Ever since my girlfriend took my virginity she uses sex to control me?

She tells me what to do when to do it and makes me do whatever she wants. If she wants to watch a tv show she will say I have you sex I can take it away, if we are shopping togther and she is looking at makeup she will tell me something like If I say to hurry up she will say you want to ever feel my vagina again. She always says I gave you sex okay so do what I what you to do. She is so controlling of me. If I do what she wants she will ride me my dick so it's all worth it. What should I do if I dint do what I do she won't have sex with me everyday
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  • she's manipulative and dominant, you sure she even likes you?
    there are several signs that point in the direction of being a sociopath.
    1: manipulative
    2: win at all costs, she does that by using sex as a weapon
    3: incapable of feeling guilt or shame. she apparently doesn't feel guilty for using you
    4: dominant
    you're addicted to the "good stuff" you know. better dump her dude, that's not a healthy relationship.

  • She's not doing you a favor having sex.

    You're doing her a favor being monogamous.

    • Huh what do you mean

Most Helpful Girls

  • That pussy has you wiped..lmao that's so funny
    I'm pretty sure if you tell a girl that you've only fucked one girl and she was bitch..Their legs would spread wide open so quickly
    Go for it and leave her or at least threaten her like she threaten you
    and say you know what you'll never get the dick again

  • LOL THIS IS HILARIOUS. Don't be such a push over. She is really manipulative and she's silly too. Her vagina is not going to be the best you've ever had. Dump her and find some one else.

  • If you don't like it, then break up with her. If you like it, keep going. If you don't like it and don't want to break up with her, then talk to her about it. It's not that difficult.

    • If I try and talk to her she will take sex away from me

    • Then dump her.

  • That doesn't sound good. You have to find your dominance energy backkkk! Find something that you can control her :) but she doesn't sound like a good girl friend to me :(

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  • Umm, why are you still with her?

    Are you so desperate for sex that you would let this cunt walk all over you?

    Quite sad, really.

  • What how is this a question? Pussy-whipped stand up and be a man ok. You're letting her control the situation. Control yourself and see where that goes (either she'll like that you're not so controllable and predictable anymore or she won't)

  • Literal "pussy whipped"

  • Power of The Pussy
    Dude, you can't let her control you that way. Think about it. She's taking advantage of you. I think you need to break up with her because she does not seem to love you. No girl who loves her guy would say things like that.

  • Dump her ass, then find a girl who will respect you.

  • That's not the only typo in there.
    Dump her or act like you don't care about sex.
    But preferably, dump her.
    She doesn't want a bf, she wants a boy toy.

  • Hahahah do what she says until you get fed up then get a normal gf. This bitch is weird man.

  • huh then just get a second vagina to take of that pressure she gives you. its simple. she is possesing over you and don't think of any downsides. give her a reason to stop that sexual terrorism. does she have a magical vagina?

  • sounds like a female dom.

  • Dump her she is manipulative

  • Dude, stop being such a pussy. Stick you foot in her ass and then tell her to go fuck herself. Find yourself a real woman (there are a few out there). If you can't, you're still way better off alone than with that POS.

  • Don't let her. Stand up for yourself or walk away from this controlling behavior

  • she's not ''controlling'' you, you're just an idiot. are you that addicted to her that you can't control yourself? of course not. if it bothers you, break up.

  • Honestly, you should dump her. I'm sure you'll find plenty of girls who will have sex with you, and not use it as a weapon. I don't understand why people do that. You're in an unhealthy relationship.