Well, I've got three younger siblings all conceived while my mom was on birth control, so I personally don't trust pills to be that effective, but I guess it depends on what risks you're willing to take.
Don't sleep around, focus on finding a long term mate, the sooner the better and you won't feel used, betrayed, etc. A guy will use you if you let them.
I'm finding most guys don't want that anymore... at least with a fuck buddy you feel loved if only for a little while.
There are plenty of guys! Although it is slim as the society we live in is centered around instant gratification. Look around, anyone is available to have sex at anytime. I blame the sexual revolution for being so careless, sex isn't supposed to be so misused by male or females. Research by several organizations, I can put links if you wish, show that the more partners you have before marriage increase the divorce rate. It is quite a crazy thing to see, how promiscuity is killing society. You see, women use to be harder to get, men would have to work to get a woman and if they did, that would be an accomplishment! That is why they would cheer or what not. Now a days, women have lowered their standards so far that men don't have to try anymore and since women give themselves away so fast, men just move on to the next "best thing." Instant gratification. This is why chivalry is dying.
Women sometimes have sex and expect a relationship in return when that won't happen since the guy is focused on pleasure. Now, what I call for is that the majority of women, raise their standards, wait longer for sex, and men will have to follow. There would be no hook up culture if there was no supply. There can be demand, however take away the supply and it dies out. The majority of woman need to do this to save the family unit, this WILL make men raise their standards I. E. not hook up because if they have to work to get a girl they will love her that much more. Anything you have worked to get you love more! Also, if majority of girls do this, the guys won't leave since there is no one to leave to or just not as many as current day. Cheating would go down, divorce rates would go down, pregnancy rate out of wedlock maybe. This is serious now, I hope there is a good guy for you however, the more hook up culture continues, the worse it will get. Cheers, God Bless
if just fuck buddy, then condom. cos not just STDs there are also pregnancy stuff. even tho there are pills type medicine, condoms still help.
Well it depends on how good you are
If your the fuck of the century then he won't bother with other girls
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't suggest ditching condoms with a fuck buddy. But only you can know how trustworthy the guy is.
I mean, he hasn't given me a reason not to trust him... would guys lie about this to get you to not use condoms?
Some guys, sure. I wouldn't, but I also wouldn't be the one floating the idea of ditching condoms in this situation. In my experience, women are more trustworthy so if my fuck buddy suggests it I might go along, after both of us getting tested and some evidence that she's on birth control.
I guess I'll just talk to him more to gauge the situation better. But thanks for the opinion :)
It only feels great to you while he is wearing a condom that's why. BUt since he is fucking with you it doesn't mean he is not doing that with few other chicks.
Well I mean he's said he'd go get tested for me and stuff.. obviously I don't know what he's gonna do after the test...
I prefer no condom too, but I don't wanna risk stds if he's not genuinely going to be with me only.
I don't feel like laughing now.. so please don't make me laugh. STD's never appear quickly, some people don't have any reactions to it at all but still have it. Some STD's take from 6 months up to 1 year to take effect and appears when someone gets tested. Do your research. How about you both start a relationship and make things easier for the world?
He wanna knock you up and ditch your ass
I'm on the pill so that's not gonna happen
Well then the only possibility is that he wanna get more intimate... You sure gonna get a ring lol.. Are you that good in bed 😋
But why? We're not dating..
Stick with the condoms.
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