Honesty, of course. It's a subject that barely pops up in my mind anymore. It would be a an infinitely bigger blow to my ego if I find out later that she was lying and only telling me what she thought I wanted to hear, rather than just being straight up about it to begin with.
Also I appreciate you calling out that tired old phrase about size vs. technique. That always bothered me, for the reason you stated: they say it's about how you use it, but nobody ever tells you how to use it. That's why I don't even hesitate anymore to ask right off the bat what she would like me to do. Asking incurs little to no embarrassment, whereas finding out later that what you thought was a good idea was actually not doing anything for her incurs a lot of embarrassment lol.
100% honest. I literally don't care at all about my size. If she thinks it's small so be it. 😂
Kool, that's a good attitude. I want every girl on this site to say that size matters. If they all do that, this question will be dead and buried. But as long as they keep saying it doesn't matter, this question will be asked 42 times per day.
My cousin always told me he would NEVER date a redhead. Really?
What's he going to do when Kathy Ireland comes a knocking? lol
The point is that everything matters, but it matters so very little that it doesn't even matter. :)
This just reminded me to a guy I saw for a few weeks. He turned out to be an idiot at the end so I didn't feel the need to spare his feelings about his 3 inch dick and 20 second. Ironically, he thought I was lying as "he didn't have any complaints yet".
Honesty should be desirable I think.
I don't think there's a right or wrong answer. I told my ff the truth, and he liked that.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, honesty is key when it comes to size, if it comes up. Im not the longest, about 6 inches long, but I’ve been told Im really thick (a little thicker than the width of an Oreo). Also Im a grower not a show-er (~2 inches soft).
For instance, before I slept with my ex for the first time, we were dancing and she felt me hard and then later said “has anyone ever told you that you’re really thick”. Then, years later whenever we would get into a huge argument her go to insult was that I had a small dick… not sure if it was her trying to emotionally manipulate me or if she was talking about my flaccid penis. Either way it would bother me until we broke up. Since then I’ve slept with three women and 2 of them said that I was big, one of them said she thought she’d have trouble fitting it inside of her - so I don’t really let it bother me anymore. Plus I usually always please whoever I’m sleeping with, if I don’t I know at least I tried
She sound a bit on the crazy side. All couples get into fights, but it's important to fight fair. She was not.
Let the dickless and brainless rant. Yes, given a woman has enough sexual history, not TV, Internet, or books etc…then being honest is helpful.
If guys are naked enough, the 👩🏻 👀 WILL tell you all you need to know…and if she crack a joke or lude comment or pet nickname then you’re good.
SILENCE from a woman probably is NOT Good.
the bitterest truth is better than the sweetest lies
I think this lyric from Fleetwood Mac's "Oh Well" is more appropriate:
"But don't ask me what I think of you.
I might not give the answer that you want me to."
I dont care what a woman tells me, I dont need her to reassure me about my size. If she doesn't like it then she can leave and Ill find someone else.
If you're a good guy, she's not leaving you. If all you ever do is learn the art of listening, she's going to be stuck to you like glue. That's kind of my point for asking this question. I get so sick of this shit: "If I only have a 4 inch dick, should I give up on dating?" My answer is YES. It's not about your dick, it's about your mind. If your mind is fucked up, then just give up.
So you would be okay with a 4 incher given he is confident?
Bring it. If you get her excited, your single index finger can drive her insane. I'm not anti porn, but you have to admit, it's pretty fucking stupid. It's like they don't put any effort into a story or plot. Why? How hard would that be? lol
The way her body responds tells me all I need to know.
Your last paragraph is totally accurate
yes, time to climb out of that shell. Take off that suit of armor. I know it is hard and it takes courage. You gotta get it done.
Seven, you're wise beyond you years. I love to talk to people and hear their stories. I worked at a country club and one of the dish washers was 17. He told me that he wants to marry a woman who's fucked hundreds of guys. I was floored. Speechless. I asked him why he would want that. I will never forget his answer. He said: "After that many guys, if she still chooses me, she loves me." Holy sheep shit. That's probably the most profound thing I've ever heard, and it came from a 17 year old.
okay- When I was 16 there was a girl I was in love with. I could never tell her even though I was pretty sure she liked me too. When I went away for college there was another girl I really liked. I could not make a move even though everyone told me that she liked me a lot. She started seeing somebody else and I just could not stand it any longer. I went and talked to her and told her how I felt. I really spilled my guts all over over the place. It was the first time I ever put my armor down.
I'm secure in my size. I'm above average but I'm not hung like a horse. I never had any complaints. I just don't like being a grower.
I've heard there are ways around that. Google it.
My way around it is not wearing grey sweatpants
Brilliant.
Larger penis size has an equivalent effect on male attractiveness to women as greater height
I think that height is way more important, because that's attributed to protection and survival.
I'd want her to be honest and that goes for everything. If you're in it to hear sweet lies then I don't see the point of being in a relationship. I'd rather find someone who's dead honest than a liar. If she's not happy with the size then she's free to leave
If she's gagging and fighting to breathe then it doesn't matter what she says.
I'm not gonna ask her questions that i don't wanna hear the answer to XD
I never got that it's how you use it.
It doesn't have motor included in it lol all you can do is rotate abit thrust variations and angles what other ways are there to use it?😂
You are smart but it might matter but it shouldn't matter more than your lover maybe be if for hookup it would be like ok can escape
I want her to be honest. I would rather have a clean break and miss out on the chance to date a woman than actually date or marry her and have us waste each other's time.
I'm a pragmatist and a realist. I don't believe in forcing things. If we're not compatible, we're not compatible. That's not her fault. She has every right to want the dick that she wants.
I’m curious as to what you look like.
I can take dick criticism better than Will Smith can take a joke 😗
I'd rather listen to the song! Studio, not live. In a "small" way, it's a similar ideal..
That's helpful and I appreciate it. I need to learn how to develop a charming personality I guess or something.
Tell the truth about anything. If she needs something bigger and that's the most important thing for her she can find someone else. Size queens have a hard time being satisfied, they can keep looking but it's probably more of a problem with girls that have a high body count.
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