Falling for a fuck buddy?

I started falling for my fuck buddy and I don't know how to stop it. I don't know what I should say or do. I think I should probably stop seeing him because when we first met we agreed no emotions just sex. Unfortunately, he happens to be a really great guy and I'll probably never be able to date him. He is probably moving later this year and we both agreed long distance sucks. What would you do if you were me?
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  • You are having trouble stopping your feelings from growing stronger and you know how to stop that. If you don't quit seeing him, your feelings are only going to get stronger. What ever you do, your going to be hurt. Never seeing him again will hurt and you will miss him. I know it's hard to find a good man and your situation really sucks. Continuing to see him, even if you don't have sex, will only make it harder on you when you have to let him go. Both of you are right about long distance relationships. They rarely work.

    We often have difficult decisions that we need to make. We need to know when to use our heart versus our mind when making the decision. On this, your heart doesn't want to stop seeing him. Your mind knows logic and common sense dictate that you stop seeing him now. As hard as it might be, you have to do what your mind is telling you in this case. Life really sucks sometimes, especially when it comes to affairs of the heart! I'm sorry you have to go through this. Your situation is why I tell people that friends with benefits is not all it's cracked up to be. Sometimes it works, but much more often, it leads to pain for the one who falls for the other. Often times, it ends what was a great friendship. Human emotions are not something we should play with.

  • I fell for mine also. I just decided to tell her and see what happened (even though she made it clear from day one she didn't want it). She still didn't lol. But it was best in the long run (to find out one way or the other). I was falling hard.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Stop the relationship. Unfortunately it’s to hard to just shut off feelings. You either tell him and see what happens or stop doing what your doing.

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  • Nothing now. Ride it out and part completely and amicably when he goes.

  • I've been in that situation... and it does suck. It actually ruined things in the end, so sadly it probably is best. If you hang on, the emotions will get even stronger when he leaves making it even harder.

  • You should get some hot guys for threesome and gangbang

  • Hahaha, sorry... but the actual percentage of women who can have sex without emotions is what... 2%? 5% ? It just doesn't happen much.

  • You don't, I suggest you distance yourself from him if you don't want to try for a relationship

  • Stop it.

  • If you're not able to handle a friends with benefits situation you shouldn't be in one, nor should you enter one to begin with

    • It wasn't intentional. We met from a dating app. I was wanting to date someone and he wanted a friends with benefits. We talked about it a couple of days after meeting. It was fine until yesterday, but something happened and I kind of just started falling for him. He seems like he might also want a relationship, but it just wouldn't work with him moving. He did mention he might not move, but I wouldn't want him to do that.

  • lmao...