Everytime my boyfriend fingers me I have the feeling to pee but don't ended up peeing what could be the problem? Any help on how I can squirt?

[Anonymous]

[socair]

just relax more is not what you need to hear.. relax more by all means if thats what it takes but for some being stressed can be the catalyst they need
make sure you have done all you can to be in the right frame of mind
no danger of interruptions
the thought of simply being overheard can be off putting
have you planned for dealing with the potential mess when you do squirt that is a real deal breaker for a lot of women.
you said it felt like you wanted to pee.. then pee, or wait till it feels intense then pee, you might surprise yourself
are you on any medication.. this can be unknowingly inhibiting
is the room temperature right for you
are you in physically comfortable place/situation. or would you prefer not to be
(I had one partner that sometimes wanted me to have really cold hands and/or us be having sex in an quiet but public space where me might be discovered and she sometimes be in position that she found she was struggling to stay in or keep her balance)
or you trying this alone
or with partner (s) ... if so it, or they, the right ones

if you make all these preparation everytime it may help it all feel less contrived remember that it if everything is right will probably happen eventually if its ever going to but don't make it your sole target or you be missing out on just enjoying what otherwise ought to be just another good experience

I have helped several woman achieve this, and I assure you it has to be tailored to the individual at least at first
when/if you are achieving this more frequently it gets to be easier and more spontaneous

[SnowedIn]

If you feel that and you want to, then just relax and let go. If you are one of the women who squirts, you will. Otherwise, the relaxation will add to your orgasm. But, focusing on one word in your question, this isn't a "problem". If you're concerned about it, then recommend talking to your doctor/GP or OB-GYN.

[SueShe]

Just like Don Quixote in his quest to fight windmills, you are looking to achieve something that is more of a myth than anything else.

The ill famous squirting is propagated by the porn industry as something that women are able to do. Nothing could be further from the truth. Very few women are able to urinate like that and certainly not to the extent that the porn industry wants you to believe.

Perhaps you should concentrate on what is possible and not believe those deviant clips that are out there just to brainwash people with all kind of garbage.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank goodness I did not answer this question. Like many others, I totally misread what is being asked. 😞 I hope you are enjoying your week-end! 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya I understand. It also took me a while to try to decipher the question. I am having a foggy week-end and an ideal day for the weekly cleaning chores. The weather is a motivation to stay inside today. I wish you and Mr. B** an excellent week-end. I often think of you and the hectic that is has become your daily routine so short before your know what :-)

[PrettyPriya]

@sueshe It is crunch time. We, like you, are doing many chores this weekend to really get our home ready for our almost month long departure. I like to come back to a clean and uncluttered house. So, there was much work today. At least it has paid off with some time now to cook and relax together. I hope your studies are going well and you are looking forward to your break! 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya The studies are doing very well but they are also depleting my batteries at a quick pace. When are you leaving?

[PrettyPriya]

@sueshe Good to hear they are going well. I hope you get some time to recharge and see your family on your break. We leave this upcoming week but go to the east of the country to dive at the reef. It has been a lifelong dream of mine. So, we will spend a quick couple of days so I can experience that. Then we are onto P**** for the duration and for the chaos. My immediate family and one friend show up the week after we do. The rest just for a few days around the wedding. It is a lot of confusion and coordination to get all those people acclimated and doing their headstands. 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Just be cautious when diving or snorkeling. You might encounter sardines that may appear to be as big as great white sharks. Those breasts always look so much bigger underwater than they are above...

[CindyRuns]

I get the same feeling as I'm building up to an orgasm !!!

[Guy13]

See OBGYN. They’ve heard it all.

[Red_Arrow]

Many say squirt is just pee. Regardless of what it is, working to hold it back or to cause it, lessens or prevents an orgasm for many women. Best solution for those women is to have a waterproof sheet and towels, and don't worry about it. When you feel it coming, let it happen and enjoy it.

[20yearsolder]

Do you orgasm? Tell him to keep fingering you until the feeling goes away.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Squirting feels like you have to pee because the fluid from your skene's gland is a liquid and is ejected in a similar manner. Your problem is you mistake it for needing to pee, so you instinctively hold it in, which ruins the orgasm contractions needed to squirt.

[jayhams]

You have to be able to relax enough to let it go.

[pizzalovershouse]

Probably g spit play happens

[Userben]

i need to see your vagina shape i can help you

[Yellovv]

You shouldn't keep yourself to not pee or not afraid of peeing or squirting let it happen, just try to take pleasure...

[panamared1]

Just relax let your body do what it needs

[Anonymous]

u got a cunt disease he gave u a disease in your cunt

[Anonymous]

It is one of those things that either happens naturally or not at all.

[Anonymous]

You were close to having an orgasm.