Even though sex isn’t love can you still show someone how much you love them through sex?

Like if you agree with most things you’re partner ask for sexually because you care about their pleasure and satisfying them.
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  • Well it's not called lovemaking for nothing, yes people might use that term only for the sake of politeness but there's some truth in that term. Sex isn’t love in casual relationship, but it is very much love in a serious relationship, sexless relationship usually also means loveless relationship. Yes you can show your partner how much you love him through sex, in fact it's one of the best ways to show a guy how much you love him considering how important is sex to most guys, the catch is if he consider you a girlfriend material and just a booty call, most guys want sex from a girl in either case, so it might be hard for a girl to tell if a guy consider it a lovemaking or just sex, unless the girl is married to the guy, and not many girls nowadays wait until marriage. If you agree to do most things your partner ask for sexually if might show him how much you love him, but there is also an catch here, depending on if he sees you as a girlfriend material and just a booty call.

    Actually how often you have sex with your partner is usually a better induction of how much you love him than how much many different sexual things you agree to do with him. There is some sexual things that many girls don't ask from a girl that they respect, and if a girl agree to do those things they might lose respect for her, and see her as slutty, not as a girlfriend material. Personally I have more respect for girls that refuse to do certain sexual things like anal, it shows me that the girl have some standards. If you care about your partner's pleasure and satisfaction it's a good thing, but you better avoid becoming a love martyr. There is things that I would never do for any girl, no matter how much I love her, I might compromise on certain things, but I there is lines that I do not cross and sacrifices that I am not going to make, and my honor is fairly important to me, though as a guy it's quite expected.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ReadyForLovemaking

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/LoveMartyr

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  • You cannot claim to have a mutually satisfying relationship without some sex. But it may be some don't value sexual proficiency as much.

    For example, it may be the husband isn't that good in bed, but is rich or kind hearted. Likewise it may be the wife is rather nippy and annoying, but gives good sex.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sex is sex. Is what happens after what really means something

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  • That's for people who truly love each other

  • In my opinion you are correct. By this your bonding will get more strong. Have a great day

  • Yes. I would ask her if she wants slower or faster etc

  • i can but I don't know how cuz been alone since 2003

  • Fucking yes