Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Hi. Am I gonna piss people off? Probably, but I really ain’t trying to fuck with people half as hard with this one. Yes, this is male on female since it’s allegedly more common, but if y’all liked it I’ll do a male-on-female one, but it’s not much different.
While I’ve been on hiatus, I still poke my nose in to see what’s up since this place has questions that make me piss my pants. I’ve noticed an influx of: “was this rape?” questions. It baffles me because 9/10, it’s an obvious case of rape. Feminists would have you believe patriarchy is the blame, but I genuinely think there just aren’t serious discussions about rape. There are fake feminazis that tell people rape can occur if you stare at a person too long, like “mental rape” or some ridiculous shit. I think this garbage distorts people’s views on what is or isn’t rape, so let’s just clear some shit up for people.
If you say no to sex, and someone forces sex upon you, regardless of them being your boyfriend, best friend, or whatever. It’s rape.
Him being close to you or otherwise doesn’t not entitled this person to stick their cock in you. No, it doesn’t matter that you didn’t scream, kick or fight – though I would – it’s still rape.
If you are blackout drunk and wake up to someone fucking you with no recollection of how you got there, it’s rape.
Being blacked out means = you can’t consent to anything. You aren’t mentally even awake to say whether or not this sounds like a good idea. Just because you MAYBE said okay before you blacked out doesn’t mean someone can fuck your unconscious body. Once you’re blacked out you are off limits because you can’t say what you want/if you want the shit to continue.
If someone threatens you, intimidates you, corners you, and pressures you into sex to the point that you believe you can’t say NO.
That’s rape. I shouldn’t have to explain this. This is mental, emotional, and physical manipulation. If you do this, you’re a piece of shit and I hope you fall down a flight of stairs.
WHAT IS NOT RAPE:
Saying no to your boyfriend and then relenting and having sex after he starts touching you and shit.
That’s not rape. You consciously decided after he started touching you (albeit reluctantly) to have sex with him. Just because you initially didn’t want to and then decided to just have sex with him for whatever reason doesn’t mean he forced himself on you.
Agreeing to having drunk sex.
There’s a difference between blacking out and being fucked. If you’re tipsy but fully capable of deciding you want to have a drunk bang is on you. Especially if he’s equally as drunk. You can’t say it’s only HIS fault you two had sex because he has a penis. If you were blacking out and he was tipsy, that’s one thing. But if you’re drunk, he’s drunk, you two fuck, you’re self-aware and active in the sex, there was no rape.
Agreeing to have sex after your boyfriend annoys you.
Listen, there’s a difference between coercion and then your man pushing you a little for sex. I’m not talking about aggressive pushing, but:
“Babe, can we have sex?”
“No.”
“Please?”
“No.”
“I’m really horny.”
“Ugh, no.”
“I’ll eat you out.”
“Ugh … okay, fine.”
Kinda similar to the first one, but I had to make it clear.
Being groped or stared at sexually is NOT FUCKING RAPE.
I can’t believe some people think being touched or stared at is the same as rape, it isn’t. It’s harassment or assault depending on what happens. Unless you’re penetrated you don’t have a case for rape, for the love of god.
The end.
~ Love Jane.
What Girls & Guys Said
24 62Thank you, Captain Obvious.
Minor point:
“Blackout drunk” does not mean loss of consciousness. It refers to when you don’t remember what happened when drunk. It means specifically the person wasn’t retaining memory. But hardened drinkers (and some other people depending on how their body reacts) can sometimes be blackout drunk - while barely seeming drunk at all to people around them.
Not only might someone consent to sex while blackout drunk; you can actually commit rape while blackout drunk, and not remember it.
There are ways you can tell someone is blackout drunk which I’ve seen mixed views on whether it’s good to share but you can message me if interested.
Anyway. Don’t get blackout drunk.
Borderline passed out drunk is absolutely rape.
Thanks for writing this take Girl! ✌
I did it just for you babe.
thank you for this information
How about this. If sex feels good for girls than how is rape bad?
Actually... When you give into someone sexually touching you after you already told them "no" BEFOREHAND, that makes it RAPE.
people don't know what rape is? if you don't or can't consent it's rape, how hard is it to understand that? :/
At first I was angry... but then I was like aiiiiiiite...
One does not simply hold Becky accountable for her decisions. She HAS to have a way out. 'Oh shit that really hot guy found out I banged some loser now he's disgusted with me... oh I know...:
http://www.parrotte.net/?p=755
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Well, you can always change your mind too. :)
Wow. Spot on. Thank you.
Someone with brains. Thanks!
To a feminist... ALL adult males are rapists , or rapists in waiting. I have seen / heard some out of this world stupid and bizarre lunacy from the feminists , such as " stare rape " and beyond stupidity..." fart rape " !! Thank you for this !! Genuine rape is a serious crime... deserving serious punishment. Don't get me started on false accusers... a double crime !!
Doogle agrees, Those damn nuns...
Why don't males understand that a no is no. they don't understand that what is rape and how it affect women.
But women love sex and are pleasured by sex. How can it be a bad thing?
what's not true. they love it if it is with person they love
Well that's a lie, do you know how many girls sleepa round? Like they meet guys and have sex with them after like an hour. Most girls have had an least one casual sex encounter, most have had a good few. So no women enjoy sex. Period. They like dick.
You're fuckin awesome
Thanks babe.
What more is not rape?
Agreeing to have sex and regretting it afterwards.
Wow, a take on rape that isn't absolutely atrocious. Wonders never cease.
don't forget having sex with a guy and then regretting it the next day and claiming rape. seen that bullshit a few times
Yeah, I've seen that too. With the way women have flip-flopped on me, I never wanted to risk it. That shit scared me so much in college that I actually had a rule to never have a drunk hook up. I had plenty of opportunities, but the fear of getting called out for rape after the fact all but literally paralyzed me with fear.
Fucking Excellent! Great Submission~ I'm a father of two girls ( grown now) I tried to install this way of thinking on them.. Thank you for being articulate enough for others..
My name is woger, I'm a wobber, and a wapist, I will wape you with my eyes.
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