Experiences with the pull-out method? I'm really nervous now?

I met up with a guy... this is the 3rd time, every time he asks me to do it raw with him but I always decline bc he doesn't wanna commit to me, and I don't wanna end up pregnant. He kept joking like "my pull out games strong... I've never knocked a girl up... you'll be fine" and I tell him "what about pre cum?" and he says "girls don't get pregnant over that" and I know for a fact it can happen. Well 2 years ago he flew down to see me, we talked about it and I said I would get on birth control so we could do it without protection (mainly for my sanity of not wanting to be knocked up)... I got a free trial of pills and they made me so nauseous so after we did this I stopped using them and he knew that I wasn't on protection anymore... well now it was my turn to fly out to see him... We started making out, and we had all the lights off.. I heard him shuffling around at one point so I literally thought he was putting a condom on... well he then just pulls out and cums on my stomach and I realize he didn't have one on... I said I'm really scared I don't wanna be pregnant and he says your not going to be... but when I was jerking him off before he slide in I could feel some of that pre cum already... I had no vehicle or a way of getting to a pharmacy and had to fly home with no access anywhere in the airport to get Plan B... it's now been 4 days and it says you need to take it within 3 days...

Have you ever done pull out and not got pregnant?
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  • Refuse sex with this idiot.

    Pull out won't work, he can lie about his "pull out game", and precum contains semen.

    He probably believes if you lay on your stomach and do the breastroke or something that all the sperm will fall out of your pussy.

    Refuse sex, and dump him when he starts calling you insulting names and slurs.

    Unless you have an IUD, take the pill, or are sterilized, recognize that unprotected sex WILL get you pregnant eventually. And probably at the worst possible time for you.

    Just refuse. If the man won't respect you and your ability to not be pregnant, he's not worthy of your time.

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  • I’ve done the pull out method quite a bit and not gotten pregnant. Even though it’s like the least effective birth control method, it’s still something like 77% effective…. so the odds are definitely in your favor. Taking plan b and waiting for your period is about all you can do at this point.

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  • I didn't read all of your question detail because all I needed to read is the pull out method, and I'll tell you now it is not a method of birth control.
    Out of every 100 couples who use the pull out method approximately 22 will become pregnant, that's more than one in five. You are literally rolling the dice, or playing Russian roulette. If he isn't prepared to bag it up then kick him to the kerb.

  • Doing that is a really good way to get a mother's day card for the rest of your life.
    All it takes is 1 strong swimmer and it is mommy time.
    He either needs to wear a condom, and those are not fool proof, or nothing but hand, blowjobs until he does.
    He needs to respect your boundaries, if not time to move on.

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  • How does someone who is 28 not know anything about how to get pregnant, or in this case, how to not pregnant? You also should make sure he has a condom on and doesn't take it off or you will be playing Russian Roulette with an automatic pistol.

    • it was pitch black and like i said he was touching his dick area and I thought he put one on... sorry I'm not as experienced as you... don't have guys really ever wanting me so..

    • You don't have to be experienced as this should be common sense. And I'm far from being experienced. To me that is not a bad thing.

  • My ex and I did the pull out for over a year before he decided not to pull out and I got pregnant lol. You'll be ok.

    • okay, I did go and get a Plan B pill just incase... it's been 3.5 days so it's better than nothing...

    • Nothing wrong with being extra safe, but plan b makes me sick as hell and you have to redo it if you puke within three hours so keep that in mind. Best of luck!

    • I made it past the 3 hour mark so that's good! I've been nauseous from the heat so a bit. more wasn't going to hurt lol

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  • Yeah... people I know who tried that method all had... surprises.

  • Especially after a strong, unfinished blowjob, precum is weakly fertile. Any choice to go raw presupposes starting a family or infanticide,

  • It's high risk regardless of what he says. It's your body so you make the rules.

  • It's basically the Russian Roulette of sex acts. Terrible idea.

  • Don't let anyone do something to you that you do not want them to do. No one is worth it if they don't care about your concerns. You're in control of what you allow someone to do to you. If you don't like it then tell him no.

    Please realize if you don't want to end up pregnant there is a chance you will become pregnant this way. If you, him, or both are not willing to raise a child then put a freaking condom on.

    • i didn't know until after that he didn't have one on... that's the thing.. he had flipped over and was kinda fumbling so I thought he put one on. it was pitch black in the room and he just shoved it in me... I didn't know that's the problem :(

  • Pulling out works. Usually. Lol. I’ve been very lucky there. Done it a million times.

  • It’s highly unlikely you’ll get pregnant but it’s possible. U can still get pregnant with a condom by the way too and a condom isn’t a whole lot more effective than the pull out method just saying

    • Incorrect.. as long as you wear a condom properly which is not hard to do. You're an idiot if you can't figure out how to wear one. Stats: "Pulling out isn't a very reliable way to prevent pregnancy. It works about 78% of the time, which means that over a year of using this method, 22 out of 100 women -- about 1 in 5 -- would get pregnant. By comparison, male condoms are 98% effective when used correctly every time."

    • @Friendlybro79 that’s not the data I read

    • That's ok but you are incorrect.

  • I know I couldn't do it when I tried.

  • Not from experience, but would recommend not doing it if doesn't want to commit.

  • I used to do it with my wife quite often and never got her pregnant but we already had kids from not pulling out on purpose and that took awhile, it’s risky but not as risky as trying to get pregnant during ovulating

  • The pull out method is brilliant.