Ever had sex with a penis that's bigger than your wrist?

[Anonymous]

We already have lots of foreplay, tons of lube, and it still hurts me. Sometimes it gets better after he went all in a few times but sometimes the pain doesn't really go away. I already went to see my obgyn. She said everything is fine. I asked about the pain. She said it was normal for some women. I don't think it's normal to be in pain during sex? Do you have pain too when you have sex?

[imdaonedatgotaway]

the size of the penis is one of the causes for your pain. just have long foreplay, then go oral then one finger, then two, the three. keep fingering and try to stretch it a little ( don't worry it'll go back to tight) then start by inserting the tip of the dick and go very slow. no thrusting. after few minutes you will be screaming "harder" lol

Important tip: If he's not the one and you don't think your gonna end up together, bail girl. cuz after awhile your girl will get used to his size. and if you two break up, lets just say not all men are blessed down there, and i know girls say size don't matter, which is absolutely true only of your not used to extra large sizes, then you bet it will matter.

I just say it as is

[Asker]

we already do that. if he uses three fingers not next to each other but forming a triangle, he can go in almost till the middle knuckle and he's stuck. he goes in very slow, but it still hurts sometimes never goes away. I'm sure he is the one. we fit very well together except down there. it sounds shallow to break up over penis size.

[imdaonedatgotaway]

kick it up a notch. use toys. smaller then bigger. till it gets more roomy there, and in the meantime, you can finish him off without intercourse till you figure it out. by the way, I'm so sorry to say this, but have seen a urologist? sometimes there could be a medical issue that can be easily solved especially that you say three fingers shaped into a triangle gets stuck. unless he's got some gigantic fingers too lol jk how long been together? cuz if you guys have had sex for months and your girls is not adapting, then definitely need to see a doc. by the way, are you a petite girl? just like guys' dicks vary in sizes, so do girls' vaginas maybe you have a small one which is why you need to see a doc and check before you hurt yourself.

[Asker]

www.lisabousson.com/.../Hand-Shape-600x253.jpg
he has spatula or square hands. do you have slender pianist hands? I don't think 3 fingers is anatomically possible at all. no, I haven't. what kind of medical issue are you thinking of?

we've been together for more than 2 years. the first 1/2 year, I didn't have any pain. he had an accident and we didn't have sex for awhile. When we had again, I took bc and the pain slowly started. I stopped after 9 months, because it didn't get any better. It's been more than a year now, but it's often still painful when he slowly goes in. After a few minutes, it does go away most of the times.

I'm 5'3", normal weight.

[GutterGarbage]

My Advice buy toys just a little bigger then what your use to and up to his size and start stretching it out. Takes time. Take slow and easy. Always lost of lube. Good luck.

[Asker]

you mean during foreplay or like a daily excercise?

[GutterGarbage]

daily exercises

[Asker]

uh.. that sounds more like work than fun.

[GutterGarbage]

Could make it part of the foreplay to help you open up and warm up if thats more fun and less work lol :)

[Anonymous]

Yes but my wrists are very thin so he's not that much above average = it didn't hurt a bit :)

[Asker]

what is the average?

[Opinion Owner]

Approximately between 4.5 and 5.5 inches

[Asker]

I measured my wrist.. it's 5.7 inches :(

[Anonymous]

The only thing I can think of is stretching yourself with lubed big dildos :/

[SomethingWicked]

That would be like shoving a conditioner bottle up my vagina, no thank you.

[Asker]

:( but I love him

[islands7]

Gal it's obviously NOT a good "fit"
sex is fun NOT pain unless kinky fun
so the really bad news is that
you'll BOTH have more fun with others that "fit"
Be friends but go shopping for his replacement

Sigh - DOCTORS, oh my

[Asker]

Is there no other way? Are you the one who voted A?

[islands7]

Vote = E You can look forward to a few months of pleasure after each baby but then it goes back to normal

[Asker]

oh :( I wish the guy who voted A would come forward to share his tips. we don't plan on having kids for the next 2 years :/

[islands7]

Sweety he might be one of those pricks that just wanted to see results in his own way

[bestadviceguy]

Keep your guy! I think his size is not really that unusual...

Does pain vary with position? What works, what hasn't? Have you tried like a couple of dozen positions, to really see?

How long is your foreplay? Lube is fine, but foreplay is required to get your cervix to move up and make room for your guy.

How often do you have sex? I think you're are tense... how is your anticipation of sex now, that it's going to hurt, yes?

[Asker]

foreplay is at least half an hour. I always use my pelvic muscles to expand too. How can I best describe it. It feels like wearing a shirt that's too tight and you can't breath until you flex all your muscles and tear it. From then you can breath no problem.

[Sambelfast22]

I'm a guy but been told I'm very hard to take even with lub.

[Anonymous]

I have a pretty thick one

[Anonymous]

Wait so how big is your wrist because this kind of worries me now because my girth is 6 inches and was his length a problem too?

[Asker]

my wrist is 5.7. my middle finger and thumb touch, but they don't around his penis. there is about half an inch gap, so it's around 6.4, 6.5, 6.6. length is not really a problem, because he can just not go all in.