Girls, Female Sexuality vs Male Sexuality?

I have studied this, but have always found it an interesting topic
Would you say that Male and Female sexuality are inherently different? Perhaps Society influences them to be different?

MOST research does point to Female sexuality being far more fluid (and thus women being far more likely to fall under a Non-Heterosexual category than men)
It would appear that their are far more Females who are LGBT than for men... and great many more straight women who are open to experimenting than straight men.

Just wondering what some of the female perspectives are on this
is female sexuality naturally more fluid/lgbt etc?
is it some sort of societal influence?
is there something else influencing this?

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  • Very interesting topic :)

    I heard that it is completely natural to have a sexual/ romantic attraction for the other gender. On the other hand, i believe that the culture/ socialisation / values/ religious and personnel beliefs are important factors. There might be other factors/ reasons to explain this phenomenon.

    I know that for some countries or religions, they do not accept LGBTQ or anything that is different from man-woman relationship. And some of them believe that it is a crime/ sin vs other countries who legalize LGBT weddings for example.

    Celebrities who are openly LGBTQ can help other people to accept the many differences concerning sexual and romantic orientations.

    I also know that watching mostly straight porn doesn't help guy to be open to new experiences. For example, if a young teenager watches straight porn living in north america (boys are raised not to discuss about their feelings, not to cry, to "man up', etc.) but at school he starts looking at the other guys in his classes, he will maybe somehow be conflicted because he wouldn't completely understand why he is attracted that way toward men (since porn that he watches reflect to him that a relationship with woman is totally normal, and any other things do not exist). This teenage couldn't actually talk about it so openly with his friends because he could feel that they will judge him. And he would eventually not tell anybody unless he have a really good relationship based on trust with a friend/ family member/ etc.

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  • Well I think it's definitely more socially acceptable for a woman to question her sexuality. If men question their sexuality then most people think somehow that makes them lose their masculinity where as a woman still gets to keep her femininity. Another big factor is that most people consider it hot for a girl to have "experimented", but it's gross if a guy has. It also generally isn't accepted as well when a guy comes out as something other than straight compared to when a women does (not that it's not hard for both). There could be truth to sexual fluidity with women but I think a lot of it is society's influence.
    This is coming from a queer female by the way :)

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  • I'm bi myself, but I hate these questions. there are a lot of guys out there trying to force the idea that all women are bi and most doing it seem to be trying to do it as a way of degrading women

    • im not attempting to degrade women but merely understand women nor did I say "all women are bi" just that is appears a far larger amount of women are lgbt, than men. and that women seem to experiment far more often than men.

    • sorry if I offended you..

    • you didn't offend me and I'm not surprised more are girls. it's could be more women are but men are also more closed about these things still and I'm not saying your doing that but if you read through the similar questions on here and the comments you'll see a lot of men do.

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  • I don't know the statistics, I only know me. And I know that I am a straight without a doubt heterosexual female. There is no hint of sexual fluidity in me.
    Well, maybe once.

    • Thanks for the MHO!