Experienced people, how would you differentiate between making love and having sex?

Experienced people, how would you differentiate between making love and having sex?
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  • I've gathered enough experience just from having done two different people in total. Making love in my opinion is more passionate and/or romantic. And it lasts a helluva lot longer than sex itself. I like to make love in a fast-paced motion (not hard, but fast like him pounding this puss but not rough enough to hurt me). But although fast-paced, we’re taking our time enough to make it last all day as we flip in all kinds of positions and lick the sweat from eachothers bodies and makeout from time to time, caressing eachothers hair and chests/breasts, etc. there's lots of him grabbing my ass and me biting into his shoulder and so on. Now as for just sex... its more of a quickie type thing. No more than 10-30 mins tops because one or both of us has to be somewhere. there's hardly any kissing or caressing. Just mostly bang bang choo choo train, bust a nut and be out this thang. So yea i prefer making love over sex

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    • Sex is just out to pleasure yourself rather than making love where you please eachother

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  • The first is giving and sharing pleasure. The latter is taking pleasure.

    • I kinda agree

Most Helpful Guys

  • There’s a big difference. Having sex can just be the sexual act, for the enjoyment of pleasuring and being pleasured. Making love has a deeper feeling. It can at times be more passionate, it’s probably more mental than anything else.
    For example, my girlfriend and I meet up with a third for threesomes. Those sexual acts are having sex, And while we have a good connection with the third, it’s not the same love we have for each other when just the two of us make love.

    • I see... n yea its more mental a

    • I mean !*

  • Making love is about romance and passion. You feel it beyond your dick/vagina. You feel it through your whole body.

    Just having sex is solely about pleasure. You want to pleasure yourself, and perhaps give pleasure to your partner. You feel it in you dick/vagina.

    • No doubt in that 💯💯

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  • You can do both in one session. You start out by being affectionate, lots of foreplay and touching, kissing with emotion, oral, and then getting into penetrative sex slowly. You gradually start going faster, changing positions and getting wild and more aggressive.
    You start out making love, and end up fucking her brains out.

  • Emotions.

  • Depends on a few things. Who I am with and where I am at most importantly.
    The back seat of my car outside a club is sex.
    A chalet in the mountains during a 3 day weekend is making love.

  • Making love is more passionate.