ones.

[jenny_q]

really? Coz i have a guy friend, he is like so nerdy. He once inbox me and tell me that he really dislike his neighbour coz he's having sex all the time. i said its free p*rn , but he said like he dislike p*rn ... I don't think he even masturbate... but he's like 19?

[Illusive_Man]

Looks can be deceiving for BOTH of the genders lol
https://i.imgur.com/6Iqxc4p.jpg

[falafelany1]

Lolol

[Illusive_Man]

Did that hit?

[miserybusiness]

Holy fuck that is me right there CODSWALLOP

[falafelany1]

Yupppp

[SensualScribe]

Everyone thinks about sex. It is natural and nothing to shy away from or be ashamed of.

[snuggle_bunny88]

He's still a guy, so yeah, he does. Whether he thinks about you when he masturbates, that's a maybe.

[falafelany1]

Thanks :)

[snuggle_bunny88]

No problem. :)

[kheserthorpe]

Most likely yes, to all of the above. Not necessarily, but most likely.

[falafelany1]

Thanks!

[BarbaraP]

Yes and more than extroverted guys. He's also a virgin so he's kind of boiling inside.

[falafelany1]

Oh goodness gracious. "boiling inside". Hahaha

[BarbaraP]

That's true though, haha

[AkumaKira]

yeah hahaha

[Mesonfielde]

Most likely, yes.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes he does masturbate and he could think about you
when he masturbates.. lot times guys are embarrassed
to let a girl know.

[falafelany1]

Thanks!

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your welcome :)

[Ryosanada]

Yeah, he probably wants you badly.

[falafelany1]

Very good

[micheal727jovanie]

Shy guys are human you know? Does he like you? He never told you. Does he think about having sex with you? I don't know. It depends on how you look like, Does he masterbate to you? if you talk to him a lot then maybe at one point. Is he horny around you? Depends if you see him in the mornings. Or if you guys talk about sex.

[falafelany1]

You don't have to talk about sex for someone to be horny around you. And I know he likes me.

[micheal727jovanie]

True lol but how do you know he likes you if he hasent told you yet?

[falafelany1]

He got me stuff for Valentine's day and he is going to prom with me.

[NonCreativeUsername]

Actually, I'm quiet, introvert, and a loner, and, even though I've never spoken to my crush or know her name, I can say I've never thought about that.

[falafelany1]

Thanks :)

[NonCreativeUsername]

Yea, no problem.

[JackKerouac77]

Of course he does.

[falafelany1]

Of course he does what?

[JackKerouac77]

think about railing you from behind and then tendering kissing your booty

[JackKerouac77]

Woops, that was meant for another question. I mean, of course he thinks about being intimate with you. All straight guys do.*

[zorro8888]

LOL I call BS Jack hahaha

[JackKerouac77]

@zorro8888 I DEMAND A FAIR TRIAL

[zorro8888]

There is NO WAY that "think about railing you from behind and then tendering kissing your booty" was made for another question. We the Jury deem you GUILTY!

[falafelany1]

Shiiit that comment though.

[JackKerouac77]

@zorro8888 I MEANT TO POST IT ON THE "WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE DISH AT THANKSGIVING" QUESTION, I SWEARRRR AHHHH!!! ANARCHY ON GaG! I DEMAND THIS HUNG JURY BE THROWN OUT!

[JackKerouac77]

But yeah, @asker he wants you deep down. The animal inside demands it.

[zorro8888]

Admit your guilt or you will be known as "Jack the Turkey Fucker" >:D lol

[JackKerouac77]

@zorro8888 NEVER! I EMBRACE MY NEW NAME. JACK, THE TURKEY FUCKER IS BORN!!!

[zorro8888]

Damn that name actually sounds awesome lol I concede xD

[ArabianPwincess197]

@Zorro8888 and OP - you guys lol

[girlygirl360]

My boyfriend is shy and never had sex before until yesterday (first time)

[falafelany1]

Hopefully it was with you 😂

[girlygirl360]

Yup first time

[falafelany1]

Was it your first time?

[girlygirl360]

IT actually was and it was bad

[falafelany1]

Ohhh why?

[girlygirl360]

I dont know

[falafelany1]

It isn't supposed to be easy the first few times.

[girlygirl360]

He wants to try tonight again

[falafelany1]

And will you?

[girlygirl360]

Than maybe it will be better today then yesterday my first time I think my bf should go on this sight to get advice about first time sex

[girlygirl360]

If I feel in the mood

[falafelany1]

If it was painful for you then maybe you should wait until you feel better to try again

[girlygirl360]

He is already here so I will do it if I am in the mood tonight first we are having dinner I am cooking

[falafelany1]

Ok good luck! Just because he is already there doesn't mean you owe it to him. If you do it tell me how it goes.

