Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
My wife and I were strict Christians from birth with a strict up bringing. We had rules like no hugging the opposite sex. Never be alone with someone. Try not to masturbate unless you need to. Then don't lust after anyone. No sex before marriage.
So of course we were very scared after 2 years of just missionary to share our hidden desires with each other. During our 3rd year of marriage we finally started messing around with things. She got me to try anal after her freind kept raving about it. Which opened up the flood gates with it all. It got us talking about sex. Not just to get us ready for it and if we enjoyed it or how the other could improve. I did not like the idea of anal at all. Just the thought turned me off, however it really turned her on for many reasons and if feels so good for her. So I started doing it just to please her. From that we were talking about things we might like and want to try. One night I was hugging her and I started kissing her neck and she whispered in my ear if I wanted to try something new. Being tired and having not like the last new thing I said now I just wanted the usual. She got up and told me to just sit back and relax. I'll enjoy the new item on the menu. Sure enough I did.
She got down and started giving me a blow job. WOW had I been missing out. It never occurred to me that we should try doing that. Yet here my amazing wife was doing this for me. After that we really hopped on trying new things. We explored the interest and found a lot of things. We both made a list and over a year we took turns trying them out and seeing which ones we both loved and in what order. After about a year and a half we had tried almost every position you could think of. After that she brought up a sex toy that she really wanted to try. It was a dildo that could squirt fake cum. I had no idea in what enjoyable ways she would latter use that toy but I was sure glad that I gave her the what the hell lets try it, ok? So we really got into sex toys for a while. Almost every other week we had a new one arrive. I have no idea what our poor post man thinks of us to this day.
So over time we started finding out where we draw the line for both of us. She draws the line at anything painful or a tail. I draw the line at anything around my dick. I really don't like vibrators anywhere on it. The best thing that we have found was something that had us both very nervous to try and that was to share a double headed dildo. Now it is our favorite sex toy! She loves pegging me in the ass with it while at the same time it is going in and out of her pussy with my dick constantly bumping into her slit her pelvis meets mine.
Next we were to share was our fetishes having lived a proper Christian life we both really were scared that our fetishes and fantasies would scare the other and ruin our marriage. However just the opposite has happened. They had helped us to please each other even more and to make love even more romantic and deep. We will admit that they are strange things that we would have never done if we had just stayed with straight sex and had not experiment around. Her favorite thing to do that she SO loves doing is when I cum deep inside her pussy. Then wait for it to drain out while I eat her delicious pussy. A few orgasms latter and after I have a mouth full of our cum. I cum up and kiss her. Dumping all of our cum and my tongue deep into her expecting mouth. I personally enjoy face sitting. Having her sitting on my face while I dig my tongue into her pussy and ass. I just love it when her clit is poking me in the nose while my tongue is deep inside her folds. There is just something about her planting herself on me in order to be pleasured just thrills me.
The next thing to get over being scared to share was our weird fantasies. How could they ever want to learn that I get turned on by... Her mother is a psychiatrist and she says that those things stem from things in our childhood or early life. If that is true I don't know, but it does reflect that a bit. Her fantasies are unbirth and oviposition. She loves it when we role play something living going inside of her pussy past her cervix and into her womb making her pregnant. She will even walk around after a we have played around. Acting like she was really pregnant with what ever it was inside of her. Soon when I'm ready again we will head back to the bedroom and she will usually give birth to it. We guess it was because she became sterile when she was so young after her cancer treatments. We have a small variety of toys for this also. We have a weird dildo that lays fake eggs on a string inside her. We have small silicon dolls she stuffs up there. We have a silly toy ray gun that she uses to pretend to shrink me before stuffing toy me inside her to keep for a bit.
My two weird fantasies are soft vore and cocking her all the way through. Of course we have a few toys for this also. We guessed that those two came from my family not always having enough food and to make up for me being teased so much in the locker room in highschool. I have a few toys that she cleverly uses to pretend to be cocked. If I am fucking her in the ass she has a fake one pop out of her mouth. Which became our compromise because she just enjoyed me fucking her ass so much. Especially when I was talking to her about it. If I'm throat fucking her. She has a dildo poke out of her cute ass. A few times she recorded it without me knowing and it astonished me at how good she was at making it look pretty consistent and in rythem with my thrusts. However our weirdest fantasy probably is role playing soft vore. We only really role play soft vore on our days off when we feel like taking a long while to enjoy ourselves and all the house chores are done or soon will be done. She will submit and give herself over to me fully.
She prefers to be tied up but I like her untied. We have a special pan that she sits on for it also. It has wheels so it will be easier for me. I get out the oil and I oil her down spending time to tickle her in her various pleasure spots. Then I give her a warm enema that she enjoys calling gravy. I fill her up slowly with the warm liquid. I leave her mouth open so she can continue to talk about the fun stuff that I'm doing to her like stuffing a vibrating carrot dildo into her pussy before I wheel her over to our "oven" Which is just a small tent we put over one of our heating vents. It is only warm enough in there to make her sweat so she is always fine. She makes sure to drink extra water before and afterwards. Every so often I take her out and baste her. With my crum. When she is done I start devouring her, licking her all over and in all the right places. Lovingly and lightly putting my teeth on her maybe if I'm in the mood I lightly bite her. Before I finish her off she goes to the restroom/bowl to let out her gravy. After she lays down and I nibble on her pussy until she can't take any more.
Now you might think that we're so weird and how could we do or enjoy taking part in that stuff. However God gave us these desires and gave us permission to enjoy ourselves in earnest as long as it does not become gluttony. We do have weird desires but we also had to eventually come out about them and share them with the other. Even though we were so scared that the other would not accept it or be disgusted with the other. Often in our church we counsel couples that are not enjoying themselves in bed. "They need to spice it up." So we share out testimony of how we eventually fully opened up to each other. Now we would never enjoy going back to just plain sex. So if you're needing to spice things up with your partner I highly suggest talking it slow and talking outside of the bedroom. Trying things out and building up to sharing everything about yourself to your lover.
One last statement. The other thing is that there is a huge distinction between MAKING LOVE and having sex. Making love is making sure the other is pleased first and worrying about your own pleasure after. Having sex is just having sex to enjoy yourself and get off.
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