Everytime I sleep with this guy he nuts within 3 minutes. am I doing something wrong?

he said he hasn't had sex in a few months and we’ve hooked up a couple times but everytime he puts it inside me (and im wet) he nuts sooo fast. is there anything i can do to slow down the process or how do i tell him without hurting his ego? I don't know if i want to have sex with him anymore because i never even have time to be pleased. HELP!
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  • I don't know if there is a way around this one. May be babe that's too soon can't we do something about it?

  • Stroke it, When he gets close, Squeeze the head and hold it till be chills. Do that till your ready, then let him blow. See if that works.

  • Nope you are doing something well

  • Some guys just dont last that long. It's just the way it is.

  • No. It sounds like you’re doing it all right. He needs to slow down and take care of you first

  • get a dildo or vibrator and use it on your pussy once he's done.

  • waste of time, you doing with wrong dick, time to change it.

  • He needs to finger you and eat you out then so you get to enjoy it too.

  • Him cumming in 3 minutes sounds like it's almost going too well! You should try to take things slow, and have him pull out if he feels like he's getting close. Maybe he can eat you out while he regains some stamina

  • He needs to slow down. Challenge him to make you cum before him or simultaneously. If he's cumming too soon because you are tight, try using some lube to decrease the friction. Also try different positions such as missionary with your legs spread wide open. You also could try some standard or desensitizing lube on him. If nothing helps, have him eat your until you're close to cumming before intercourse so neither of you will last long. To prolong the session, have him stop and pull out if he's getting close to cumming and you aren't. Have him eat or finger you while he cools down. Another trick is to finger yourself during intercourse so you cum at the same time.

  • Take the edge off dimwit. Give him oral or a handjob the first time around. Obviously you're not that smart.

  • This should improve the more you have sex and the more often. But, just get the first one "over with". Why stop? Go for round 2. Lots he can do (like oral) while he recovers and gets hard again, and by then, you are likely very aroused as well. You can also practice the "start-stop" method with him, but this requires communication. And the main thing (because he might feel bad enough on his own), is don't make it a big deal when it happens. Don't act disappointed. Even the opposite, clap and act happy that you made him orgasm that quickly (ie not making him feel bad about it). "I must be doing my job!" Then, don't stop, keep going. And hopefully he's a guy that care about your happiness as well and not be selfish and only thinking about himself.

    • Another thing you can do (if possible), try just spending time together naked, like if you're watching a movie or something (non sexual). The idea is to get him comfortable with you and being naked together. He's just likely too excited and in his own head right now, that's why I say it should improve on it's own with time and the more comfortable he gets with you.

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  • I'd say the opposite it's you're doing something very right.
    How bout making him stare at a Pic of his grandma. I'm not joking. Mentally he's probably a little too into you. Believe it or not it's not just physical with guys. The mental side will speed up the process. You need to disengage him mentally somehow.

  • he neeeds to learn control himself, also you can always go for a second round after a shower

  • No you are too good for him; so he can't control himself. There isn't much you can do; but maybe you can talk to him and find out if there is a way to keep from cumming so quickly.

  • Then don't have sex with him. I am sure he will find someone else