[girlygirl360]

This is my 5 month anniversary present to him just like the present he he he gave me yesterday

[girlygirl360]

Going off line for a while 😘

[girlygirl360]

Back online

[falafelany1]

Well?

[girlygirl360]

Well it was better than yesterday he sleeping over again we go to the same school

[falafelany1]

Yay :)

[girlygirl360]

Sorry was busy doing something so was not on for a while

[idkwtftoputhere]

Shy guys are guys nonetheless, so probably.

Unless you mean this:
https://oi62.tinypic.com/ftlhqs.jpg

[Dandeus]

The introverted shy virgin fantasizes more about having sex with you than anyone else.

[falafelany1]

Good :)

[GoodDogNigel]

Every guy you've ever met and will ever meet will think about being with you. It's just the way it is.

[falafelany1]

Daaamn

[falafelany1]

I only think about that when I really like a guy.

[douride2]

If he's 17 he's horny. Never met on that wasn't. lol hahaha

[akadatank44]

No I don't think so. I would never do that to someone I like but not dated. Would be a little weird. Your key word he's respectful

[falafelany1]

The thing is he is respectful in the way he acts but I have no idea what he is thinking about

[akadatank44]

I think this is all in your head. He probably likes for you for you. Not just sex. If you like him back give him a chance.

[falafelany1]

According to the comments he is pretty horny. Yes I do like him and I think he likes me for me as well.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Seems QA wants him to think of her like that even if he isn't

[akadatank44]

Of course he is fucking horny he's a teenage boy! Doesn't mean he sits in his bedroom jacking off to you. Is there a problem or do you want him to think that way like @ArabianPwincess197 said?

[falafelany1]

Woah @arabian princess and aka... chill hahaha

[wondering_guy]

yes even the nicest of guys and shyiest of guys are very horny, to be honest they are the horniest

[falafelany1]

Awesome

[Ihav2fart]

You know those quiet, shy, nerdy looking guys?
They're secretly horny freaks.
The loud ones who show it aren't as freaky.

[JackKerouac77]

truth

[Illusive_Man]

If it's socially acceptable enough to say out loud and show it , it probably ain't that freaky lol

[Ihav2fart]

@JackKerouac77 All that built up inner freakiness! @Illusive_Man it depends how you play it off.

[falafelany1]

Sounds good to me!

[Illusive_Man]

;3 Probably true.

[LukasTheLovely]

Well absolutely. He has testosterone yeah? His morals just overshadow it. respect to that guy who respects you

[falafelany1]

Thanks :). Yeah I love how he acts around me. He has some other... questionable behaviors but what can is there to do :/

[mechp]

Hell Yeah he thinks about you a lot and especially when he jacking his load off

[jenny_q]

I don't think nerdy guys are really horny...
I had this guy friend, he's like pretty decent looking, very tall and clean look, but he's pretty nerdy e. g. he never had a gf at the age of 19.
he once message me at night saying that he hates his neighbour, coz he's having sex so loud, i sort of tease and said its free p*rn , but then he said not all guys like p*rn ...
So i wonder does he even has 'needs'?

[falafelany1]

I mean that is not what nerdy means but alright.

[Cowboy6666]

Shy guys are more nawty than confident ones... :D

I think he does aerial firing thrice a day... Ahahaha.
Dark horse.

[falafelany1]

Lmao

[jakeofalltrades]

he is a guy after all so he probably is

[meatbat]

Yup most liking thinks about you while jerking off.. I used to be like that lol

[falafelany1]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Yes, he is a heterosexual human and thinks about sex. If he hasn't had sex before then he is likely to think about it more often because it is the unknown.

[falafelany1]

Makes sense. Thanks :)

[Anonymous]

Yes most likely, and it's completely normal. Does this upset you?

[falafelany1]

Definitely does not upset me. I really like him.

[Anonymous]

I don't think there's a way for any of us to know the answer to that. He could be asexual for all we know.

[falafelany1]

That isn't very common but I mean technically he could be.

[Anonymous]

all guys are naturally horny during puberty like girls are. so yes, us shy guys are also horny.

[falafelany1]

Even at 18 years old?

[Opinion Owner]

yes even at 18

[falafelany1]

Ok thanks

[Anonymous]

you bet. some shy people hide the most dirty minds.

[falafelany1]

Love that :)

[Opinion Owner]

nah you dont.. then again not two women are similar... by the way when i liked someone in highschool, if i found her hot, i could think dirty of her. but if i was in love with her? darn no. then she was a sacred thing so i masturbated thinking others so that i dont defile her haha. yup i know im super weird. as for the asexual thing that someone mentioned, many asexuals become like that after giving up on the other sex, not that they are born like that...

[falafelany1]

No... I actually do love that!