Everyone is offered sex except you. Would you be offended?

You're out with your mates and you've been chatting to a group of girls all night. As the evening ends one of the girls offers one of your friends sex. As they leave, other girls think "I want sex too" and one by one they leave with your friends.

The very last girl doesn't offer you sex and simply says bye. How would you feel? Is she being rude?
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  • No im good ,, sometime when things like this happen there's a good reason
    (* under my breath*) yeah when it's someone else , it just means that I didn't stand up and try I guess and I'm not going to worry about it it will happen again someday when I stand up and do something about it LOL. I wait one minute though that's not my answer my answer is it's because I was waiting for you. Until you got finished asking the question and getting ready to leave I was just going to go with you there that's my answer

Most Helpful Guy

  • Been there done that, the joys of a gooseberry at times.

    been out with mates and sometimes been the one to tap off with a girl, other times the one getting a taxi back alone lol.

    it’s life it happens, pointless getting upset, offended by it.

    there is always next weekend.

    She’s not being rude, I’ve had option of the last choice and have chosen solitary taxi ride home, sometimes you know it’s not worth the sex.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes I’d be offended. Feeling left out of an activity, even sex, is a horrible feeling. I’ve had this happen and it was very rude for them to suggest it but leave me out. If they didn’t want me to be a part of it then they shouldn’t have mentioned it in my presence.
    If you’re with a group of people and they all are talking about going out to eat and then they all leave without you, then it’s understandable to feel hurt. Same thing.

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  • I don't feel entitled to anything, and I don't feel like I owe anyone anything on the nights that I pick up a girl, so, no, it's not a big deal to me. My only competition is ME.

  • Dodged a 'dud'... don't NEED the senseless drama~

  • She is not being rude. She may not be interested in you, or maybe she is just the one that was not interested in connecting with a guy.

  • I'd feel pretty offended and hurt of course. I've never been in this scenario thank god. That would be painful. Surely women fear that happening to them as well.

  • Rude? No.

    I wouldn't want to sleep with a girl who was only doing it because of social pressure anyway.

  • Obviously I would feel bad, but its not like she is entitled to offer me sex and its not that I can force her. So at first I would feel bad but then I would just let it go.

  • Pfff, friends? what friends? actually... what are people?

  • Nah Her choice are her own i respect it.

  • Her loss.

  • I'd be relieved. Even if I did want to hook up, no ones owes me sex. So what if all her friends hooked up with my friends? Doesn't mean she needs to hook up with me

  • She’s not being rude and I wouldn’t be offended. People aren’t required to have sex just because their friends do.

  • No. No one is entitled to sex, if someone dosen't want to have sex with you you just have to accept it

  • I would pretend not to be offended but I might be pissed. It depends on the situation.

  • not offended but maybe slightly disappointed and thinking oh was there something wrong with me and then the logical part of me would be like I guess she simply didn't fancy me or whatever eh time to go home and sleep

  • Nope. Sex hasn't been an issue for me so I'm not bothered.

  • Clearly you didn't need to get laid

  • I would be happy for my friends. I don’t want a one nights stand.

  • No, she's being careful.

  • I wouldn't care that much. For young people sex is the end of life, the be all and end all of everything. I understand that. But when you get a certain age it just isn't that important compared to other things.
    Even if I were young again, it still wouldn't bother me that much. A little put out yeah, but it's not the end of the fucking world. She isn't obligated to fuck me just because everybody is taking people home. Maybe she doesn't feel like sex. Maybe she's having her period. Maybe she doesn't find me attractive. Maybe she doesn't want to sleep with a man she barely knows. Maybe she's too drunk and just wants to crash. All of these are valid reasons not to go home with me. I've struck out with women in bars before. Every man has. It doesn't mean life is over. It just means you move on and try again the next time. You're always gonna get more misses than hits anyway unless you're Tom Hardy or something. Life goes on.

  • I will be offended but it wasn’t like I would take it anyway Some whore that would do that on the first meeting

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