Every time I see my boyfriend he wants to cum on me/ my stomach, is this normal?

Should I let him do this every time I see him? Could it be considered degrading? Thanks for your opinions.
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  • Overall, for the most part, I don't believe it's meant to be degrading. Everybody has different triggers or things that get them off. Some guys love the idea of 'breeding' others, i. e. cumming inside. Others totally love the idea of seeing themselves 'marking their territory', i. e. cumming on others. While some are just happy to be able to get off and don't really care where they finish as long as they are allowed to finish, lol.
    I don't see a need to be worried about this. Unless of course it makes you uncomfortable, then perhaps a little chat between the two of you might be in order. Good luck.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • He probably doesn’t mean for it to be degrading. It’s just what turns him in. Most guys like to cum on a girl. However, if you feel degraded by it, you don’t have to do it. Everything in life is a choice.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not even close to degrading. It's normal to cum on women while having sex, even on the face. So he isn't degrading you by doing that if that's what is putting you off, but if it's him cumming on you is what is putting you off, that is unusual but speak to him over it if you really aren't into it. As simple as that.

    • Hell I even have a kink for directly degrading a woman in bed, but that doesn't entail I want to degrade her in real life too

  • He spends MORE time jerking off to porn. Otherwise he wouldn't do that.
    Next he'll want butt-sex, group sex, and or to cum on your face.

    • Yep, he’s asked for butt sex and cum on my face... he also talks about porn a lot. So is this not normal behaviour?

    • No, not at all. This is the result of porn addiction. Very sick. Porn is all fake, so if you watch enough of all that depravity you start to believe it. And then you are no longer able to recognize what real and true romantic man-woman sex is or is about. All of that weirdness wouldn't even occur to a normal person. It's from exposure to all that fakeness.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Do you like it? If so, do it.

  • Let him cum there. Rather you stomach than inside you or on your face

  • Guys like to show off their cum like it's a big accomplishment. If you're not into having his cum on your tummy, tell him.

  • He's probably horny

  • Tell him he can do it as long as he licks you clean afterwards.

  • Not degrading, it is OK. Many guys do so.

  • Guys like cumming on girls it's not degrading

  • Could you specify, is this after you have had sex, or does he just randomly want to masturbate onto you? If so, it would be a little strange yes. Maybe try to do things that you can both enjoy?

    • He just wants to masturbate on me all the time. He also always wants to have sex

    • You should try to change the dynamic and check if he wants to do romantic things too. Do you think he truly loves you? And also, make sure this sexual activity is enjoyable for both of you and that he wants to please you too.

  • Yes this is very normal

  • it sounds like he sees you as VERY sexy... be glad. It's up to you if you let him. Do you enjoy seeing his face when he cums? you should be very pleased...

  • Why would it be degrading?

  • It’s fine it’s just his fetish I always ask my girlfriend where she wants me to cum 97 percent of the time it’s in her sometimes I can do it on her

  • Definitely normal

  • id hope so

  • its fine

  • Not a big deal, isn't it? Its not in your mouth or in your face.. Important is that he loves you.. isn't it?

  • Why would that be degrading? Do you understand the whole sex thing? Why would you think that is degrading?

    Do you believe that frequent sex is degrading or the place he cums on you is degrading?

  • Tell him he can do it only if he licks it up.